it’s about being soft and the world eating you up if you don’t harden and the mind numbing monotony of everyday bitterness and no money and petty violence and what happens if your one person decides they don’t want to be your person anymore and who cares about being remembered if you aren’t nice vs who cares about being nice if you aren’t remembered and how terrible small scale tragedies can be even going up against giant horrors like a civil war and what do you do if you hate your home and everyone in it and how do you cope when someone you love uses your love for them to keep you away
















