Theres something I wanna talk about real quick. BPD stigma is bad, but its a hell of a lot better than the stigma on NPD. There are support posts for people with BPD, books explaining how they're not monsters, people standing up for their friends and family who have BPD. Yes theres the reverse, but they still have positivity.
Every single NPD related video is about how we are monsters.
Every single book is about how to "ruin our lives" and "destroy them before they destroy you"
Entire groups on tumblr, facebook, literally every social platform dedicated to calling us abusers for having a personality disorder that formed from abuse/mental illness in itself, refusing to see the irony
The absolute fucking wild armchair diagnosis. God damn do you all remember when people said Trump had NPD because hes a piece of shit??? Despite the fact trained psychologists said he not only didnt have NPD but yall were being stupid af for saying that?
How anyone who you dislike even slightly gets slapped with the NPD label?
We are humans and we are all different. Not everyone with NPD is this evil monster hiding from under your bed, who was put on this earth to ruin your life. More than half the time we're too busy ruining our own with obsessive perfectionism, vicious self criticism and, sometimes, being doormats to the real assholes.
Try not to be so hard on yourself
There are people out there who really do understand and care
For everyone else, please, think this over and leave some positivity if you can. We really dont get any of it. And for victims, I get it, I really do, but im not your abuser. Im a 5ft tall girl with purple hair. That goes for everyone else who shares the same disorder of your abuser. One bad apple doesnt spoil the orchard.
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