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post--grad

i hate having to like…………….. articulate my ideas

disenfranchisedchads

Why can’t people just understand my general energy?

lovibond

Zahra LARI (UAE) Asian Winter Games 2017 SP | read her story here

melanin-khaleesi

I WANTED TO BE AN ICE SKATER WHEN I WAS LITTLE BUT DIDNT THINK I COULD BC OF THE OUTFITS BUT !!!!!!!’

snarlfurillo

^^^^^^ why I always reblog Muslim ladies doing sports

jupiterlicivciv

fuselii

legends

heartemoij

i have a disease that makes me like pink and heart shaped objects and it’s called being a fucking genius

95z

just leave them alone @ sasaengs

catchymemes

IG: Uniquesora

anotherlikeyou

SHE LOOKS MORE LIKE DOMINO THAN THE ACTUAL DOMINO, H O W

poupao93

What is this, a crossover episode??

nochuie

JK memories by BTS

bonus:

jungshiii

yoonjin bullshitting, a thrilling saga: seokjin

kim-taehyung

🐰

i-hate-chick-fil-a

knifenick

If you think like that, please don’t ever have children.

dragonsspire

Listen, my parents installed a lock on my door so I could lock everyone out of my room if I wanted to at sometime around 8 years old. They had a key of course for safety but they’ve never had to use it and they’ve never used it when they didn’t have to.

I was allowed full access to any books, movies, and internet I wanted fully informed about our family beliefs and practices but I was given no supervision once I reached about 13 because my parents trusted me to stick to the rules or not as I felt and come to them if there was anything that I had questions about.

As long as I said where I was going, who I was with, and when I was going to be back and then phone if anything changed I was allowed to do pretty much as I pleased from 13 onward.

I moved back in with my parents after university and the first conversation we had was my dad telling me that if I felt like they were treating me like a child to please tell them because they had no intention of doing so.

I still live with them and I’m comfortable here as an adult. When I eventually move out again, which I feel no rush to do because I feel respected and given more than enough elbow room, I will probably talk to them often if not everyday. Because they’ve always respected my privacy and my autonomy both physically and emotionally. If you want an independent and fictional child trusting them and giving them their space will do you many more favours than not.

greyforthewicked

meanwhile, my parents…

password protected my computer so i had to get permission every time i wanted to use it

put a passcode lock on our pantry so we couldn’t eat without permission

regularly checked our internet browsing history

shut off the internet at regular intervals, including when i needed it for university homework

did monthly checks of our bank statements and would confiscate money if they didn’t approve of our activities

in response, i went behind their backs and opened a new bank account, got a secret job, bought my own groceries, and used the wifi from the school across the street. they didn’t succeed in disciplining me. all they did was force me to distance myself from them.

your children are not your property. they are human beings, and they deserve basic human rights.

rock-fish-deactivated20201231

kids are not your chance to make the abuse you suffered “worth it” by getting to finally be the rule-maker

jayce

rice is overrated

bubmyg

yoongi has all these cute lil ticks when he speaks seriously in interviews like he kinda looks off to the side and if he does look at whoever he’s speaking to he nods and does the lil :] smile after and if he’s not fiddling w his hands in his lap, he’s softly touching his ears and neck and he rubs at his eyes w just the tips of his fingers and his pinky does The Thing if he touches his face and it’s not an exggeration he really does speak in pout and he’s really soft spoken and makes cute lil noises when he’s thinking and draws out certain words and his lisp appears sometimes and he always has a lot to say because he’s really articulate and passionate and intelligent and what I’m saying is I would listen to him talk Forever