𝖧𝗈𝗐 𝗐𝗂𝗅𝗅 𝗈𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝗉𝖾𝗈𝗉𝗅𝖾 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝖼𝖾𝗂𝗏𝖾 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖺𝗌 𝖺𝗇 𝗂𝗇𝖽𝗂𝗏𝗂𝖽𝗎𝖺𝗅? (𝖤𝗑𝗍𝖾𝗇𝖽𝖾𝖽: 𝗁𝗈𝗐 𝗐𝗂𝗅𝗅 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗒 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝖼𝖾𝗂𝗏𝖾 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖿𝗎𝗍𝗎𝗋𝖾 𝗌𝗉𝗈𝗎𝗌𝖾 𝖺𝗌 𝖺𝗇 𝗂𝗇𝖽𝗂𝗏𝗂𝖽𝗎𝖺𝗅 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗁𝗈𝗐 𝗂𝗍 𝗆𝖺𝗄𝖾𝗌 𝗎𝗉 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖽𝗒𝗇𝖺𝗆𝗂𝖼 𝖻𝖾𝗍𝗐𝖾𝖾𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗂.𝖾. 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗋𝖾𝗅𝖺𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇𝗌𝗁𝗂𝗉.)
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Right away, the major theme here is how people will see you to be uncommunicative. So… you are going to be perceived as being a very critical person whose cut off game is very strong in general and when you’re single, you may be perceived as being very ambitious, and hence, critical of others who aren’t as driven as you, especially men if you’re a straight woman/girl? Also, another thing that’s coming through very strongly is how you might look down on other people’s partners because like… according to you such people shouldn’t even have partners, let alone the amazing people that you know 😭. Logically, you are going to know that everyone is different and these differences make the world colourful, and that even men who do not fit your standards or live up to it do deserve love but you’re going to struggle with understanding the psychology of their partners. It’s not like you are the only critical person on the planet, so are others but you are intolerant to bullshit is all. Unlike people who stay with their partners but criticise them heavily, you are going to be more of the type to make the best decision for yourself and for them rather than trying to parent them, and change them. You are especially going to be perceived to be someone who doesn’t like chanting i.e. repeating the same thing again and again. If you want things a certain way, if the other person isn’t able to respect that after you say it once or at most twice, you’re going to be unable to put up with it. You’re going to feel incredibly disrespected and you don’t like it, you want things to function with understanding, and respect so you’re going to cut people off over seemingly ‘little’ things that will mean a lot to you in principle. It’s not even intolerance actually, usually you correct people multiple times and are too focused on your own thing to be emotionally moved but when it is recurring, and you realise it, it genuinely pisses you off. For example, if you have two kettles and one kettle is for heating water for the toilets because the geyser is broken, and the other is for tea, water, etc. If you state it once to your roommate, friend or partner and they don’t understand but you’re very occupied with other things, and usually are very level headed, you focus on your own thing and don’t have the time to sit around getting upset so you might correct them multiple times but someday, it just hits you, what is going on, and you might either pour down on them but usually, you are too emotionally mature for that, if you have the capacity to, you just get rid of the person. These things are not little to you, they are important and anyone who’s not capable of understanding, and following through with your wishes is not good enough for you and worth your time, and energy so you cut them off. So other people are going to see you as a bit intimidating because of your intolerance but they’ll also see you as being a very understanding, emotionally mature and kind person. You’re going to come across as a respectful, emotionally mature and self regulated person, you usually will lead with love, and will not get angry and I think it’s also because you’re in your own world but due to how respectful, loving, and understanding you are, people have likely taken advantage of that throughout your life and you will continue coming across such people but you’ll have grown immune to such things bothering you because of your experience with them, you’re going to get rid of such people and isolate yourself, focusing on yourself when you’re exposed to situations in which you’re not considered and treated with the love, and respect that you give out and rightfully deserve.
You are going to be perceived as someone who’s uninterested in pleasing others and reasoning with them. You’re also going to be perceived as someone who values work ethic and duty, is often thinking about work, and is able to balance different sides of yourself together and also get along well with different kinds of people but is still an individual, and a bit of a loner. You’re going to have spent a lot of time alone, be it willingly or unwillingly but it’s going to have caused you to seek and receive a lot of self knowledge. I think that one of the ways that you’ll know that you’re god/universe’s favourite i.e. they don’t play about you is by knowing that they don’t play with you. Every time that you’ll have become a part of the wrong crowd or gotten involved in stuff that didn’t align with you, you’ll have been pushed into isolation so you’re going to be perceived to be a very kind and compassionate person but despite this, you’re going to have your own ideas that might be in stark contrast with the rest of the population, and you won’t mind being alone or different because you’re going to be at peace with yourself, people will see that. The thing about being authentic is that you're going to have different sides to you, all of which you'll be equally comfortable with. For example, you’re going to be extremely kind and loving, and will be emotionally mature, intelligent and understanding but you’ll be a distinct individual with your own ideas, and morals and will be very comfortable by yourself, and will be a loner in many ways and will have a tendency towards not explaining yourself, and isolating yourself from people and situations that hurt you rather than communicating, and you’re going to be very critical of people’s characters, morals and drive, and especially, you’re going to be very intelligent, sharply intelligent causing you to be completely intolerant to bullshit so people will struggle to understand you but despite how critical you are of others, you’ll not fall bitter when you feel as though they failed to live upto your standards, instead, you’ll just isolate yourself from them and learn from the situation? One thing that’s extremely obvious is your inclination towards self improvement and understanding. You’re not going to be the type to “this is just the way I am” so you’re not going to be up to deal with people who are not trying to do better and especially, because of how you will ACTIVELY TRY to be better, you’re going to know that it’s very hard to change deep seated ways of being and habits so you’ll know that it’s a waste to try to change anyone which is why you’ll choose your own peace, and sanity over trying to explain yourself, your reasoning, your feelings, your distance, any of it to people. People are going to silently admire your ability to not give a fuck regardless of how loving you may or may not have been in the moment i.e. when you were connected to them and in touch with them. Basically, you’re going to be perceived as being a very no-bullshit person who may be loving, kind and caring at the moment but despite your ability to process emotions, and express them, you don’t care to and will just get rid of people, and situations that aren’t ideal for the sake of your own peace and instead of getting bitter, you learn from such situations, and grow by focusing on where you may have been at fault or how to better deal with people who disrupt your peace. However, it is going to be very circumstancial, you do express yourself well when you feel like you’re at fault and want to do better, you don’t mind apologising, and fixing your ways. You have an attitude of “make me better” towards life so when you notice a mistake or lack on your part, you’re able to express it to others and get better, and are hence, really good at fixing things because you’re like “I’m really sorry if what I said yesterday hurt you, I didn’t mean it like that, I just really wanted us to do it well so you trying to leave early pissed me off a bit, I hope you understand.”
But if others are at fault and especially, if instead of being clear with you, they beat around the bush and are not able to be outright about the way they mishandled you or acted, you think that there literally is not even any point in communication and that there’s no way to reconcile so you just pull back, and move forward, not giving a fuck. People greatly admire your way of being and operating. Earlier, I said that you’re very very intelligent, sharply so and what I meant by that is that, you aren’t one of those people to sit there and question situations, you do but you know what you felt, and especially you’re able to pick up on social cues really really well so when you are being mishandled and treated unwell, and it does not have to be outright, you can pick up on subtle things like other people having talked shit about you behind your back based off their body language and it’s intuitive, you aren’t like reading their body language in a book knowledge basis but you are able to notice the subtle shifts based on what’s common, and what you used to previously experience, you notice little shifts and even you don’t know how you feel it but you just do…? When you do, you become very internal, you become more withdrawn and do have thoughts in your head but even so, externally you’re able to seem fairly controlled, you seem more quiet and… off but you do not let it get to you, you just… it does get to you but it’s more so that you process it to do what’s best for you? So, when such situations take place, people might have not ‘explicitly’ done anything bad to you but they did do something that caused this shift, but they’re not sure as to why you suddenly cut them off or pulled back from them because how could you have even known what took place behind your back? But your intelligence is such that you just… know, you don’t know how but you do so you end up just moving on without explaining yourself to them because you yourself are not sure why you felt such a negative shift in certain ways but you don’t question yourself and as much as people might feel bitter about you being so cold, they also deeply admire it. I think that when people do you wrong and you act distant, they suddenly try to act all nice with you or normal in order to test the temperature with you but they’re talking to the wall because you’re long done with them 😭. You always manage to get your point across without even having to talk at all or you’ll have grown to be that way by then, this was genuinely such a fun spread because of how I could literally feel you having an eyebrow raised or your eyes squinted as you were like “something is different” while in social situations where you’re being excluded or treated differently in some way, the vibe just being off. People are also going to see you to be a very slow person emotionally i.e. you’re going to have an awfully slow pacing when it comes to warming upto people and letting them into your personal life, you will treat them with love on the surface but you’ll not have them be a part of your life in any way? In a way, you’re going to be perceived as being very comfortable with yourself, highly self regulated and not needing or wanting anyone too much so being slow to warm up because you take your time, and you’re going to grow to be very work oriented and will be living passionately, managing different sides of life, and yourself so you’re genuinely not going to feel a lack of personal connections so others are often going to misunderstand you and I’m not even sure in what ways.
They’re going to feel like you have a tendency to charm and trick people in certain ways or aren’t what you say you are. They might think that you’re subtly manipulative and the thing is, it’s not an accurate perception of you. Yes, you are going to know that in life, you receive what you give so you’re going to treat people well and give to them, and because of how you’re able to do this for service workers, etc. who actually do the work as well as powerful figures but without kissing ass, you’re going to receive good treatment and people are going to feel like it is all calculated when it’s really… not? It kind of is your secret to a comfortable and whole life but not in a measured way? Just that you are genuinely doing it with love, genuineness and kindness, and you know it does attract that same energy back seven out of ten times. There’s a chance that some of what I just channelled will be people’s perception of you when you’re still single because another thing that I’m getting is that people will feel like you’re emotionally stagnant just because you’re a loner i.e. you are not creating the emotional connections that you could be creating because of how amazing you are and how much value you put out, and others see in you so some might talk about you behind your back at some point that because you’re single and alone, you expect others to do the same but your standards are severely high so it’s unfair and bitter of you to push that onto them, and feel left out when others are bonding just because you don’t have the same but the thing is… you are not going to be doing anything manipulatively or bitterly? I’m not even sure what kind of energy I’m picking up on but groups of people who are romantically involved might randomly decide that you’re being a bitch for wanting to be included and considered while single, and that if you’re feeling excluded, you’re being ‘pick me’ or ‘bitter’ in some way and they might discuss it behind your back, and based on the way they start acting on the surface, you are able to pick up on what’s going on without even having the knowledge as to how you know and the funniest thing is, instead of being good people who tries to include someone single, they might leave you out even more when you feel left out because in their mind you deserve it and I’m not sure where this logic will be coming from but you’re not going to fuck with it, and will move on with your life. These people are going to see you to be a loner in many ways and having standards that are too high, and as being too critical but yes, they definitely will be shocked as to how you were able to move forward based on your instincts and feelings alone without self doubt or explanations, and I think their perception of you, your partner and your relationship/marriage is coming through the strongest here. If this situation has already happened, it’s a sign of resonation and is going to be a really interesting one for you. If not, I basically predicted two things so 🤷🏻♀️WIN-WIN.
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i) How will others perceive your future spouse as an individual?
ii) How will it make up your dynamic i.e. relationship?
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Other people are going to see you as being a very attractive person. They’re going to see you to be someone who people have a physical reaction to. It doesn’t have to be something exaggerated like you literally make others horny. We don’t really think about other people’s attractiveness like that, no? We think about the reactions that other people have around them. When around you, people will notice that other people seem a little discombobulated. They’ll notice that you cause them to act a bit different than they usually do. You are going to break other people’s sweat. They’ll act a bit nervous. They’ll firstly, either get stiff or move a lot and they’ll have this nervous smile on their face. Those who see you around often but are not comfortable with you yet are going to have a hard time approaching you as well. They might seem conflicted as to whether or not to smile at you, whether or not to talk to you. It’s just your energy. Also, when you’re single, people are going to see you as being someone who is very comfortable by themself and is focused on yourself, and dislikes other people expressing interest in you romantically. Like, you’re genuinely going to seem irritated and angered. I keep on hearing that audio, I’ve been doing so right from the beginning of your reading, I could be wrong about the words but it goes something like “I came to school to read my books and not to fall in love with anybody on this campus. Did you hear me? So stop calling me.” You’re going to seem like someone who wants to be left alone and not bothered. You’re going to have a tendency to act very irritated and possibly get a bit mean to those who are interested in you, and others are going to notice that. People are going to think that you have a lot of zest for life but that you are a bit moody and unpredictable emotionally. It’s not even emotional moodiness in a negative manner but more so that if something hurts you, you are able to empty out your love and emotions for that person, and carry on with your life. You’re going to seem very grounded and comfortable by yourself, and in your life. There’s going to be this sense of you not needing anyone. You are going to be perceived as someone who at the moment that you’re with people, you love them in an overflowing manner but that once something happens that angers you or pisses you off, you are able to almost impulsively end the connection, empty that love and be by yourself. There’s something about you being able to shift your perspective very quickly, almost on an impulse. Another thing is that you’re someone who is not ruled by emotions. You are honestly so admirable in this way. Most people, when there’s a friend group or community involved tend to be very hesitant when it comes to ending connections but you don’t give a fuck. Whenever you’re ending a connection, you think that you are doing so for your highest good. You literally do not give a fuck about having friends or a community if it’s not what you’re looking for. You do not mind losing them especially. You are able to prove people wrong when they see you to be a certain way by no longer entertaining situations and just removing them from your life entirely. So… sometimes, you piss people off without meaning to because your energy is very raw and real, and attractive but it is slightly lacking in softness causing you to rub people the wrong way. Sometimes, people will try to tread around you carefully but in a poor taste manner i.e. they might not confront obvious bullshit but you do not have the tolerance to deal with it so you just cut it out.
You might sometimes say things like “I don’t have friends” and stuff but despite seeming a bit mellow about it at the time, you seem fine by yourself, and extremely selective. The way you cut people off, it will make sense to others as to why you do not have friends but like when you say that you don’t have friends, it’s not even in a loser-esque manner. It’s more so that you’ll have been unable to maintain long term connections because you will have had no tolerance for bullshit and will have been very very quick to cut people off. Others are going to think that you have a really strong sixth sense and that you’re able to pick up on bullshit, and choose not to put up with it very fast. The way you act, the pace makes people think that you probably didn’t give it much thought and just… did it, and that you were fine with the decision you took and have already moved onto the next best thing or are focused on your own life, and the passion, the zest within it. There’s a very big energy of you seeming closed off to connections because you’re driven and focused on your own life, and building it instead. People might think that you often think about the really hard things that you’re doing. At some point in time, there may be duties placed on you that seem like really big sacrifices but you’ll be managing them really well without thinking about them as anything big. You’ll take your responsibilities seriously but others will see you as not having the energy to deal with bullshit when you already have so many things to manage. “I really can’t deal with this bullshit right now.” Is the kind of energy that I’m getting. Also, another thing is that those who are close to you know just how responsible and grounded you try to be, and how driven and dutiful you are so they tend to worry about you because one thing about you is that you are unlikely to feed into negative energy so they’ll see you as being someone who even if you’re feeling overwhelmed and hurt will hold it in, suppress it, repress it, and will not be willing to experience it actively so they’ll worry about you. They could be asking you if you’re okay and you’ll just be like “why is this person asking me this again and again?” And the reason will be that you’re always ‘supposedly’ fine, and there’s no way that someone is always fine which is why they’ll know that even if you’re not, you’ll appear to be. “I’m asking because sometimes I feel like you might not be okay.” Overall, people will just really really struggle to understand you. You’ll be passionate and attractive but not open to connection yet you’ll experience them really well when it’s there in the present moment, you’ll know how to have a good time, and you will also be equally good at cutting people off but sometimes you’ll just say things like “I don’t have friends” but despite seeming slightly mellow at that time, you’re going to be very comfortable by yourself and selective with the people you let into your life or even if you’re open, and present, it takes one thing for you to flip over completely and get rid of them. I don’t think that you even give closures and shit, you just move forward with your life. I’m picking up on people thinking that you have a tendency to suppress your emotions in order to focus on what needs to be done. From the cards here, I’m getting that you’re more of a do-er than a talker so you tend to do a lot for your loved ones - friends, lovers alike and you give from a place of abundance, not expecting much in return but you take inconsideration, and disrespect to heart. You also never say things like “I did this for you”, you never hold what you do for others over your head, sometimes you tend to do big things, sometimes small things i.e. acts of service but you do not look for it to grow anything in your life, you’re doing it purely out of love and because you do have a tendency to sort of feel obligated to do for others but it hurts your heart when they do not have consideration for you.
You are very ‘action over words’ type yourself so you prefer the same sort in your life and naturally, you’re not the type to be conflicted by people’s actions vs. people’s words because you’re programmed to believe their actions, and even if you really really wanted to be, you’d not be able to be fooled by their words because that’s just the way you are programmed. When I say programmed, it could have been external programming i.e. you’re learning it over time or internal programming i.e. you naturally being born this way but either way, that is how you will have grown to be by that time. You’re going to be perceived as being ‘nobody’s fool’ by others. If you do not know what that term means, basically, it means that you’re hard to lie to, trick or deceive. You might also be perceived to be the serious sort who doesn’t vibe too well with jokes. You will still be very playful, fun loving and passionate but you’ll have your limits, and even though you’ll joke, you’ll not vibe well with jokes that you believe go against your values or violate you. Playful but serious, you’re going to balance it well and will not let anyone cross their limits or in fact, sometimes you will but you won’t be their fool, you’ll have too much on your plate as it is, you’ll just move on from and onto better things, situations, and people. I’m picking up on a really weird energy here. I’m not sure if you have experienced any of what I’m going to write next but it’s a ‘future’ oriented reading so it’s more prediction based, but what I’m picking up on is that you’re going to deal with weird people who will be in groups and will treat you weirdly as a group but will all not be open to even each other about how they truly feel about you or how they treated you because it will be very hard for them to accept to even themselves that they did what they did so initially, they might try to act normal and act all friendly after these moments of mistreatment in order to test the temperature or make you rethink things but you just won’t be up for it. Who do they think they’re fooling? Oh my god. It’s almost funny. Like, these people know that you do not play around and about yourself, and your life and have a very serious approach to it yet will try to pull this tomfoolery on you. I just heard a voice say “take that tomfoolery and shove it up your hairy ass.” You do not let a single thing slide but you choose to move past it for your own peace. You’re going to be someone who thinks about things seriously and even if you don’t, you will physically feel heavy, like your heart will feel heavy, you might sigh a lot, and you’ll have no choice but have what happened weigh on you. I think you’ve always had a tendency towards worrying and heavy emotions, even as a kid because you’re passionate, and responsible but this seriousness and sense of duty that you’ve always had, this heaviness and tendency towards worrying that you’ve always felt has caused you to grow comfortable with dealing with heaviness. I was picking up on close ones seeing you as someone with a tendency to suppress but I don’t really think you’re suppressing, you kind of are but you’re genuinely able to deal with things and carry them on your own even if they’re very hard, and you do struggle internally.
You tend to be more focused on dealing with situations efficiently rather than the emotional aspect of it. Wow, also you are going to be seen as someone who even if you have just ended some friendship or whatever other connection(s) that you may have had will continue having fun, interacting lightly and joking around, and doing your work as per usual. The more I look at the cards, the more nuanced it gets. One other thing about you will be that when situations that make you feel happen, you’ll keep it to yourself for a while and will just take whatever action you need to take rather than discussing it with others. After it has passed, you might share it with others but even so, you do not make it their problem and you do not let them influence your decision or make you doubt it at all. People will see you as always having a lot to do and doing it all but also, being playful, and having fun but having your limits there especially with the kinds of jokes that you crack and of course, as walking away from situations in which people are trying to make a fool out of you. Another thing is that people will think that you’re very passionate and generous. Your dutiful and servicing, sacrificial personality is going to cause you to extend yourself, and do for others and that’s going to be one of your charming factors as well. You’re going to be perceived to be facing the world actively, playing your part rather than escaping your duties and having a lot on your plate but finding other things to fill your plate even more, always trying to do more, be more, and biting more than you can chew but managing to chew and swallow it anyway. You’re going to be perceived as being someone who understands your own values and lives by them actively, and is generous and warm with a playful side but is naturally more of the serious sort with many responsibilities upon you, and in terms of romance, they’re going to see you as being a very very devotional partner. Before you even get into a relationship, you’re going to hold yourself to high standards and will live a certain way, and you might say things like “you shouldn’t look at people, once you get used to warming your eyes, it’s difficult to get rid of that habit because we’re creatures of habit after all.” You’re also going to have a tendency of saying serious moral things in the middle of having fun. For example, if someone in the group comments on someone’s ass, you might just “you don’t talk about people like that” in a very calm tone or if someone is like “____ was looking so hot” and you’re like “yeah but he has a girlfriend”, and they try to counter you with a “what’s the harm in looking?” You’ll just respond with a “one shouldn’t look at other people’s partners.” So, when you’ll be in a relationship, you’re going to be perceived to value your partner greatly and as truly being attracted to, and in love with your partner because the thing about you is that you wouldn’t even be with them if you weren’t attracted to them in a manner in which you felt a chemistry and connection with them on many different levels, you just aren’t like that. You’re going to be perceived as doing a lot for your partner and being very childlike with them, and having a lot of playful fun with them, in a very spontaneous manner and as actively choosing your partner from start to end without any inconsideration or inconsistencies. Also as knowing your own value and thinking that you yourself are very attractive, charming, charismatic, and valuable. You’re going to be perceived as a true romantic but in the sense that you do not believe in tragic romantic concepts such as a ‘first love’, “young love never lasts but young love never ends' or ‘the one that got away’.
You’ll be completely over your past, you’ll naturally be the type to move on completely, be it from romantic or platonic situations. “Out of sight, out of mind” is very much going to be the way that you’ll be and obviously, initially that’s not going to be the case but over time, you get over people completely. Like, you will not even have memories of people or think about them until you’re probed in some way. Even so, you might have to really recall. To you, in terms of romance, no one will matter, there’s going to be no first, no memory, no nothing, just them and them, and only them and other people see it. They’re going to see how utterly devoted you are to your partner and keep your eyes lowered or straight ahead at something other than other people when other people are around. It’s going to be very serious to you to not look at anyone but your partner and this thing is going to cause you to never lose that honeymoon phase thing with your partner because in your world, there’s going to be no one but them and you’ll actively be investing so much, and the connection, the chemistry that you have with them, the way they’ll make you feel and act young, you honestly will grow blind to others. I just heard that they’re going to be your vast ocean and they’re going to be the fishes in it, and all the other creatures, all the rocks, all the sea moss, everything within it and far far far away too, at the horizon, as far as your eyes will go, you’ll see no one but them, you’ll feel no one but them, they’ll be all that your world consists of romantically and others are going to see, and adore that. You are not going to be the type to spontaneously or harmlessly look at and flirt with other people, you’ll keep to yourself, and do your own thing and will be very focused on keeping, and maintaining your commitment to your spouse as well as your own work and responsibilities. The thing is, you won’t be doing this for your spouse either so it won’t be a sacrifice, you’ll be doing this because you want to, because you enjoy it, because it aligns with your values. Oh, how precious you are.
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i) How will others perceive your future spouse as an individual?
ii) How will it make up your dynamic i.e. relationship?
This pile was 3,099 words, the extended is 4,130 words. Totalling to 7,229 words.
Right away, you are going to be perceived to have an extreme opinion of the male population and will seem to be highly aware of the patriarchal systems that have been established, and carried out for generations and you’ll seem very keen to break it. I would say that I’m really curious as to why you have such a negative perception of men but the thing is, I totally understand. You are going to think that first of all, men are not logical, they are just lacking in empathy and that they possess this selfish reasoning, and method of acting but that it’s not necessarily them having better logic because they can’t grasp basic and obvious concepts, and the reality of the world at large. You’ll legit think that they’re dumb if they think that patriarchy isn’t real because what the fuck? Hello? Where’s the basic level reasoning skills? You’re going to be unwilling to give men the benefit of the doubt and will not be willing to be a participant in the traditional system that is just patriarchal in nature, and benefits only men. You’re going to be perceived as someone who questions things and your questioning actually makes sense. I also just heard that you’ll lack empathy for men just the way they lack it for women. One thing that you’ll question is why it’s only the man and his family that is considered family while a woman is expected to leave everything behind, and how so many men do not understand that a woman’s family is just as precious as his own and her life is just as important as his own. Men who are unwilling to leave their parents because they raised them and no one can love them like their parents, and genuinely view moving out as abandonment but would be unwilling to live with their wives’ parents, and expect them to leave their parents as if they grew up by themselves, you question it all and you’ll stand against it. You’re going to voice these things out and will be viewed to be quite taboo in this way. I just heard that you might even be labelled to be ‘difficult’ in this way. God forbid, a woman talks sense! However, you’re going to go against what is considered to be traditional and acceptable. You’ll wear what you want to, you’ll act as you want to, you’ll question traditions and not blindly follow them, and will possess a great deal of sex appeal. You’ll pull people in left and right but the thing is, one needs to be a very driven, and strong man to be with someone like you who looks down on men. I just heard that you’ll genuinely believe that you’re a better man than most men because a ‘good man’ is just an average woman but you’re a very driven woman. When you’re single, ever since you were younger, you may have sort of repulsed guys despite them having been attracted to and attached to you because you were too intense, too strong, too much of everything that they couldn’t be even if they wanted to. Some of you may have wondered if there was something wrong with you at some point but over time, as you grew into yourself, you realised that they just couldn’t keep up with and handle someone like you. “They said I’m a masculine bitch cause these boys ain’t really a man.” You’re going to be perceived to oppose everything that a ‘good woman’ is supposed to be - you’re going to be seen as a fiery and egoistic person because you’ll have a strong sense of purpose, and will genuinely be angered by people and especially, men who do not understand what ‘being a man’ is supposed to be and basic concepts such as consent, human rights, empathy, etc., and when things you really care about are violated or misunderstood, you’re not going to be able to stand it. You’re going to be an intense individual and will fight men, women, older, younger, authority figures, ANYONE and EVERYONE who messes with you.
You’re going to be perceived as having a very strong personality and as being a bit domineering but it’s going to be because you’ll first of all, naturally look down on men, and second, if someone offends you, you’re not going to sit there and take it, you’ll fight back. In a way, your intensity, your drive, anything and everything that you are is what will make you so magnetic as well. You’re not going to be a crowd pleaser even if it causes you to experience loneliness and especially, you’re not going to be trying to appeal to men or their families as the perfect girlfriend, wife or daughter in law. I’ve said this multiple times and I’ll say it again, you are going to have an intensity to you that will lead you to obsession, and there’s a saying that says that obsession beats talent every single time. In your case, your obsession will have caused you to build a lot for yourself. You’ll basically have your own money. Ahh, now I’m getting your backstory. So, I’m not sure what has or will have happened in your life but some of you either grew up without a father figure, or without a solid financial background or stability was lacking in some way. However, YOU were one hell of a responsible person, you felt responsible for everything and even as a kid, you could have worried about money, and been very thoughtful of anyone providing for you. There’s a chance that at some point, there was a major upheaval that caused you to take up responsibilities that weren’t truly your lot, you could have chosen to not take it onto yourself but you did and you did so dutifully, passionately, and very well so over time, you naturally started looking down on men especially those who were lacking the same sense of responsibility, passion and purpose as you had. You will be perceived as being a bit unruly because of the way you will hurt people’s egos and act like you’re the boss everywhere but like… are you truly acting? Not only that but you will be extremely attractive while doing this so the way you’ll be attracting men while simultaneously crushing their egos and making them feel like a lesser man than you, and will not be willing to follow the so called traditions that are just built in extremely patriarchal structures and benefits only men but will instead question them while also receiving the envy of women will cause you to have people genuinely doing their best to destroy your reputation while feeling either intimidated or emasculated by you but when I tell you that they’ll still be obsessed. People will fail to understand and see you clearly because mostly they’ll only see this extremely passionate, driven, purposeful, and responsible side of you that will not be too personal or emotional but it is not like you’ll not be expressing these sides of you, you might be but mostly not. You’re going to be a responsible and strong lady, and that’s how you’ll be seen but the truth is that, you will be emotional too and you’ll have a deeply feminine side to you that will remain unseen, and unknown to others. The way that you are, you are going to deal with yucky situations connection wise so while you will be a very valuable person to have around, people are often going to misunderstand you. You are just going to be perceived to be really difficult, all because you’re passionate, wholehearted, driven, independent and question harmful structures that have been around for a long time. You’re going to be sovereign and sovereign women are always seen as, and treated as if they’re foreign creatures even by other women because they’re very male centered, the entire world is.
You are not going to be male centered so you might be perceived as being a bit hyper independent when you’re single but I believe that this is quite a misunderstanding, you are going to want a partner, but you’re also going to be fine without one, you’ll not want one who neglects you or isn’t a good fit for you and you’re not going to want to be the neglectful one either but you are going to have a great deal of sexual desire, and drive or if you’re asexual, you’re going to be a very passionate partner in every sense of the word. For you, your passion will take form as purpose and responsibility, you’re going to be willing to carry the weight of it so you’ll be looking for a partner who’s man enough to match you well. You’ll likely also want them to match your freak 👅. I think that you’ll have struggles getting along with many women because you’re not going to be too romance and male oriented in general, and you’ll have also dealt with situations in which same sex friends misunderstood you doing for them, and wanting the efforts and affection to be returned in equality as you being weird or/and having romantic interest in them? Ugh, I’m so sorry that people who cannot look at life beyond romance and sex will look at you like you’re the weird one for prioritising other connections in your life too. The thing is that many women view friendships to be secondary and usually when they say that they want friends, they’re only talking about looking good, going out, having fun, and clicking pictures so when you being the present, passionate and dutiful person will act like it as a friend, they’ll start acting like you’re obsessed with them because you are a good friend while they reserve everything for romance only and hold only that to the highest regard but well, their loss. You’re going to have so much love to give but because people will have a hard time keeping up with someone like you or/and understanding you who has risen above societal bullshit and patriarchal brainwashing, and is so intense, passionate, driven and dutiful, you’re going to be a bit… frustrated at them for not being what you need them to be and genuinely, just not being understood, and having people meet your drive and character or/and you’ll just intimidate the rest away so in a way you’re going to be really lonely. I think that you might sometimes, at various points of your life, might have felt so… misunderstood and like maybe you were too much somehow? Too intense? Came off too strong? But the thing is, you’ll have never been able to change and over time, will be very happy with who you are, proud of yourself but yes, there’s going to have been some loneliness. It’s the loneliness that will have grown into perceived hyper independence probably. There’s nothing about your emotional world that is coming through here which makes me think that people will not get that close to you to see that side of you, to be aware of it. Also, another thing is that you’re going to crack really explicit sexual jokes and well, the world is only okay with that when men do it so that’s going to add onto the taboo perception of you that others will have. The thing here is that even though you’ll be an opinionated and strong personality, you’re not really going to be asserting yourself in an insufferable manner, it’s going to be more so your energy that will be making others uncomfortable.
When you’re single, you’re going to come off as someone who doesn’t need anyone or even want them but the thing is, there’s going to be so much to you that others will just not see. I keep on getting that even though you’ll look down on men and will have a really strong character, and personality, you’re going to have a fairly zen way of being. It’s just that your energy will stir this discomfort in people. You’re going to have high standards for yourself and others so when people fail to live up to it, you’ll simply just… go mute rather than create drama of any sort but your aura is going to be so dope, it will cause a lot of words to go around. ‘Zen’ by Jennie is a song that will describe exactly how you’ll be perceived by others. “Nobody gonna move my soul, gonna move my aura, my matter. Nobody gonna touch my glow, gonna move my life, my matter. Nobody gonna… all this power make them scatter. No, nobody gonna touch my soul, gonna match my glow. I dare you.” We end up circling back to the same face again. You’re going to be sovereign and people are not going to be able to move you which is why they’ll think, and act as though you’re difficult, the only reason that they’ll perceive you to be as such. What I find to be really interesting that I already pointed out earlier is your containment of emotions and how it will not be visible to others, much if at all. It’s truly admirable and part of what will make you so powerful as well as misunderstood. People won’t be able to use your emotions against you but it’s also going to be sad… how misunderstood you are and how people… don’t know you. One thing though, you’re going to be perceived as having broken your hyper independent thing in order to get with your future spouse. ‘ExtraL’ by Jennie and Doechii was coming through as well. Especially the part that goes “in the boardroom looking bored cause I’m not here for pleasing the men, not here to reason with them. Misbehaved miss push my pen. I can’t tame my passion for him. Can’t keep up, what happened to them? We lapping the men.” Music is a very important part of my channelling so please take the lyrics seriously, they’re as important as the tarot messages in my case and ofcourse, since you’re the reader, in your case too 🙏🏼.
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i) How will others perceive your future spouse as an individual?
ii) How will it make up your dynamic i.e. relationship?
This pile was 2,368 words, the extended is 5,098 words. Totalling to 7,466 words.
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