how can you glow up: your 12h - healing, mental health, and spirituality
here's the next hypothesis of how you can glow up using your venus persona. take a close look at your 12h!
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12h virgo (6°, 18°), 12h mercury, and/or 12h ruler aspecting mercury
you may have internalized shame around not being "useful enough" or "perfect."
identify your inner critic voices aren’t even yours - who are they? parents? teachers? society?
replace negative self talk: for example "what’s wrong with me?" becomes "what part of me needs tenderness right now?”
let go of the need to "fix" others in order to feel safe or valuable.
you need routines that protect your nervous system, not over-work it.
overthinking is a defense mechanism - use that energy, shift it to embodiment: yoga, walking, breathwork, etc.
watch out for analysis paralysis in therapy or healing...
sleep hygiene, gut health, and regular bodily care is your medicine.
you thrive with structured routines: daily tarot pull, breath work, journal routine, tea rituals, etc.
create a sacred space for your inner world: have a clean altar, get fresh flowers, favorite scents, etc.
use everyday tasks for your benefit: meditative cleaning, mindful cooking, etc.
finding peace within yourself
simplicity calms your system. think minimal spaces, slow mornings, intentional routines, etc.
don’t underestimate the power of a nap or herbal bath / steamer shower.
replace caffeine with plant-based things: lemon balm, ashwagandha, chamomile, etc.
12h libra (7°, 19°), 12h venus, and/or 12h ruler aspecting venus
aim to heal wounds around resentment, ghosting, and over-apologizing.
reflect on who you became when "being liked" was more important than being authentic.
let go of the need to make your healing palatable. not everyone has to understand it.
forgive yourself for the times you chose pleasing others over your peace.
release relationships without balance - you deserve mutual effort.
you overextend emotionally, then isolate - set boundaries instead.
reclaim your "no" - say it with your chest.
get honest about codependency dressed up as compassion.
create rituals that bring internal harmony: music, movement, etc.
visual meditations - think about balance, symmetry, soft color palettes, etc.
silence as a tool - not for peacekeeping, but to hear your own voice again.
connect with using beauty: art, poetry, fashion, aesthetics, etc.
finding peace within yourself
design a quiet sanctuary for yourself - curate for comfort, softness, and sensuality.
cultivate relationships where you’re not performing. no filters. just you being you.
know that you no longer have to choose between connection and authenticity.
12h capricorn (10°, 22°), 12h saturn, and/or 12h ruler aspecting saturn
you may have internalized guilt for needing rest, softness, and/or space.
evaluate hidden shame, often rooted in childhood or past-life experiences of being punished for emotional expression or intuitive sensitivity.
repeat after me: "i’m allowed to slow down. i’m allowed to feel the way i do. i’m allowed to not be okay right now."
release the belief that you are "too much" if you feel things deeply.
forgive yourself for the years you spent numbing out just to survive. you did what you had to. now, choose differently.
you may be emotionally self-sufficient to a fault - believing nobody else can hold what you carry. rewrite this narrative.
therapy, journaling, or trauma-informed support isn’t just helpful - it’s essential to build inner strength that you can't denied.
name your needs, name your fears, and name your boundaries.
create rituals that include both spiritual depth and practical containment; meditate at the same time daily, journal before bed, practice grounding visualizations, etc.
rest must become part of your sacred routine.
learn to trust silence - it's not emptiness, it is integration.
finding peace within yourself
make space for your peace. have a rhythm for your recovery.
practice holding your own hand when the world gets too loud.
serenity comes not from control, but from learning how to give yourself structure and softness at the same time.
you may carry past trauma around being underpaid, overlooked, and/or emotionally used.
there’s often a fear of being "too much" or "not enough" - never quite at peace with what you offer.
heal scarcity by affirming: "i can be compensated for who i really am" and "i am worthy of more".
anxiety spikes when you feel unstable in the physical realm or unseen emotionally.
prioritize body-based practices: breathwork, somatic therapy, grounding rituals, etc.
talk to yourself like you would a child - gently, respectfully, and reverently.
connect via touch, food, scent, and sound.
try money manifestation meditations or visualizations - you can literally grows your garden, business, and/or bank account.
finding peace within yourself
build routines that feel luxurious and stabilizing - eat good food, get in clean sheets, enjoy the beauty of silence, etc.
surround yourself with items, people, and work that remind you that you are valuable, safe, etc.
realize that you are not just spiritually rich, you’re worthy of physical wealth too.
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