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If you consider a woman less pure after you’ve touched her, maybe you should take a look at your hands.
Kaija Sabbah (via wordsnquotes)
Please, I want so badly for the good things to happen.
Sylvia Plath (via thequotejournals)
There is always that moment. That harsh realization that you are killing yourself for no reason.
Michelle K., The Best Answer I Can Give You. (via michellekpoems)
Things To Do To Help You Unwind
Food
Make yourself a cup of tea! Green tea, chamomile tea, peppermint tea (fun fact; peppermint has been proven to help you focus, and retain information - so all of you who are planning a study session tonight, peppermint is your best friend!), earl grey, herbal… whichever you prefer! [Tip: If you are not vegan, and don’t mind having something a bit sweet in your tea; pour in a little bit of honey! It can also help reduce inflammation in the brain.]
Nibble on some chocolate. There is a reason why Remus Lupin recommended it so heartily. Dark chocolate is filled with antioxidants, it can help lower blood pressure - it can even help lower depression!
Have a salad! Spinach, kale, swiss chard, berries, walnuts, avocados, mushrooms, tomatoes, beans, mangos, sunflower seeds… they all help relieve anxiety and depression, and [what luck] they’re all foods that go great in salads!
Creativity
Journaling [whether it’s writing down what happened in your day, your feelings, or art journaling] can help relieve stress, and help your brain process that day’s activities. Also! Journaling doesn’t have to be ‘pretty’, or ‘aesthetically pleasing’. Journals don’t have to fit a certain aesthetic, for them to be good journals. In fact, if you want, set aside another journal specifically for the non-aesthetic things you want to draw, or write! It’s okay to make mistakes in journals, or not have 100% aesthetically pleasing content.
Turn on your favorite mixtape. Listening to music can release endorphins in your brain, meaning a healthier brain which means a healthier self. Listening to upbeat music helps with blood pressure, as well as releases chemicals in the brain that lead to feelings similar to those when having sex, or eating chocolate! While listening to music with a slower tempo, can help relax you and even lull you to sleep. [Just a warning though, listening to slower music can lead to feelings of sadness and worsening of depression. Just try to get to know yourself and how your body works, and work according to that.]
Crossword puzzles! Sometimes putting our attention and focus on something else is just what we need in order to relax.
Blackout poetry is something that is very relaxing, beautiful, and a good way to recycle old books! I went to the library a few days ago, and they had a lot of old books there that no one wanted or read anymore, and I took a couple home, and within five minutes I was invested, relaxed, and inspired.
Play an instrument! It keeps your brain occupied, as well as your hands.
Scents and Textures
Hug/smell a stuffed animal - or even a real animal! Being able to feel/touch and smell something familiar, can be very comforting.
Try aromatherapy! A few drops of lavender oil, mandarin oil, chamomile oil, sandalwood - and much more! - can help you fall asleep, and help make you relax, and in some cases, joyful! Pretty cool, huh?
You’ve heard of paint swatches, but get ready for - you’ve [maybe] guessed it; fabric swatches! You could probably find these at any fabric store, or a hardware store [like where they sell carpets and what not]. They’re pretty inexpensive, and you can make them yourself! Sometimes, closing your eyes and just feeling the things around you, can help a lot.
Miscellaneous
Do some yoga! If you don’t know how to do yoga, YouTube has several videos that might help you learn!
Listen to ASMR! It can take a little getting used to, but here are some of my personal favorite asmr videos!
Download apps! Whether they’re games such as candy crush, or apps specifically for relaxation; they’re worth a go.
Turn on a fan - when you need to fall asleep, it’s best to have some background/white noise (also, you can sleep faster + better if your room and environment is cool).
Just try and take care of yourself, okay? My ask is always open if any of you need to talk <3
-Mabel
A-Z distractions:
A: Alphabetize your CD’s or movies.
B: Bake or cook something tasty, build a pillow fort, blow bubbles, blog, begin a mood journal, build a sandcastle, buy a plant and take care of it.
C: Clean out your room, complete something you’ve been putting off, color coordinate your wardrobe, compliment someone (including yourself), chew gum, count backwards from 100, color with crayons, crochet, cut up fruits, crunch ice, create your own dance routine, call a friend, carve a pumpkin, color your hair, cook a favorite food, cuddle with a stuffed animal, count ceiling tiles, collect sea glass at the beach.
D: Dance, draw, drink something healthy and refreshing, do jumping jacks, dress up, decorate your mirror with positive affirmations and favorite photos, draw on the sidewalk with chalk, doodle on sheets of paper, donate to the less fortunate, decorate a ceramic mug, drive to a farmer’s market.
E: Exercise, eat your favorite snack, enter the secret door, embark on an afternoon adventure, enroll in a class.
F: Fly paper airplanes, find oranges and apples in your fridge and draw silly faces on them, finish homework before it’s due, free write, fold origami, fly a kite, feed the ducks, birds, geese, and squirrels at a park.
G: Go on a walk, get some fresh air, give yourself a facial, go on a long drive, go shopping, go to the library, garden, get a massage, give someone a hug, go to the movies, go to the grocery store and buy yourself some flowers, get a henna tattoo kit, give yourself a pedicure, go to the park and play on the swings.
H: Have a picnic, hang out with friends or family, hug a soft toy, have a good cry.
I: Invite a friend over.
J: Join a gym or a club, jump rope, journal, jog, jump on a trampoline, join in on social activities.
K: Knit something, like a scarf or a dishcloth.
L: Listen to music, look through old photographs, light scented candles or sweet-smelling incense, learn another language, learn the alphabet backwards, laugh at jokes, list your strengths, lie outside in a hammock and watch the clouds roll by, listen to a guided relaxation (x, x, x, x, x), learn calligraphy.
M: Meditate, make a smoothie, make a CD or playlist of your favorite songs, make a list of things you are thankful for, mail a care package to a far-away friend, make a collage with pictures of your favorite things, make friendship bracelets, make a glitter jar (x, x, x, and x), make a notebook filed with song lyrics and quotes you relate to.
N: Name 3+ of your positive attributes, name all of your stuffed animals.
O: Organize your closet.
P: Play with a pet, paint a picture, piece together a puzzle, plan out your dream house, pop bubble wrap, practice deep breathing (5 counts in through your nose, 5 counts out through your mouth), play a board game or cards, play a video game, participate in sports, paint your nails a new color, print out your favorite bible verse (or quote if you aren’t religious) onto a card and memorize it, play a musical instrument, put on your favorite outfit, practice dance moves, punch a pillow, pull weeds in the garden, pop balloons, put on boots and stomp around, play with silly putty or play-doh, put together a scrapbook.
Q: Quietly take some alone time to breathe, calm down, reflect, and relax.
R: Read a good book, ride a bicycle, rock climb, read inspirational quotes, rearrange your bedroom furniture, rip up paper.
S: Spend time with friends, sing, stretch, smile at a stranger, snuggle up in a warm blanket with a cup of hot chocolate or tea, squeeze a stress ball, surf the internet, smell lavender, send a handwritten letter to someone you love, sit outside in the sunshine, style your hair, string a necklace, smooth nice body lotion over your legs and arms, splatter paint, scribble on a piece of paper until the whole page is black.
T: Take a relaxing bath or shower, take pictures of something pretty, tidy up your bed, toss confetti, throw a foam ball at an empty wall, try your hand at a Rubik’s Cube, treat yourself to some ice cream, tourist a city, travel someplace new, take a walk through the woods and breathe in the scent of the trees.
U: Use positive affirmations (such as ”I can do this,” “I am a capable person”).
V: Visit with a friend, visit your local animal shelter and play with the animals, volunteer for a cause.
W: Watch your favorite movie or tv show, write poetry, window shop, watch cute animal videos on Youtube, work on a crossword puzzle, write down your feelings on a piece of paper and then rip it up.
X: eXpress yourself through art or writing.
Y: Try yoga, yell into a pillow.
Z: Zzzz’s - take a nap! Rest is important.
Additional resources:
Click HERE for more self-care activities
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Click HERE for relaxation resources
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My heart is so tired.
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There will come a moment that will change all of this. Nightmares don’t last.
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I could neither quite understand nor cease to feel the hollowness which I was trying to get away from.
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You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.
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There are all these moments you think you won’t survive. And then you survive.
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