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me: finally has energy to write and gets all excited Charles: Yes, let’s go write things and-- one of my OCs: I AM HERE AND LOUD AND WILL NOW DROWN OUT ALL OTHER MUSES K THX

#|| out of power : ooc ||#god dammit jac why do you do this to me #you don't even have an active blog anymore babe #now charles is huffy and sulking

sorry, I just need to rant for a bit. I am about ready to smack my father upside the head so hard he sees stars. My mom had foot surgery yesterday, for a bone spur. Surgery went great. But my dad is being a self absorbed jerk. I took yesterday off of work because I know he wouldn’t do jack shit to help her. She’s on full bed rest for the rest of the week, so she needs help with meals, water, meds, etc. Below is the list of selfish shit my dad pulled.

1. Instead of going straight to the pharmacy to get her pain meds, so she could keep on top of the pain, he dicked around at home. Then, finally left, and wasted over a half hour at the store instead of picking up the meds and coming right back home. The doc was clear, stay on top of the pain. If you wait until you start to feel pain, it’s too late for the meds and the cycle will be off. My mom was visibly starting to feel pain when my dad finally went to get the meds, then he wasted over a half hour. A half hour plus of leaving my mom in pain, without meds.

2. My mom asked for about 3 things from the store, right when they got home. 2 things her doc recommended to help with post-anesthesia symptoms and pudding, because she was craving it. Mind you, my mom NEVER asks for anything like that, so it was so rare that she’d even ask. What time does my dad go to the store? 11pm. She couldn’t have her pudding, didn’t have the 2 things her doc recommended. And on top of that?? MY DAD DIDN’T BRING HOME THE 2 THINGS FROM THE STORE. Got everything else on the list, except for those 2 things and the 1 thing I asked for.

3. I’m working in the office today and I have a meeting in the evening, won’t be home until 8:30pm at the earliest. I reminded my dad last night that he needs to take care of my mom AND the dog. Do not forget to feed the dog or take him outside!! And he starts making all these excuses, saying well, he’ll be gone in the afternoon, he’s got a doctor’s appointment. Great, don’t care, dad. I. Will. Not. Be. Home. You need to figure it out yourself. Take care of your wife. Make sure she’s got food, proper meals, enough water and meds, ice packs for her foot. Check on her at least once every 1-2 hours. Do your job as a husband, jerk.

4. My mom has a post op appointment next week. It’s been on the calendar since July. And she cannot drive herself there, because the foot surgery was on her right foot, her driving foot. So someone needs to take her, likely my dad. But what does he do?? He schedules a colonoscopy for the same fucking date, so now my mom has no way to get to her appointment. And he has the NERVE to ask me to take him to his appointment after looking baffled when I said mom can’t take him (SHE CAN’T DRIVE, IDIOT). Well, dad. I’m already scheduled to be in the office for work that day. I can’t take you. His response? “Well can’t you just change your work schedule?” NO DAD, I CAN’T. HOW ABOUT YOU ASK IN ADVANCE, NOT A WEEK BEFORE HAND. HOW ABOUT YOU CONSULT OTHERS ON SHIT, INSTEAD OF JUST ASSUMING ONE OF US CAN DROP EVERYTHING FOR YOU. He was so mad I wouldn’t change my whole schedule around for him. If anything, I’d change it for my mom, because he left her high and dry. Luckily, my aunt volunteered to take my mom. But my aunt is PISSED at my dad. He finally called to reschedule, putting up a fuss and being all huffy the whole time.

I am just. so incredibly frustrated with my dad. The only thing he’s done to help without me prodding and prompting him and pushing is...well, no, nothing, actually. I was the one that had to push him to set an alarm to take her to her surgery on time in the morning. And I set an alarm for myself as well, in case he didn’t get up (he’s done that before to my mom on other things). I pushed him to go get the meds finally. I took care of my mom all day, made her food, got her water, made her ginger tea when the pain meds made her nauseous. He hasn’t done ONE THING without someone prompting or pushing him. And I’m fucking sick of it. If I didn’t have my meeting tonight, I would have taken today off of work too, because lord knows my dad can’t be trusted to do anything.

Sorry for the long rant. I just. Needed to vent or I felt like I was gonna explode.

#|| out of power : ooc ||#arggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

notgoodwithviolence

Hi I’m stressed beyond belief at work and crazy busy but I miss you all dearly and I hope you’re well!!! Hopefully, if I just get through the next 2-3 weeks, things will calm down and I can be active here again. In the meantime, mutuals can find me on d.iscord for ooc chat and rp, and w.ire for ic texting

d.iscord: Dem Fingerstripes#0358 ic wire: thegoldenboywonder

#|| out of power : ooc ||#I LOVE YOU GUYS AND MISS YOU AND HOPE YOU'RE WELL #Give me a week and a day and I should be on again!!!

Hi I’m stressed beyond belief at work and crazy busy but I miss you all dearly and I hope you’re well!!! Hopefully, if I just get through the next 2-3 weeks, things will calm down and I can be active here again. In the meantime, mutuals can find me on d.iscord for ooc chat and rp, and w.ire for ic texting

d.iscord: Dem Fingerstripes#0358 ic wire: thegoldenboywonder

#|| out of power : ooc ||#I LOVE YOU GUYS AND MISS YOU AND HOPE YOU'RE WELL

So....borderline blizzard here today. Already 2 inches on my car when I went out to go get lunch. And I totally forgot that I took my snow scraper out of my car.....so I got creative. And used my horseback riding whip to get the snow off. I’m crying XD

#|| out of power : ooc ||#had to get creative cause I didn't bring my gloves out with me since I was just running to lunch....#I didn't know how much snow we'd gotten already!!

god dammit charles. it’s the first time I have the energy to write and instead of cooperating, he’s just in full teenage angst mode about how he hasn’t been kissed in years and he’s so lonely. let me put on some emo music for you charles, geez.

#|| out of power : ooc ||#why are you like this charles gdi #he won't be serious he just wants to angst all over

intelwon

ind. priv. & sel. multi-muse ft. Magneto penned by V.I.

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#|| what a glorious mutation : promo ||#go follow charles' fav jerk #so rude yet so wonderful #(also just look at that face how can you resist that face he's great)#magnet boy is the best boy #(okay these tags are getting ridiculous i'm sorry i'm v out of it right now but go follow guys)

hi y’all. First of all. I love you guys. Lots. Sending positive vibes to everyone today on this Monday, hoping you’re having a good week. Second, activity will be sporadic this month and likely halfway into November. It’s budget season and that means work is VERY busy for me. It ups my stress levels a lot and I usually just can’t muster up any energy to write. I’ll be lurking in IMs from time to time and I’m always open for plotting and stuff on d.iscord for mutuals.

Thanks for your patience with me and I hope you have a wonderful week!!!

#|| out of power : ooc ||#I rarely drink caffeine anymore. and I just finally broke down and bought a diet coke cause I need it

lannasroleplaymemes

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#|| neurological connections forming : meme ||

but your honor i love him

#|| out of power : ooc ||#me looking for new icons: i love his stupid fucking adorable face #(honest to god why isn't this cute nugget being romanced someone romance him he deserves it)#(yes it's just 'T posting bullshit' hour sorry XD)

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