Give a Dog a Bone

~ Nick Nakano ~ HNLPDX ~ Twenty years old ~ Waitin' on the world to change

[willfosho-deactivated20210729]

[mikiratsula]

Passion is attractive. Modesty is attractive. Intellect is attractive. Laughter is attractive. Courage is attractive. Respect is attractive.

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[ultimatejcole]

[sickulture]

࿌EL-FL࿌

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[fivegum]

[britney2007spears]

fun on the right, business on the left

[phoneticmeow]

I’m seriously concerned my left or her left

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[diyeo]

i love white culture

[biasheck]

#IM SCREAMING ALL THAT EFFORT FOR THAT UGLY THING

[duckypi]

LMFAOOOO

[willfosho-deactivated20210729]

[oheytherecamille]

the melancholy of haruhi suzimiya fucks me up so much

[demegoddess]

[naytchgirl-deactivated20170709]

Someone please quickly explain baby clothing sizes to me

[debthaver-deactivated20170812]

baby clothes are smaller than most adult or even childrens clothes. i hope this helps

[bullletproof-love]

You’re not in love with her.

If yelling at her during an argument doesn’t make your throat burn like you just downed 6 shots, you’re not in love with her. If her eyes can’t make you stop in your tracks and think about what you’re going to say next, you’re not in love with her. If her laugh doesn’t make you tense up at your knuckles thinking about never hearing it again, you’re not in love with her. If her voice can’t calm your worst anxiety attacks and makes you not want to listen to anything she has to say, you’re not in love with her. If her smile doesn’t make your chest quake and your lungs shrink but feel refreshed all in one motion, you’re not in love with her. If her taking off her clothes is when you pay most attention to her, you’re not in love with her.

[br0kenn-horiz0nn-deactivated201]

makes you think a lot

[xelethaine]

If they don’t understand that your anxiety attacks are uncontrollable and don’t try to help you through them then they’re not in love with you.

Honestly, I would’ve ignored this post if it weren’t for that one. I mean, their worst anxiety attacks? When I’m having my worst anxiety attacks, I need to be left alone, so the voice of whatever significant other I may have isn’t gonna do shit. Does that I mean I don’t love him? No. It means I need to calm down before I can interact with anyone. And that’s true for a lot of people.

If someone can’t understand that their significant other may need to be left alone in order to get through their anxiety attacks, then that’s their problem and they need to sort that shit out.

[witch-grassi-deactivated2015111]

also um… as eric said, this whole post is nonsense. in the heat of anger and the moment, people dont feel regret for yelling. they do after, sure, but if im pissed off at my SO its not pretty but im gonna yell anyway and my throat’s only gonna burn cause of the volume and strain on my voice. anger happens, stop shaming natural emotions.

also i rarely ever look into people’s eyes if i can help it and im sure a lot of people agree with me. on top of that, somebody’s fucking eyes arent gonna make me stop and think before i speak most of the time. im a ditz. it happens.

why, also, would i fucking tense up and be afraid ill never hear him laughing again? am i really so insecure in a relationship that i cant trust things are alright for now, and am i so blinded by “what ifs” that i cant enjoy the moment? hell im gonna be laughing right along with him, not internally being a crybaby.

my case differs from eric in that i want someone to soothe me when im having a breakdown, but a voice alone is not going to calm me down. i need a blanket or some water and a hug and some sound advice not just my SO droning on about the weather. idc how nice his voice sounds, i want him to give me some legitimate advice and comfort and not just “ohhhh poor thing” or “its gonna be okay i promise.”

and what am i, a lovesick puppy? on my honeymoon? even if i love somebody like crazy, i prefer to hear his words and his laughs, not just a smile. for all i know he could be smiling about a fart joke or remembering a cutaway from family guy or plotting his revenge against a coworker. instead of just assuming hes smiling about me like a self-centered jackhole.

all i agree with is the last sentence. the rest of this was bullshit. it marks somebody whos probably in need of a therapist, and i dont say that to shame. if youre that insecure and guilt-ridden you probably have some deep-seated stuff to work out.

[asdfghqwerrt-deactivated2017080]

Thank goodness people stepped up and said differently about this post. It’s so dumb how people are practically writing guidelines to determine whether or not someone is in love with someone. People love one another differently and emotions exist. If you’re angry you’re angry. If you’re happy you’re happy. It’s impractical to say that since things and problems come up it automatically means that there’s no love there (or in this case that you don’t love that person). It doesn’t matter if their eyes or voice or anything else makes your heart beat faster or not. People know if they love a person and that’s all that matters. If you think you have found perfect love and it contains no flaws then fine, but if it’s not like that and you still feel in love without feeling danger then it’s still fine. Love usually isn’t just black or white. There’s so much more to it than just that.

[oheytherecamille]

^^^ yes u go guys this post was trash omg

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