a r i h d a n

[perfectfeelings]

“You have to let go of what could have been, how you should have acted and what you wish you would have said differently. You have to accept that you can’t change the past experiences, opinions of others at that moment in time or outcomes from their choices or yours. When you finally recognize that truth then you will understand the true meaning of forgiveness of yourself and others. From this point you will finally be free.”

— Shannon L. Alder

[thoughtkick]

“Your peace is more important than driving yourself crazy trying to understand why something happened the way it did. Let it go.”

— Mandy Hale

[tamsoj]

Robert Bly, "Depression," from A Mind Apart: Poems of Melancholy, Madness, and Addiction

[nilimanalani]

grief is the pay we price for love

[nilimanalani]

somehow feeling especially heartbroken, tonight

[nilimanalani]

goodbye goodbye goodbye, you were bigger than the whole sky— you were more than just a short time.

[feelingsoftheday]

It’s a beautiful day to stop dwelling on things that can’t be controlled

[nilimanalani]

functional depression is real. depression is sometimes still getting up in the morning, going to work, putting on makeups, eating your lunch and dinner, but you do all that in autopilot mode. you feel numb and hollow the whole time.

[nilimanalani]

my love is forever mine all mine, because nothing in the world belongs to me.. ❤️‍🩹

[nilimanalani]

how many more heartbreaks do i have to go through?

[nilimanalani]

i’m nothing if not me with all my loads of complexity and feeling.. 🥺❤️‍🩹

[nilimanalani]

unapologetically hopeless romantic inside

[thoughtkick]

“There’s a universe inside your head; constellations of the things you left unsaid.”

— Laren Aquilina, Talk to me

[thoughtkick]

“It’s a dark place, not knowing. It’s difficult to surrender to. But I guess it’s where we live most of the time. I guess it’s where we all live, so maybe it doesn’t have to be so lonely. Maybe I can settle into it, cozy up to it, make a home inside uncertainty.”

— Nina LaCour, We Are Okay

[thoughtkick]

“I no longer have to set myself on fire to keep other people warm.”

— Sade Andria Zabala, You Make Me Feel Human

[thoughtkick]

““Does it hurt?“ asked the Rabbit. "Sometimes,” said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. “When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.””

— Margery Williams Bianco, The Velveteen Rabbit

[nilimanalani]

“Kita jalanin bareng-bareng ya supaya nggak kerasa berat lagi” ♥️