Hey everyone, this is serious talk time.
I don’t write call-out posts, I’ve helped and added on to my fair share of them, but never have I expected to write one of my own. But here we are, in this day and age and I’m writing a callout post. Let me make clear and upfront as to why I’m writing this callout post:
My partner @dakotafinely has been bullied, harassed, and stalked by one single person, @b-tchidowhatiwant and his other previous accounts, for over a year. It has finally reached its breaking point.
Allow me to lay out the evidence, lay the groundwork, and pave the way so you all can understand why this guy is dangerous and should not be in this fandom. Please reblog so people can know how dangerous he is.
This started in March 2021 with this ask. This ask is dated March 28, 2021. This response my partner has given him has established several things:
This is repeated behavior.
There is a pattern that this guy did: follower appreciation->hate ask->deletion(ignoring of ask initially)
This has been an ongoing behavior.
Then there was this ask, a day later on March 29th:
This ask, dated March 29th, 2021, also establishes a repeated behavior we’ll be seeing crop up time and time again: Misogyny.
Despite submitted asks there are many that were deleted or that were not posted. The following consists of a few amount of these unposted asks made by the same person. The dates of these unposted messages are November 24th, 2021, and March 3rd, 2022.
This user has also continued their harassment outside of anon hate and messages through posts on their various Tumblr accounts that have proven to be connected to the same individual. All of these had been reported and blocked repeatedly by both me and @fluidfox123. Below is a list of links where this user has been called out on for their meanspirited behavior by both myself and other people who happened across it(do note that I won't be able to put all of the links, only 10 of them thanks to Tumblr's limit, but I've selected the utmost important ones to be hyperlinked and screenshots from some of these links have been used later on down in this post):
*These qoutes that are hyperlinked are all things that he has ACTUALLY said about Dakota
"You know nobodies gonna give a shit about your story if you never write it right?"
"you're cheating on your apparent "boyfriend" now?"
"I am not obessed with Dakota. I do read other stories. Which is why she pisses me off."
"getting her riled up is fun."
"I JUST said it’s fun, plus she deserves it."
"She’s a toxic, manipulative, delusional writer. Who doesn’t deserve an audience."
"Just admit you don't love her she's impossible to love."
They confirmed that these three separate accounts (un-important-fool, chaosab0veitall, and b-tchidowhatiwant) were and are created by the same individual:
While using the Tumblr platform directly against Dakota, he has also used those close to Dakota to try and turn them against them by being "polite" and "supportive" towards them. This has mainly been aimed at Fluidfox. Ask Dates are November 25th, 2021.
He has also turned his ‘support’ toward me. Let it be known here and know that I do not ever support this kind of behavior or display of support of my content when it actively involves bringing down another person simply because you don’t like their content.
However, despite this blatant guilt tripping mainly towards Fox, he does so to others who call him out on his actions with the same tactics or anger and unpleasant comments.
*Please note that there are more, but because of Tumblr's 30 image per post limit, I can not put up more than what I have now and I will gladly share these images if people ask for them. There will also be in here that will be added as well so everyone can see where they came from.
Nevertheless, despite his actions toward Fox and those who call him out, most of his aggression and negative behavior is aimed directly at me for defending Dakota and dating them. Screenshot dates are November 24th, 2021, and December 1st, 2021 as well as a few screenshots from a link below.
However, recently he's changed tactics completely by escalating to blackmailing and threats. He’s made threats to ‘out’ my partner as a current tcester, even though she is not if she would ‘comply’ with his demands to ‘never post TMNT content’ and to back out of the fandom, as seen in these screenshots:
Even after she agreed to do that, he still decided to make the post anyway. I’m not directly linking it at all as to not give him attention, here it is. Let’s talk about it.
There are many things that are wrong with this post, let’s count them out.
This is not fucking true. Not at all. I know my partner better than he does, and I know that she's not a tcester, the absolute audacity to dig up shit from someone's past, something that they no longer are identify with and have made it clear they have indeed grown as a person is fucking appalling and despicable. He is intent on isolating her within this fandom by trying to use stuff from her childhood against her.
These shots are clearly edited to hell and back. None of these things match each other, the fonts aren't the right size, and god knows what else. I have the originals that she shared with me and can prove that he is lying about it. Here are the screenshots:
3. This bastard has the audacity to act as if he doing the right thing, that he’s being self-righteous as if he’s doing the right thing by this fandom by wrongly slandering another person’s reputation and then having the audacity to ping my main account(@polyrhyme is my main Tumblr blog, this blog, @goldenspecterr is where I’m most active) and act so smug about it. These are the signs of someone who is clearly obsessed, a stalker with no good damn intentions, especially with tags such as these:
This dangerous behavior has been expanded upon by Fluidfox in this post. The most important highlights in the post are calling out this user's need to warn the TMNT fandom without support from other TMNT users, their stalker behavior, and harassment towards others.
In summary, @b-itchidowhatiwant is a dangerous individual who has spread nothing but hate in an act of a misguided attempt at 'helping save' the fandom from @dakotafinely.This user stalks manipulates and harasses those who get involved with their twisted need to tear down Dakota. It's advised to block this user, report their blog, and take their hate posts as ill will with improper sources.
This user accused me of making the ‘threat’ to out them out as a stalker, and I decided to follow through with it. So I’ll say to y'all what I said to him:
Fandom’s a privilege, as well as being a part of fandom spaces, those are privileges. If you do shit like this, you do not ever deserve to have those privileges at all. You act like this, stalk, harass, and bully people in fandom, you lose the privilege to be in fandom spaces, and that's final.
I’ve been through hell and back in this damn fandom. I’ve fought bullies, tyrants, groomers, and god knows who else and fucking came out on the other side a goddamn winner, and I’ll do the same here. I will make sure that you never know peace for the rest of your time that you are on this damn platform if you @b-tchidowhatiwant continue to harass and stalk my partner, and knowing my history of who I’ve gone toe to fucking toe with, that’s not a goddamn threat, it’s a fucking promise. One I’m filling with glee.
Batter up motherfucker, I’m fucking swinging, and I’m making a homeFUCKINGrun.
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