So Iโd like to adress some people in the system community. While they may not be out there or big creators Iโd still like to make them known because theyโre still out there doing these acts to others.
Jay, who may be known as Sebastian now, was a ex friend and ex partner of mine. I am not the only person that they have tormented, but one of multiple. I knew them in person and during my time with them they have lied, manipulated, and abused me. They would hit me with objects and then laugh and โapologizeโ then do it again, to the point where I would flinch because I didnโt know if I needed to brace myself against them. They also had tried to force me to believe I was a system before I was ready, causing me unnecessary anxiety and stress. Plus many break downs and prolonging my discovery of myself.
I used to think I was a copinglink before I was a system and during that time we were dating. He would constantly tell me I should โlink toโ characters he wanted. As well as making a comment about being in love with his dad as at the time I was linked to a character whom a mutual friend of ours had an alter of. Jay saw said alter as his โdadโ and when I linked to said character made this comment. He had also asked said mutual friend how big their boyfriends dick was, our friend was 18 at this time, and then asking their boyfriend what it was like fucking a dog due to friend having dog ears in their headspace.
I had broke up with him due to me thinking I was aroace and starting to discover more of myself. He then proceeded to berate me and accuse me of leading him on even though this information was new to me as well.
He has also caused us to split rapidly at the time and when told he was causing this, he deflected and said that I was causing him to split even though I had not done anything but defend myself
If you may find this person please do not harass them. Though they may not be a good person they are still a person. This is just a warning for anyone who may come across them since they are active in the community. Thank you if you have read this far.
