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if i look back, i am lost
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@npddictated
as an asexual who likes to imagine sex but doesnt actually like having sex, sometimes it just feels like sex isnt real but i wish it was. and post
@mossy-aro
HELL YEAH ABSOLUTELY!!! this is a post for the aromantics too‼️
i must not take it personal. taking it personal is the mind killer. taking it personal is the little death that brings total oblivion. i will face taking it personal. i will permit it to pass over and through me. and when it has gone past i will turn the inner eye to see its path. when the taking it personal has gone there will be nothing. only i will remain
having a job is so fucked up
Ppl will be like “end the stigma around mental illness uwu” but still judge you if you’re unemployed or single or not completely self-sufficient or healthy or perfectly groomed or still live with parents and don’t see the hypocrisy in that whatsoever
My brain, having a meltdown like a toddler: I just can’t do it! I don’t want to !! I can’t!! Me, parenting my tired toddler brain: Take a deep breath, it’s going to be ok. We don’t have to do everything today that’s overwhelming you. Let’s pick the most important thing to work on, ok? What’s the smallest step we can do to work towards that? My toddler brain, wiping away tears: Um, I think we should…open up the important spreadsheet and look at the first row. Me, parenting my tired toddler brain: Great! Let’s do that, and then we can have a popsicle, ok? My toddler brain: *nods through drying tears, upset, but cooperative*
THIS IS HOW YOU MINDFULLY ACCEPT YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS, THOUGH.
I’m a clinical psychologist, and I use this example with literally everyone I work with where the goal is to give thoughts and feelings space in a non-judgmental way. We literally never grow out of this need for compassion, but when we become adults we must become skilled in giving that same compassion to ourselves.
boobies
‘ur quiet’ i am gatekeeping my personality from u
please stop treating the word neurodivergent like it means the overlap between autism and adhd
i dont know how to articulate this well but some of you act like neurodiversity starts with adhd and ends with autism. you talk about "the neurodivergent experience" and everytime you mean "the overlapping experience of adhd and autism."
please remember us when talking about neurodiversity. ocd, dyslexia, dyscaculia, personality disorders, tourettes, intellectual disabilities, schizo-spec disorders, etc. all fall under neurodiversity.
please stop saying neurodivergent when you mean "autism and adhd."
this post is okay to reblog but do not clown on it
i just wanna wear a slutty outfit n be told i’m a pretty boy :-((((
I feel like practicing any skill would be way more fun if I could have a lil level increase thing that pops up in front of me every time I do good like in Skyrim
“Push ups increased to level 5”
“Writing dialogue increased to level 37”
“Coping mechanisms (healthy) increased to level 18”
What a narcissist is: someone who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a phrase that defines a way that certain peoples’ brain’s function and interpret outside information and interaction
What a narcissist is not: an inherently abusive asshole
What a narcissist is: a person who has a disorder that is extremely difficult to detect in oneself, even more difficult to will oneself to get help, and almost impossible to “fix” no matter how much help they get
What a narcissist is not: someone who could “fix” themselves and act “normally” but chooses not to because they don’t care
What a narcissist is: a person who cannot control that they believe that they are more important and on a “higher tier” than those around them, or that they are special
What a narcissist is not: someone who actively puts everyone down around them because they think it’s “funny” or like to “hurt peoples feelings” and are purposely acting like they’re better
What a narcissist is: someone who has a difficult time caring about those around them
What a narcissist is not: someone who actively disregards those around them on purpose just to be an asshole
What a narcissist is: a human being who’s brain is wired a little differently
What a narcissist is not: a monster on a spree to hurt and abuse everyone around them
We are people too. I’m a person too. And too often people like to say that narcissists act on purpose. That’s just simply not true. Most of the things that narcissists do are subconscious and never meant to actively hurt someone else.
That being said, being diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder is NOT an excuse to treat people however you want to.
Work with us and we’ll work with you.
What my abuser (that just so happens to fit almost all criteria for NPD) said to me: “I know that what I say to you is gonna hurt you, I just don’t give a shit! *proceeds to cackle evilly*
So yeaaaah… you know what you’re doing, and you like it.
generalize everyone off of one person lmao
people talk about near death experiences changing them, bitch my anxiety makes everything feel like a near death experience
[shares 2 traits with a character] this is absolutely insane we are the same person
[character that is just like me] fuck this guy
i spent so many months repressing my needs and feelings and stories and voice that now i just can’t convince myself anyone wants to hear it
this is the worst feeling
it feels like my heart is shattering and reaching up my throat and strangling me
i can distract myself and forget but the pain is always there waiting for me to let my guard down
i feel so shitty, all the things she said are getting to me, i miss her and i feel bad and i feel like i shouldn’t
she told me i didn’t love her but that’s a lie. if i didn’t love her i wouldn’t be here now, hurting and overthinking and doubting myself and wishing i did something different
it’s all getting to me and it’s not fair, i thought this is what i wanted but now i just can’t stop missing her, missing her love missing someone who cared and someone i could care about and be better for
i feel like an idiot
is it ever gonna stop?