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i keep having what i call anxious dreams which are all of my ex boyfriend and i and i wake up into half a panic attack and randomly throughout the day a scene from the dream flashes up and i wanna cry and my heart rate hits the 140s and my therapist tells me that they’ll go away but like two weeks straight now and i have almost the exact same dream
not eating feels so clean
No… it doesn’t. It hurts. It’s depressing. It’s exhausting. It feels wrong and sad and you know it’s killing you but you can’t stop. Starving yourself isn’t glamorous. Eating disorders aren’t glamorous. We’re not pure for destroying our bodies. We are unwell.
make ur own post I’m like a brita filter over here
why is this post is me talking to myself every morning
Do you know what I hate??
When I was growing up any time my brother upset/hurt/was rude to or downright nasty to me I was told “he’s just doing it to get a rise out of you” “he’s just doing it to annoy you”
Like??? I know?? I know he’s being mean to upset me. I know he’s saying horrible stuff to annoy me. And guess what?? I’m annoyed!!!!
I was literally told not to be upset, because his intentions were to upset me????
How is that not upsetting? Especially to a young girl??
THE GASLIGHTING STARTS EARLY.
“Sweetheart, its easier for you to just bear it than it is for us to teach him to stop. Mkay?”
i got some issues w this post bc i was that girl. i’m a very emotional person in general, and i’m also very articulate and outspoken about my emotions. i show love by literally showing love and affection in a typical way. my dad and brother, are also very emotional people; however, they showed those emotions and love, especially, by picking or messing with me. for years it made me angry and i didn’t like them. it took me growing up a little and also just talking to them to realize that they weren’t trying to hurt me in any way- that’s how they naturally communicated their feelings, the same way i naturally communicate by articulating my feelings. often they felt like i was being too sensitive and rude to them when i would ignore them, and i felt they were being insensitive and rude when they didn’t stop. it took us both learning that we are saying the same things in our own, very different ways. now, they know when i say to stop that they need to stop because i have learned to interact with them in their way to a certain point, and vice versa. boys in general don’t express emotions the same way as girls. you can’t expect them to communicate the way you do all at once, and you can’t expect them to learn to communicate in your way if you don’t try to communicate in theirs. do i love the teasing and picking all the time? not really, but now i understand that is them saying they love me or missed me, etc. do i still get fed up sometimes? yes, but now i can just say that it’s too much and they need to chill and they understand that i’m not trying to push them away.
“Boys just communicate and express their feelings differently!! That’s okay!!”
Do you ever stop to think about how fucked it is that the only way men know how to express their feelings and emotions is by either picking on someone, lashing out, or resorting to violence? Part of the reason is also the way we bring boys up. We tell them that they shouldn’t be emotional, that ‘boys don’t talk about their feelings’, so they end up suppressing them until they are void of all emotion, don’t get any help they need, and/or end up taking their emotions out on others.
ummm no i never said violence. they like to joke around more and just don’t respond the same as women typically do, and yes THAT IS OKAY. men and women are different, no matter what people choose to believe. guess what? i know some girls who act the same way that my brother and dad do. people are fucking different and that’s OKAY. everyone responds to things different and expressing emotions verbally isn’t comfortable for everyone bc that’s just not what they do naturally. it’s really not that fucking deep man
Do you know what I hate??
When I was growing up any time my brother upset/hurt/was rude to or downright nasty to me I was told “he’s just doing it to get a rise out of you” “he’s just doing it to annoy you”
Like??? I know?? I know he’s being mean to upset me. I know he’s saying horrible stuff to annoy me. And guess what?? I’m annoyed!!!!
I was literally told not to be upset, because his intentions were to upset me????
How is that not upsetting? Especially to a young girl??
THE GASLIGHTING STARTS EARLY.
“Sweetheart, its easier for you to just bear it than it is for us to teach him to stop. Mkay?”
i got some issues w this post bc i was that girl. i’m a very emotional person in general, and i’m also very articulate and outspoken about my emotions. i show love by literally showing love and affection in a typical way. my dad and brother, are also very emotional people; however, they showed those emotions and love, especially, by picking or messing with me. for years it made me angry and i didn’t like them. it took me growing up a little and also just talking to them to realize that they weren’t trying to hurt me in any way- that’s how they naturally communicated their feelings, the same way i naturally communicate by articulating my feelings. often they felt like i was being too sensitive and rude to them when i would ignore them, and i felt they were being insensitive and rude when they didn’t stop. it took us both learning that we are saying the same things in our own, very different ways. now, they know when i say to stop that they need to stop because i have learned to interact with them in their way to a certain point, and vice versa. boys in general don’t express emotions the same way as girls. you can’t expect them to communicate the way you do all at once, and you can’t expect them to learn to communicate in your way if you don’t try to communicate in theirs. do i love the teasing and picking all the time? not really, but now i understand that is them saying they love me or missed me, etc. do i still get fed up sometimes? yes, but now i can just say that it’s too much and they need to chill and they understand that i’m not trying to push them away.
“When the weather gets cold in a few months you will complain about it then, so enjoy this heat” I will bitch about it now, I will bitch about it then, I will bitch about everything there is ever to bitch about, because guess what, Im a bitch
I feel like this needs to be Seussified.
I will bitch about heat. I will bitch about cold. I will bitch about sunshine, and about growing old. I will bitch about everything, inside and out. You will find there is nothing I can’t bitch about.
I’m laughing so hard at this post right now omg.
Perfection.
I love it
