Potential reasons you can’t find a mommy/CG: 🌟 Your go-to first message is “hey” 🌟 You ask people to be your mommy way too quickly 🌟 You’re complaining about how hard it is 🌟 You have a blank profile 🌟 You only post diaper crotch shots 🌟 You dive into the dip talk way too soon I don’t mean for this to come off as harsh, but please reconsider your approach if you feel like you can’t find a mommy. “Hey, how’s it going?” isn’t going to get replies. If you really want to find a mommy then try to genuinely connect with people on a vanilla level first or else it’s just not gonna happen.
Would anybody be interested in me doing reviews of diapers & other continence products?
There are a few reasons for this:
1: May as well... I’m going to buy, wear and wet these products irregardless. If I’m writing reviews at least it could help other people make astute decisions before they lay out their hard earned.
2: Helping those in need. A lot of people who buy incontinence products are buying them for other people and never try them for themselves. Possibly the other people they buy them for are non-verbal, or just not in a position to demand better nappies. It will be easier to spread accurate information about quality products (and steer people away from some that are just awful) from someone with first-hand experience.
3: Ask a local. I know people do reviews of the high-end ABDL diapers available in America and Europe, but here down-under there’s little to no representation of incontinence/diaper reviews. And the stock readily available at chemists and supermarkets here varies widely to overseas as well.
4: My own self-serving reasons. It would feel nice to be giving something to the communities of both kink and incontinence, as I’ve mentioned above. It would also be nice to feel like I’m reaching people through social media, it’s always made me feel quite isolated. (and to be totally honest, it might lead to some free sample products to be tested, maybe sponsorship? Perhaps I could even land a dream job of adult diaper tester! do they have official adult diaper testers?)
So there. Following the above reasons should I continue with this endeavour?
Please let me know if you think it’s a good idea or a crappy one!
if it’s a good one, what criteria should I review on? Basics I judge a nappy/pullup on usually are cost/availability, absorbency/leak-proofing, bulk/subtlety, and cuteness factor. Any other good points that should be raised? I already have a bit of a review in mind, but I don’t want to give anything away.
There’s a toxic element to our community and it must stop.
I get that being an ABDL is lonely. It’s one of those fetishes that is still very in the closet. It’s easy for outsiders to misattribute ABDL with pedophilia. You may have been shamed by other people. Maybe a parent found you stealing diapers from your kid sibling or you told your therapist and they didn’t validate you. Maybe an ex found out and dumped you or a friend found out and spread rumors. And maybe you’ve been lucky and none of these things ever happened to you, but you’re scared they will.
So, yeah, this can be a lonely fetish and, I get that. And I get that there are a smaller number of out women within our community. That’s why you (lonely, straight dude) need to think about what you send to people. You need to remember that these women who are out face these same worries that you do and also worry about stalkers, rapists, and general creeps.
“Now, hold on! I’m not a stalker! I’d never rape someone!” Great! Good for you! But they do exist, and it happens really far too often (happening at all is too often, but you get me). How is some woman on the other end of the Internet supposed to know that ABDLJOHNDOE95 isn’t one of them?
Now, you can be the kindest man in the world and send the most nonthreatening message in history. And you may not see a response. Ever. And you aren’t entitled to one.
Running a blog that posts original content is hard. It’s even harder when random, thirsty creeps spam “send nudes” or dicks, or, in our community, “do you wet/mess.” I imagine that it gets real old right quick.
Imagine how much harder it is for those women brave enough to show themselves in dips or their faces?! They’re already dealing with judgemental vanilla jerks who want to police their bodies in the US Senate. They may have Dick Annon spamming their mail with how being a little is “freaky and wrong/you’re obviously a pedo.” They don’t need you getting upset at them for not answering your ask.
And I get it, guys, I really do. I used to be an entitled boy who didn’t know what consent was. “I’m a nice guy, so why won’t she talk to me?” Yeah, I’ve had that thought. Some days, I still have that thought, but I remind myself every day that the cute brunette at the gym doesn’t owe me anything. She’s her own person with her own identity and her own problems to deal with. I can be annoyed that she doesn’t want to acknowledge my exustance, but I don’t get to make her life more difficult.
So next time you’re thinking of reposting someone else’s photo instead of reblogging, or sending an ask or message, think twice. Ask yourself how this might be recieved. And if she doesn’t want to be friends, wish her well, and move the fuck on. Doing otherwise wastes both of your time and energy and gives her another headache.
No matter what your reason is for age regressing and/or wearing diapers. Enjoy being who you are and never let anyone make you feel inadiquate because of it.
It is NOT okay to bully others and especially not for their kinks, coping mechanisms or illnesses (physical/ mental)
Remember you have no idea why someone is wearing or regressing.
Hello everyone! I am trying to get an accurate number of people who are into diaper play! We all have that one thought of how many of us are out there! SO PLEASEEEE REBLOG! If you even thought about it or wear once in a while just REBLOG so we can get an accurate number 😘
“We were talking about The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, which was something which resembled an iPad, long before it appeared. And I said when something like that happens, it’s going to be the death of the book. Douglas said, No it won’t be. Books are sharks. And I must have looked baffled at that because he looked very pleased with himself. And he carried on with his metaphor. He said, Books are sharks … because sharks have been around for a very, very long time. There were sharks before there were dinosaurs. And the reason sharks are still in the oceans is that nothing is better at being a shark than a shark is. He said, Look at a book. A book is the right size to be a book. They’re solar-powered. If you drop them, they keep on being a book. You can find your place in them in microseconds. They’re really good at being books, he said, and books, no matter what else happens, will always survive. And of course he’s right.”
— Neil Gaiman, giving the Douglas Adams Memorial Lecture 2015 (via thinkingingallifreyan)
Imagine a way abdl people could indentify each other without being over the top and showing their diapers off in public, phone covers! Rearz safari, crinklez, ABU, just ABDL diaper prints but on phone cases.
Oceania! (That means Australia, and other Australia-ey places in the ocean nearby) Apparently there’s a BUNCH of diaper-oriented people there! At least 1878 according to my late 2016 online guesstimate. And look, we can break down the countries they’re all hiding in with a handy pie-chart! Yay!
We’ll list the data and as usual I’ll start with the most padded people and work my way down to the least.
Stats are below but what we’ve learned is that there are a bunch of Aussie’s down-under with padded down-unders. Second to that come the New-zealanders, (How have I gone this long without picturing a diaper-girl with a NZ accent?)
Honorable mentions go to Tokelau, Christmas Island, Nauru, Tonga and Samoa, all of which have one (1) solitary Diaper Lover living there. Next time you feel isolated because of your bulgy butt spare a thought for these poor babies. And if you are from one of the above countries, come visit somewhere with more DLs! :D we’re really quite friendly!
This installment of ABDLStats is Continents! (Continents sounds like continence hehehe) We’ll be looking at the number of diapered legends in each continent and comparing that to the rest of the population. I’ll start with the highest concentration and work my way down to the most sparse.
Stats are below but what we’ve learned are that Oceana (Australia) has the highest concentration of kinky diaper people compared to vanillas, around one in twenty-thousand in fact (so come down-under and visit uusss! Perhaps Australia could turn into a big padded island?!?!) Followed by North America, (Gotta love the Canadians! ey?) Europe (looking at you, Berlin) South America, Africa, and the lowest concentration of diaper peeps is in Asia (but maybe that’s just cause it’s so crowded?)
This installment of ABDLStats is Continents! (Continents sounds like continence hehehe) We’ll be looking at the number of diapered legends in each continent and comparing that to the rest of the population. I’ll start with the highest concentration and work my way down to the most sparse.
Stats are below but what we’ve learned are that Oceana (Australia) has the highest concentration of kinky diaper people compared to vanillas, around one in twenty-thousand in fact (so come down-under and visit uusss! Perhaps Australia could turn into a big padded island?!?!) Followed by North America, (Gotta love the Canadians! ey?) Europe (looking at you, Berlin) South America, Africa, and the lowest concentration of diaper peeps is in Asia (but maybe that’s just cause it’s so crowded?)
I did a pie-chart! People in the US and Europe outweigh the rest of the world massively - if you’re outside of those two places guys, get online and represent!
(NB: Since this information is taken from a few different online sources it is impossible to get solid numbers so this is a rough estimate and unfortunately excludes people without internet access, people without the confidence to come out online and people who have been hiding so well online they couldn’t be counted. With this in mind there could be double, triple or quadruple the number of diaper lovers on earth than there are online, making this whole exercise completely futile! Yay!)
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Here’s a short doc about age play, by Spuiten en Slikken. It aired on Dutch television last night.
And yes, that’s me, in a not so well done disguise 😉 The reporter Gwen joins us in my nursery, and I got to dress her up. So cute 💖
Click on US subtitles if you don’t speak Dutch 😊
Xx Emma
😁 love this. It’s not really age play but age regression as there’s no sex/power play/nsfw content involved in what they’re doing, but all the same it’s a wonderful documentary of us little babies doing what we do best xD
1. I ❤️diapers because they make me feel cute.
2. I ❤️diapers because it’s like always getting a hug around your waist.
3. I ❤️diapers because I’m too little to begin potty training.
4. I ❤️diapers because the potty is scary. (There’s a monster in there.)
5. I ❤️diapers because they make me feel safe.
6. I ❤️diapers because they make me waddle when I put more than one on a time and/or when my diaper is full.
7. I ❤️diapers for diaper changes.
8. I ❤️diapers for the smell of baby powder.
9. I ❤️diapers because they take me back in time where things weren’t as chaotic as they are now.
10. I ❤️diapers for stress release.
Reblog and spread the word. Why do you love diapers. Add your reason down below.
Oceania! (That means Australia, and other Australia-ey places in the ocean nearby) Apparently there’s a BUNCH of diaper-oriented people there! At least 1878 according to my late 2016 online guesstimate. And look, we can break down the countries they’re all hiding in with a handy pie-chart! Yay!
We’ll list the data and as usual I’ll start with the most padded people and work my way down to the least.
Stats are below but what we’ve learned is that there are a bunch of Aussie’s down-under with padded down-unders. Second to that come the New-zealanders, (How have I gone this long without picturing a diaper-girl with a NZ accent?)
Honorable mentions go to Tokelau, Christmas Island, Nauru, Tonga and Samoa, all of which have one (1) solitary Diaper Lover living there. Next time you feel isolated because of your bulgy butt spare a thought for these poor babies. And if you are from one of the above countries, come visit somewhere with more DLs! :D we’re really quite friendly!
Australia
Population: 24 Million people.
ABDLs & Friends: 1645
Percentage padded: 0.007%
Padded to Vanilla ratio: 1:14,589
New Zealand
Population: 4.5 Million people.
ABDLs & Friends: 214
Percentage padded: 0.005%
Padded to Vanilla ratio: 1:20,892
American Samoa
Population: 55,165 people.
ABDLs & Friends: 5
Percentage padded: 0.09%
Padded to Vanilla ratio: 1:11,033
Wallis and Futuna
Population: 15,500 people.
ABDLs & Friends: 4
Percentage padded: 0.019%
Padded to Vanilla ratio: 1:5,166
New Caledonia
Population: 262,000 people.
ABDLs & Friends: 3
Percentage padded: 0.001%
Padded to Vanilla ratio: 1:87,333
Stay tuned for more detailed info on other parts of the world!
(NB: Since this information is taken from a few different online sources it is impossible to get solid numbers so this is a rough estimate and unfortunately excludes people without internet access, people without the confidence to come out online and people who have been hiding so well online they couldn’t be counted. With this in mind there could be double, triple or quadruple the number of diaper lovers on earth than there are online, making this whole exercise completely futile! Yay!)
