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a note on people who always say “i don’t mind” whenever you ask where they want to eat/what they want to watch/etc:

usually this is because they’ve been punished in the past for voicing their opinions, not because they’re out to annoy you specifically. depending on how much flack they used to receive, it can be very stressful for them if you try and force them to offer up an idea.

a lot of my friends who do this appreciate me giving out like… three options. pick three different things that you will be happy to do any of and ask which of those three options they’d prefer. it removes the fear of “what if they don’t like my suggestion” without erasing their option to chose and have preferences so, you know, good all around

doctortay-deactivated20210629

This!!! As someone with anxiety, I get super fucking stressed when I have to make a decision like this that will affect others, because then I feel PERSONALLY and SOLELY responsible if the experience doesn’t go well for them…if they don’t like what they ordered or if the service is shitty, or if they’re not into the show, whatever….I feel like IT’S ALL MY FAULT FOR MAKING THIS TERRIBLE CHOICE THAT HAS RUINED EVERYTHING FOR YOU. So when we avoid choosing or even making suggestions, we’re really not trying to make things difficult…we’re hyperfixated on how we MIGHT make things difficult if we choose the “wrong” thing.

fukkce

deadass there is no reason for anybody to against abortions

fukkce

I don’t give a (and I can’t stress this enough) FUCK if you’re pro-life, there is no reason for you to be policing anyone’s body.

meggomeeeggo

I agree to a certain extent with abortion-related legislation. There needs to be some level of framework for women that need the assistance ESPECIALLY in extreme cases of rape or health issues. Abortion is NOT a contraceptive. Should not be argued as such. It should be a LAST resort. The earlier that women have the opportunity to get the procedure done then so be it. Limitations to when women should be able to get the procedure ensures that individuals are to be held accountable for their actions. A child should not be terminated due to the mother being inconvenienced. The argument still stands that decision of the mother should be regarding two separate heartbeats. Whether you like it or not, there is another individual that is developing and is at its most vulnerable and also has the ability to be supported by legislation. This is a potential life, a citizen and it deserves a chance to live just like anyone else. Women need to realize that with liberation in society through high sex activity comes with the risk of pregnancy. Not everyone should see abortion as a form of a ‘get out of jail free’ card. There are consequences to be considered. Hence the Born Alive Bill that failed to pass earlier this year. Which is truly disturbing to me…but I digress. All I ask is try and understand why pro-lifers think the way they do. Their morality is not distorted. They just understand the importance of protecting the innocent.

fukkce

AGAIN: YOU HAVE NOOOOOOOO RIGHT TO EVEN THINK YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO MIND SOMEONE ELSE’S BUSINESS LET ALONE SOMEONE ELSE’S BODY!!! EVERYONE UNDERSTANDS PRO-LIFERS ARGUMENTS WHAT YALL DONT UNDERSTAND IS THAT YOUR WAY SHOULDNT HAVE TO BE EVERYONE’S WAY!

xain-russell

This blog is pro-choice and believes that Women have an absolute right to decide what to do with their own body and should be given the absolute best when it comes to their health and safety.