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Gentle Reminder

Book: Winning the war on worry

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I wanna cry till I‘m empty of you.

k.b. // dirty blond - empty of you

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I do not love you less because I write you less; perhaps I love you more because I think of you quietly.

k.b. // letters from josephine reacting to napoleons obsessive letters

Valentines Day Photoshoot ❤️❤️

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Not be to be one of those people, but life improved significantly once I started to exercise consistently, and I became more intentional with what I ate. My health became a priority, and everything started to align again.

Love it or hate it, it makes such a huge difference. Make your well being your highest priority and life will start to flourish in unexpected ways 🤍

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WISDOM

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The High Fashion Olympics by Wisdom Kaye | Part Two 30/30

Part One With The First 15 In Full Screen

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WEEK 2 — Boundaries That Protects Softness

WEEK 2 — PART 4

Boundaries Create Emotional Safety

Your nervous system feels safer when expectations are clear.

The body feels safest in predictability. When it knows what to expect — and what it no longer has to brace for.

Boundaries create that clarity.

When expectations are unclear, the nervous system stays alert. But when limits are defined, the body can finally rest. There is less resentment, less emotional overload, and less internal tension.

You don’t need rigid rules.

You need honest limits.

Boundaries aren’t walls — they’re guides. They tell your nervous system, “You’re safe here.”

💬 LETS CHAT:

What boundary would bring you the most emotional relief right now?

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WEEK 2 — Boundaries That Protects Softness

WEEK 2 — PART 5

Give Less to Feel More

If your nervous system never gets a break, you’re giving too much.

Besties,

Giving endlessly doesn’t make you softer — it makes you depleted.

There is a point where generosity turns into self-abandonment. Where constantly showing up for others leaves no room to show up for yourself.

Pulling back is not punishment.

It’s preservation.

When you give less, you begin to feel more — more present, more calm, more connected to yourself. Softness returns when you stop pouring from an empty place.

This week, let giving be intentional — not automatic. Slow down and watch your reflexes, what are they rooted from?

💬 Lets Chat:

What are you willing to give less of to protect your softness?

theblackfemininesociety

Returning To Softness — WEEK 3

“Discipline & Rituals”

WEEK 3 — PART 1

The Discipline of a Soft Life.

Softness is sustained through gentle discipline, not willpower.

Your softness deserves to be maintained 💐

There’s a misconception that softness means ease at all times — no effort, no structure, no consistency. But in reality, softness collapses without discipline.

Not harsh discipline.

Not punishment.

But devotion.

A soft life requires intention. It requires choosing rest even when distraction is easier. Choosing consistency even when motivation fades. Choosing yourself in small, quiet ways — daily.

Discipline isn’t masculine by default.

It becomes harsh only when it lacks care.

Gentle discipline is what allows softness to stay.

💬 Girl Talk:

What area of your life needs more gentle structure right now?

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Returning To Softness — WEEK 3

“Discipline & Rituals”

WEEK 3 — PART 3

Consistency Over Intensity

Softness grows through consistency, not extremes.

Many women burn themselves out trying to change everything at once. Intense routines. All-or-nothing resets. Big promises followed by exhaustion. Going “cold turkey” without deep reflection and grace for yourself on this journey.

Ladies, softness grows quietly.

Consistency creates calm. It builds trust between you and your body. It allows progress without pressure.

Softness doesn’t require intensity.

It requires commitment.

It requires consistency.

💬 GIRL TALK:

Where can you choose consistency over intensity right now?

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Returning Go Softness — WEEK 3

“Discipline & Rituals”

WEEK 3 — PART 4

Romanticizing Your Life — Gently

Intention brings beauty back into everyday life.

Romanticizing your life isn’t about pretending everything is perfect. It’s about choosing presence. Slowing down enough to notice beauty again.

Softness returns when you treat your life with care — lighting a candle, playing soft music, moving through your day with intention instead of urgency.

This isn’t delusion.

It’s reverence.

When you move gently, life begins to feel gentler in return.

💬 Woman to Woman:

What small moment in your day could you treat more intentionally?