How to Send a Confession, reply + Rules (redone)
Russian - Как отправлять признания/конфессии, ответы + Правила (изменённые)
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Spanish - Como mandar una confesión, responder + reglas
I still get asked how to send a confession. Don’t feel embarrassed. I never really explained it in the front of the blog or where it’s obvious to see. Like a pinned post.
It’s very simple.
You can use the inbox (Ask me Anything)
You can message. Keep in mind that I’ll know who you are, but everyone else won’t. Just in case you want to be anonymous to me as well.
There’s a Submit a Post option as well. No one has used it yet, but if you want to, it’s there. To be honest, I’ve never handled a Submit post. But I do know the Admin can choose to post it. Can you be anon, I don’t know?
As for how you write your confession. Just type what you’re feeling. You send your confession as if you were talking directly to me. Only instead of me replying to you, I post it in a public blog for everyone else to see and judge.
All confession are anonymous, even if you chose/forget to hide your user.
Now for replying to a post.
First, some quick rules.
Please provide a link to the confession your are replying to. (or at least tell me what confession it is)
The reply function is for you to give an opinion (agree/disagree) without being harassed on your personal blog.
It is not for you to hide away and harass someone.
You can be rude. Just can’t use slurs and other problematic behaviour.
If you have simple comments with nothing to add, please use the notes directly on the confession. The reply message option is for thought out posts. Simply saying “I agree/disagree”, “you’re wrong anon”, etc will not be posted.
Stay on topic to the confession. Off topic replies and replies accusing OP of only being anti because of their otp, when they never mentioned it. (Like an anti NH confession op must be pro NS or anti SS anti must be pro SK). Maybe they are pro, but if it has nothing to do with their confession, keep it out of your reply.
That includes hypocrisy. If a confession, for example, is talking about anti NS with Sakura hitting Naruto, you don’t reply with “what about SS or SuiKa?” (you can write that in the notes, though).
However, you are welcome to base a confession on another confession or reply.
Please do not repeat yourself or what other’s have said. Only new replies will be posted.
If you’re having a debate - that’s fine. But if it isn’t going anywhere, you’ll be asked to move on.
Do not talk about people’s morals. Do not accuse them of condoning a toxic relationship. Do not question their mental state. You can attack the ship, but not the fandom.
The notes you can reply as many times as you want.
If you want to avoid replies and just want confessions, simply just filter out “nsc replies” for shipping and “ngo replies” for general.
How to do a reply for the post/confession itself
Click either “notes” or the “speech bubble”. Type your message where it says “add something wonderful”.
Replies in notes (directly to the post/confession) =
No need
to be detailed / thought-out in your reply. You can answer with a simple “I disagree”, “lol”, “they’re obviously anti/pro X”, etc.
Replies in Inbox/Message = Must have a thought-out reply. You disagree. You elaborate why. (The confession, not the rule I just said)
Onto the Rules/Notes
Problematic confessions are no longer under “read more”. Instead they are tw tagged.
Problematic confessions are now also tagged in their respective ship and character name.
I’ll be reading the notes. And your tags. If you question someone’s morals because of ship preference you get a warning. If you use slurs, tell them to kill themselves, tell them they deserve something terrible to happen to them you get blocked.
Is this all? I’ve probably forgotten something.