"And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins."
My Scriptural Conclusion:
If we're going to pray, we must pray for truth to do the right things God wants us to do.
A big one is forgiveness because we must.
If we refuse, we will not allow God to forgive us because forgiveness is for all, not just you.
You can't pick who or when to forgive, or you'll reap what you sow with unforgiveness—all kinds of consequences to your life with your heart.
It is a command of God and His Son is the biggest example of forgiveness and it brings peace for He brought peace between you and Him for your sins so He can love you in eternity with Him because He covered you in His righetous blood.
It'll come down to your own will to let go of bitterness from unforgiveness because it'll hold you in resentment and hate.
Imagine if our God was like that which the world tends to think He is because of the misunderstanding of His holiness and what He's done so that you can be forgiven mistakenly thinking He's malevolent.
Forgiveness destroys relationships and even others you don't even know as you give yourself over to your selfish fleshly feelings, it causes you to hold grudges hurting others who don't need to be hurt by you, and blinds you from your wrongful actions against others who don't deserve the treatment you show them out of your hardened heart, even if someone deserves punishment in which all mankind does for their sin but we're shown God's mercy and forgiveness is easy that our Lord didn't have to show it because He's the Holy God but He loved us too much and so much He chose to because it's the easy way to dismiss transgressions because He made that possible with the cross and God is the One who'll justly handle final decisions for one's eternal punishment or eternal salvation according to their works so you don't have to worry about what someone does to you like God doesn't worry if someone flips Him off in blasphemy, mocking, scoffing, denial, hatred, and abandonment because in the end He is still their God who created them who will judge them.
Heaven is settling these matters on your behalf!
A heart that you choose to have that's full of all wicked attitude will kill you and damn you to hell but a soft heart brings life eternally because there's forever flowing of love and softness of true love actions for everything in wisdom, it's possessing the heart God has so we can be free of sin we don't need to hold onto, we don't have to have a hurting heart because a heart full of hurt of all kinds fills up with darkness and it won't beat for the right reasons like all the reasons for God, otherwise it's like a waste of life that's ticking away...there's no life now there'll be no life after death if you use your heart for what's ungodly.
Let in your heart what feels good, the things of God because the heart is a sacred place where everything is stored, "the heart of."
The only way we'd experience the fullness of God is if we are willing to see the reason why we need to let go of sin so we can fully belong to the Lord, otherwise, you cannot get into His kingdom if don't wanna detach from your sins, depart from your sins and choose your First Love that First Loved you.