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كان من المعروف عن السلطان قابوس بن سعيد سلطان عُمان رحمه الله عليه
أن لديه بروتوكولاً خاصاً به ،
وهو أنه لم يذهب إلى المطار قط لاستقبال شخصيات من أي بلد ، ولم يكسر هذا التقليد إلاّ عندما استقبل رئيس الهند في نهاية الثمانينات شانكار ديال شارما ،
وتعجب رجال حكومته ورجال الإعلام عندما شاهدوه يصعد سلم الطائرة ،
ويعانق الرئيس قبل أن يقوم من مقعده ، ونزل معه ، متشابكي الأيدي ، وما إن وصلا إلى السيارة ، حتى أشار السلطان للسائق أن يبتعد ،
وفتح الباب الأمامي بنفسه للرئيس حتى جلس ، وحل هو مكان السائق وأخذ يقود السيارة حتى وصل به إلى القصر السلطاني .
وفي وقت لاحق عندما سأل الصحافيون السلطان عن سبب ذلك ، أجاب قائلاً : "لم أذهب إلى المطار لاستقبال السيد شارما لأنه رئيساً للهند !!!! ، ؟؟؟
لكن ذهبت لأنني فى صغري درست في بونا بالهند ، وكان السيد شارما هو أستاذي ومعلمى.
الذي تعلمت منه كيف أعيش وكيف أتصرف وكيف أواجه المصاعب ، وحاولت أن أطبق ما تعلمته منه عندما قدر لي أن أحكم .
وهذا التقدير للمعلم هو الذي أثار إعجابي من تصرف السلطان ،،،
وكما حدث ايضا
... أن الرئيس الروسي بوتين ، عندما شاهد معلمته العجوز بين حشد من الواقفين ، فما كان منه إلاّ أن خرق البروتوكول وسط دهشة مرافقيه وحراسه ، وذهب إلى معلمته وعانقها وعانقته وهي تبكي ، وأخذها وهي تمشي بجانبه وسط إعجاب الحضور وكأنها ملكة .
وفي سياق آخر ،، فقد جاء أن مُعلم المأمون
فى صغرة ضربه بالعصا دون سبب ، فسأله المأمون : لِمَ ضربتني ؟! فقال له المعلم : اسكت. وكلما أعاد عليه السؤال ، كان يقول له : اسكت ، وبعد عشرين سنة تولى المأمون الخلافة ، عندها خطر على باله أن يستدعي المعلم ، فلما حضر سأله : "لماذا ضربتني عندما كنت صبياً ؟!" فسأله المعلم : "ألم تنس؟!" فقال : "والله لم أنس" ،
فرد عليه المعلم وهو يبتسم لانى اعلم انك ستكون فى يوم من الايام خليفه المسلمين....
وانا تعمدت أضربك دون سبب
: "حتى تعلم أن المظلوم لا ينسى"
وعاد ينصحه قائلاً : "لا تظلم أحداً فالظلم نار لا تنطفئ في قلب صاحبها ، ولو مرّت عليه الأعوام" .
بحثت عن الإحترام للمعلم فوجدته في هذا المنشور ... إحترموا من علموكم ايها الشباب.
تحية اجلال وتقدير وعرفان
إلى كافة المعلمين والمعلمات الشرفاء والنبلاء في شتى بقاع الارض ...
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SHADOW WORK SIMPLIFIED
What is shadow work?
If I had to describe shadow work in one word, it would be introspection. Introspection is the examination of your own mental state and is necessary in order to learn more about your fundamental nature. Although it may sound off-putting and even scary at first, shadow work is a necessary component in the process of healing. We all have aspects of ourselves that we’ve rejected and hidden away out of fear. Through shadow work, we’re able to reflect on our thoughts, emotions, and habits so that we can find the root cause of our suffering and heal ourselves. By reincorporating those aspects of ourselves that we’ve denied, we feel more fulfilled and can begin to love ourselves fully.
Where does shadow work come from?
The concept of the shadow self comes from Carl Jung who believed that our shadow self is the subconscious aspect, or “dark side”, of our personality that our conscious ego doesn’t identify with. However, I would like to clarify that “dark” does not imply or equate with bad. That which resides outside of our consciousness can be either good or bad, but aren’t inherently reflective of our value or “goodness” as a person.
Although these repressed aspects of ourselves can manifest negatively, it isn’t because those parts of us are “bad”, but that the process of repression is inherently painful and toxic. This is reflected by Jung when he states, “Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual’s conscious life, the blacker and denser it is.” He believed that until we’ve merged our conscious and subconscious selves, that our conscious would be “the slave of the autonomous shadow”. This is due to the shadow self overwhelming our conscious selves by falling victim to our own self-imposed traps.
Through assimilating this shadow self, not over-identifying with it, Jung believed we go through the process of enantiodromia, thereby integrating the subconscious by reincorporating our shadow selves into our personality and allowing us to solidify ourselves through wholeness. He best described this by stating "assimilation of the shadow gives a man body, so to speak.” However, don’t fall into the misconception that shadow work is a short-term practice. Shadow work is a continuous practice and integration of the shadow self is a will take place throughout your life.
How do I do shadow work?
In the last question, I identified that practicing self-reflection is a key component of shadow work, but what does that mean? What am I supposed to be reflecting on? Well, the first thing that you should focus on is being present throughout the day. Identify feelings that come up throughout the day and observe them objectively. What situation or interaction triggered these emotions? How did I react to those emotions? Were my emotions controlling me or was I in control of my emotions? Why did this situation or interaction cause me to feel this way? How did I cope with those feelings (self-harming, lashing out at others, communicating my feelings, journalling, etc.)? Did I punish myself for getting upset? If so, why?
There are numerous ways to reflect on your feelings and experiences in order to get a better understanding of yourself. Through evaluating how you react to situations, which situations upset you, and how you managed those feelings, you’re able to build the foundation to understanding your emotions and bridge the gap between your subconscious and conscious mind.
Once you’ve done this, you’ll find that the emotions you feel in the present are reflective of unhealed emotions from your past. Perhaps the reason you feel that you’re unable to set boundaries as an adult is because as a child, your parents never respected your boundaries by going through your phone or diary, yelling at you when you said no to a request, forcing you into situations that made you feel you had no choice.
By identifying the root cause of your emotional pain, you’re able to address it in the present and heal from the trauma. The simplest way that I’ve found to address them is through journalling. You can purchase a physical journal or even use your notes app, either way, you’re writing out your feelings and reflections to gain deeper insight. It’s important to remember that this looks different for anyone and that the best way to approach shadow work is by doing what feels most natural! You can choose to stick to self-reflective journal prompts, vent about whatever is upsetting you, write letters to whoever has hurt you, etc. Ultimately, you can guide yourself based off of what you feel you need and where you are in your journey.
What parts of yourself do you find yourself rejecting the most? Many of us have experienced the pain of rejection in some aspects of our lives and sometimes, it’s incredibly painful and leaves us with long-lasting wounds. We end up going through our lives carrying baggage that we don’t even know we have! Many times, I’ve found myself wondering why I felt so repulsed by aspects of myself and why I felt so strongly that they needed to be locked away forever. I couldn’t allow myself or others to see my truest self, my whole self, out of fear. I was scared of being rejected, shamed, humiliated by the people around me. I was scared of hurting other people by being myself and of being hurt by others. That’s no way to live, is it? When we tell ourselves that aspects of ourselves aren’t good enough, we end up going through life devaluing ourself. We’ve broken our own trust by rejecting ourselves, we’ve told ourselves that we aren’t good enough or worthy of love. In shadow work, you’re called to go inward and unpack everything that we’ve kept hidden for years and sometimes even decades.
Bring the parts of yourself that you’ve repressed to the surface and nourish them with love, allow yourself to see that ALL OF YOU is deserving of love and support. For you, that could mean unlearning your unhealthy beliefs about food or eating, allowing yourself to be emotional around the people you love (despite how much you were told that you were too emotional, a crybaby, too sensitive in the past), allowing yourself to relax without feeling guilty about not being productive because you recognize your needs (even though you feel your sense of worth is tied to being productive at the cost of your own health).
Common misconceptions about shadow work?
Shadow work is evil or bad, the shadow is evil or bad
The purpose of shadow work is healing through working with your subconscious to release repressed aspects of yourself and heal from painful, traumatic experiences. Your shadow side is simply your unconscious and to believe that it’s bad is to believe that you are bad. It’s merely the part of yourself that you aren’t aware of consciously and shouldn’t be feared.
Certain emotions are “bad”
When you let go of the idea that emotions are either good or bad, you’ll allow yourself to just be and stop putting so much pressure on yourself to feel “good” all of the time. Happiness isn’t a constant state of being so stop expecting to be all of the time, we have a range of emotions for a reason so stop being ashamed of them. Your feelings are natural and if you feel like they’re out of control and something to be ashamed of, there is nothing wrong with that! It’s okay to feel like your emotions are controlling you because that isn’t permanent. Your feelings aren’t permanent and are completely manageable with proper guidance! The reason you feel like your emotions are controlling you is because you probably don’t have the knowledge to cope with them in an effective and healthy way. It’s helpful to sit with your emotions alone and look at them objectively without placing any judgement on them, this will help you calm down and assess your feelings. From there, you can identify what you need to relax and recover as well as acknowledge to yourself that your feelings are natural. When you stop categorizing your emotions as bad, they’re no longer shameful to experience and therefore you can see with better clarity how to cope with them and move on.
I’ve already released it so…
Why am I still upset?
Why does it still keep popping up in my head?
Why haven’t I moved on?
Why am I not making progress?
With the rise of self development and spirituality, I find that more and more people are rushing to complete their healing. Healing is a continuous, life-long cycle and not a destination. Putting the pressure on yourself to reach the place of ultimate healing is not only toxic, but it impedes your ability to actually heal anything. Healing is about love, compassion, and patience and it’s not going to happen according to a timeline. Allow yourself the time to experience your emotions, see them objectively, forgive yourself and others and move on without the pressure of expectations.
Another reason that you could be experiencing this is that despite the work you think you’ve done, it hasn’t been sufficient. I’ve found that a lot of journal prompts provided online are surface level at best and can be more pacifying than revealing. If you’re not feeling anything while doing your inner work, you’re not doing it correctly. Ultimately, this is about uncovering what makes us UNCOMFORTABLE and moving through those feelings. When you allow yourself to experience the sadness, hurt, anger, and/or frustration than you’re telling yourself that these feelings are okay and don’t need to be suppressed. The reality is that no matter what you’re feeling, you are allowed to experience those emotions and it’s only human! Unfortunately, many people associate lower vibrational emotions as bad, but this is a huge misconception! Telling yourself that anger, sadness, etc. are “bad” implies that you shouldn’t experience these emotions and that you have to get rid of them which is not only wrong, but unhealthy. There is no right or wrong emotions so don’t buy into the belief that you should feel a certain way, simply allow yourself to be and you’ll find that it’s much easier to navigate your emotions and needs. The only way to make it to the other side is by wading through the water, be patient and know that you’re feeling exactly what you should be. When you stop censoring yourself, you’ll discover a newfound sense of freedom and wholeness.
If you find yourself circling back to certain topics, for example, your ex-boyfriend than perhaps there are triggers in your environment that remind you of the situation, you have more that needs to be addressed that you may not have been ready for or aware of previously (hence why shadow work is a practice that is ongoing), or they’re representative of a deeper issue that you’re repressing. Whatever the cause is, the same methods as earlier will apply and can be discerned through your own intuition.
What are some basic journal prompts that I can do?
What feelings come up when you think of ____?
How did that experience make you feel emotionally? How did it make you feel about yourself? How did it make you feel about the other person or people?
Write a letter to yourself, your inner child, the people who’ve hurt you, and the people you’ve hurt. Express how you feel honestly, without holding back and then forgive yourself and the other person.
If you could say anything to yourself or another person for closure, what would it be?
How have these situations and experiences impacted your mental health? How have they affected your belief system about yourself, other people, and the world?
What about yourself are you ashamed of? What about yourself are you embarrassed of? What about yourself makes you angry? What do you regret? Why do you feel this way about yourself and where do these feelings stem from?
What makes you feel most alone? What makes you feel most loved? How can you incorporate that knowledge into your life to make it better?
What’s the most hurtful thing someone has said or done to you? Why did it hurt you so much? How does it still affect you now? How can you heal from it and allow yourself to move on?
What do you need to forgive yourself for? What do you need to forgive others for?
Where do you feel you lack security in your life? Why? How does this impact your life and your relationships?
This is a list of generic prompts for you to start with, but feel free to message me if you need help with more specific topics or I can make another post altogether for journal prompts.
كيف تموت الأنثى حية ؟!
يقول : " غابرييل غارسيا ماركيز "
" رأيت امرأة ميتة يوم أمس
وكانت تتنفس مثلنا "
ولكن كيف تموت الأنثى ؟
وكيف تراها تحتضر ؟
تموت إذا فارقت وجهها الابتسامة
إذا لم تعد تهتم بجمالها
إذا لم تتمسك بأيدي أحد ما بقوة
وإن لم تعد تنتظر عناق أحد
وإن أعتلت وجهها ابتسامة ساخرة
إذا مر عليها حديث الحب !
أجل... هكذا تموت الأنثى !
أجل... تموت الأنثى
وهي حية ترزَق
تعلن الحداد داخلها
تعيش مراسم دفنها لوحدها
ثم تنهض ترتّب شكلها
تمسح الكحل السائل تحت عينيها
تعيد وضعه..ثم تخرج للعالم
واقفة بكامل أناقتها
تتنفس وربما مبتسمة وتضحك
لكنها ميتة ولا أحد يعلم !
متى ؟!.. كيف ؟!.. ولماذا ؟!
تموت الأنثى وهي حية
عندما تُهجر دون سبب
وحين يخذلها قريب
كان يمثل لها القدوة والسند
حين تجرحها اليد
التي كانت تتمسك بها بقوة
فتفقد ثقتها بنفسها وبهذا العالم !
تموت الأنثى !
حين لا يكون لها أي حق
في اختيار حياتها أو شريك حياتها
ويفرض عليها وضع
يحط من قيمتها
ويجعلها سلعة تباع وتشترى !
وتموت ألف مرة !!!
حين تخان وتُنتهك كرامتها
بإسم الحب
أو العرف والعادات والتقاليد
وتموت عند كل مرة
تفقد فيها احترامها لذاتها
ولشخص كان يعني لها الكثير !
تموت الأنثى حين يخذلها رجل
يتجرد من رجولته
كلما احتاجت وجوده بقربها فلا تجده !
تموت الأنثى حين تمس كرامتها وعفتها
دون أن تستطيع الدفاع عن نفسها
فقط لأنها انثى !
وتموت كل أنثى خذلها زوج
ضحت بعمرها لأجله
وتحدت الجميع لتتزوجه
فكان جزاؤها النكران والهجر !
وابن... صامت عن ملذات الحياة
ليستمتع بها هو
فنسيها حين كبر
وتركها لغرباء يعتنون بها
بعد أن وهنت وضعفت !
وأب حرمها حقها
من الحب والحنان والحماية والتعليم
وحتى الميراث
فقط لأنها أنثى !
فكم من أنثى تعيش بيننا تتنفس
لكنها ماتت منذ زمن !
احتضار الأنثى
إنطفاء بريق الأمل والقوة في عينيها !!!
🌹 مسائكم كريم اخوتي الكرام🌹
#أُسوة
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﴿لَقَد كانَ لَكُم في رَسولِ اللَّهِ #أُسوَةٌ #حَسَنَةٌ لِمَن كانَ يَرجُو اللَّهَ وَاليَومَ الآخِرَ وَذَكَرَ اللَّهَ كَثيرًا﴾ [الأحزاب: ٢١]
١- مقدمة :
الأُس : #قلب الإنسان
الأُسّ : في الجبر و الإحصاء هو #القوة التي يُرفع إليها عدد أو رمز.
٢- ملاحظات :
-(رسول الله) نظام متكامل يتم تنزيله في قلب الإنسان إذا تحققت شروط ثلاث.
- هذا النظام النوراني هو قوة رافعة إيجابية يعبر عنها البلاغ الحكيم في آية أخرى (ذكر محدث من الرحمٰن).
- من (يرجو الله) فهو المتوجه له كُلية بقلبه لا يلتفت لما سواه ... لا جنة و لا نار .. هو طوعه يوجّهه حيث يشاء.
- (من يرجو اليوم الآخر) ... لا يمكن فصلها عن (يرجو الله) ... لترابطهما ... فمن يركن إلى الدنيا أو حظّ نفسِه، فهو ملتفت أصلا عن طريق الله ... فهو لا يرجو الآخرة و لا يعمل عملها ... فنحن هنا أما (تصفية للنية) و (إخلاص لله وحده) .
- (و ذكر اللهَ كثيرا) هي نتيجة منطقية لمن أخلص وجهته إلى الله، لا يرى سِواه، قلبه متعلق بمن خلقه من علق. و الكثرة هنا مطلوبة لتجنب الفراغ و الفجوات التي تُمكن من دخول الفترة و حظ النفس.
- تفسير (أسوة ) ب (قدوة) هو انحراف عن المعنى قاد الى الى حصر الذاهب الى ربه في ديكور تاريخي غير مطلوب سبب له كُلفة فوق طاقته و في الاخير مستحيل أن نكون نسخة ثانية لإنسان آخر.
و الله أعلى و أعلم 🙏🏼💚
عروق الورقة... محاذية تماما لرسمة خطوط اليد...
وتحسب أنك جرم صغير...!!! 💛
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الإحساس عقل القلب، و الضمير عقل الروح، و عقل الشيء مَوطن فِطنته و يقظته و قياسه ، و عقل عن عقل يختلف حسب المَلَكَة التي تُحركه و ينبُع منها ..
#مولانا #جلال #الدين #الرومي
#إيمانويل #كانت
وقعت امرأة في حب الفيلسوف الألماني ايمانويل كانط، وكانت في كل مرة تخرج معه تتمنى أن يطلب يدها للزواج.. لكنه كان يتحدث معها في كل المواضيع إلا الزواج.
في نهاية الأمر.. بادرت هي لطلب يده للزواج، وقالت له أود الزواج بك! فرد عليها: أعطني وقتاً لأفكر، وبالفعل أخذ يفكر بالأمر وأطال التفكير بهِ إلى أن قرر الزواج بها..
في مُدة التفكير وجد كانط 350 سبب أقنعه بالزواج بهذه الأمرأة و300 سبب ضد هذا الزواج ، وبالتالي قرر أخيراً أن يتزوج،
فذهب إلى بيتها، فخرج له والدها، فأخبره أنه جاء لطلب يد ابنته، فأجابه الأب بكل برود.. هذا هو عنوانها، يمكنك أن تجدها هناك!
وبالفعل ذهب إلى ذلك العنوان.. فوجدها هناك مع زوجها وطفليها!
يذكر أن المدة التي استغرقها الفيلسوف ايمانويل كانط في التفكير بالزواج بها بلغت 7 سنوات.. لم يرّ فيها تلك المرأة اطلاقاً!!
..هذه القصة معروفة عن الفيلسوف ايمانويل كانط ذكرها هو نفسه في مذكراته