Nybaby94

23 yr // experienced man eater//

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Do y’all ever just worrry about other babies when they stop posting on here?

So many blogs are quiet and sometimes the last post is about going on a date.

Please stay safe.

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stop overthinking why people did you dirty

they did it and they meant it, fuck em and move on

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“Work until you no longer have to introduce yourself.”

— (via awkwarddly)

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Best advice to give someone in early 20’s

Don’t fall victim of FOMO. Most of the “fun” activities you see advertised on social media or by the greater youth culture are detrimental to your growth as a person and will pay back in negative ways later on: partying, consuming alcohol/drugs, being promiscuous, recklessly spending money traveling and buying food, etc.

Instead use your precious youth working on layering the foundations for your life and growing as person, focus on:

• Gaining financial literacy

• Acquire proper manners and etiquette to best blend in with important people and be taken more seriously in business settings or formal gatherings

• Learn how to properly dress and keep a prudent demeanor. Avoid at all costs replicating the fast fashion trends of social media and the culture of neurotic impulsivity many of your age peers may have

• Work hard to overcome childhood traumas that keep you from properly interact with other and affect your own self-image

• Build valuable connections from people who can mentor you

• Be active networking with people who are in similar professional or interests groups as you to have connections for future projects

• Spend your time reading self development books and applying the learned concepts into your life

• Work hard and learn to invest your money, prioritize exercise and proper dieting to keep your vitality high, your health and help you preserve your youth.

• Acquire transferable skills that you can use in different scenarios such as: learning how to sell, learning multiple languages, improving your emotional intelligence, etc.

Despite what the world might try to yell you your 20s are the most important years of your life, wasting them doing futile hedonistic and irresponsible activities may feel comfortable in the moment but let me assure you will pay the price for your actions sooner or later. Be conscious of your youth and use your time and resources as wisely as possible so that you may have a life of success, greatness and fulfilment. Plant the seed now, your future self will be thank you later.

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The larger a man’s roof the more snow it collects. - Persian Proverb

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D&G S/S 1992 Model: Karen Mulder

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LINGERIE MASTERPOST

You guys asked for it, here it is! I’ll be editing this to organize it later.

Fifi Chachnil: A beautiful french brand making ultra glam girly lingerie. Unlike most lingerie stores, they also sell breathtaking clothing! I’m not very familiar with their sizing, so you would have to use a converter if you use western sizing.

Karolina Laskowska: Now this definitely isn’t a favourite brand of mine, as it isn’t quite my style. Though it’s very pricey for things like soft bras and harnesses, they have wonderful sales! (Or had…. they seem to have disappeared since the last time I checked? not sure). If you’re into strappy pieces, oriental print fabrics, and lace, I would check out this brand. Available size small-large.

Dotties Delights: A favourite brand of mine, I mean any brand that works with the wonderful Miss Mosh herself definitely has some credibility. They’re by no means cheap, running in at about 200$ a bra and 100$ for a pair of knickers (about 300$ for a bra and panty set). Their lingerie though, is surprisingly more affordable coming between about 80-150$. If you can afford this, I by all means encourage you to purchase so I can live through you (you should also buy me a set). They have a fairly large size range, but isn’t very plus sized friendly. 

What Katie Did: Definitely another favourite of mine. If you’re looking for beautiful vintage inspired pieces at an irresistible price look no further than this sob worthy brand. Their bras run between 50-70$ which is not bad at all for such beautiful products! You can get a full bra, panty, and garter set for about 150$ or less. Unreal! If you have a little money burning in your pocket check out their Gold Label collection. It runs a bit pricier but still absolutely nothing to scoff at. You can buy a whole set from that collection for about 175$. They offer sizes up to a DD!

Agent Provocateur: Now I have a bit to say about this brand. It’s become one of the leading competitors in the luxury lingerie universe, and rightfully so. They were built up on beautiful high quality products. Now unfortunately, I would be more eager to suggest another brand. They’re switched their production to asia, and though their prices have gone up, their quality (and designs in my opinion, which appear to appeal to the mass market more like victoria’s secret) have gone down. They do still carry some beautiful pieces, but it feels like their designs are less than luxurious for the most part now. They have fairly limited sizes, with some styles (usually the prettiest ones, sigh) only going up to a C or a D. Others go up to an E. 

Arabel: Very sweet, feminine, and lacey. Lots of pastel colours and soft designs. Not very plus size friendly, but you may be able to contact the owner to have something made. Their bra sizing is tricky (and on the smaller size), so you may need to use a converter. 

Almeida: They don’t have a ton of stock, but I had to add them to my list. Season after season they produce wonderful designs. Right now, it’s all pink, black, and leather (with some lace). Again they’re quite pricey but so beautiful!

Gossard: As you guys know Gossard is a brand i have nothing but good things to say about. I own 4 bras from them (unfortunately the panties and garterbelt i wanted sold out). They offer a huge range of sizes, styles, and colourways. My favourite is the Retrolution line (you will die, honestly it’s beautiful). On top of it all, their prices are beyond reasonable. Not to mention they have unbelievable sales on old seasons. They’re definitely big-boob friendly, and have ultra flattering styles. 

Bordelle: Bordelle is definitely another favourite luxury brand of mine. Super strappy, lots of elastic and hardware (wonderful if you’re in the kink community). Their sizes go from small-large, so unfortunately it’s kind of limited. If you have the means, I would absolutely recommend purchasing from them. Be wary they can be quite pricey! But totally worth it.

Journelle: Journelle is basically a distributer of various luxury lingerie brands. If you want to browse a bunch of beautiful lingerie in one convenient website La Journelle is a great place to start. With the large variety of brands that also means you have a wider variety of sizing, designs, and colours. They have something to fit everyone’s budget. 

Lascivious: Drool worthy! Lascivious consistently pumps out beautiful designer products. They also have amazing sales from previous seasons, so any budget can get excellent designs. I have nothing bad to say about this brand, honestly haha. Please check them out! Their designs are so, so beautiful.

La Perla: Not a personal favourite of mine, but a classic. They’re very expensive, but if you’re looking for more basic designs in luxury quality La Perla is a wonderful option. Be wary that only some countries can access their website, so you may have to shop their products through other shops like Nancy Meyer. 

Astuko Kudo: More latex, couture latex. Out of all the latex shops i know this one is my favourite. Atsuko Kudo leaves me speechless; literally. I’m trying to find the right way to describe them but no words i can string together does this justice. They offer sizes XS-XL, or a made to fit option. In addition to lingerie they have dresses, skirts, jackets, tops and more. All of which are to die for. Do yourself a favour and browse around.

Buttress and Snatch: I really believe this brand has something for anyone. Their designs are just too adorable for words, taking obvious influence from disney, burlesque, and kitsch. Unfortunately their sizing isn’t very generous (for most products), but if you can fit I envy the heck out of you! The bra pricing runs from about 140$-500$. 

Bluebella: Ok bluebella is so absolutely adorable, and totally affordable. You can even get bras for as low as 20$. They have a huge variety of styles, and generous sizing up to an E cup. To say the least, I really want probably about 80% of their products, and am happy to say they will actually fit me.

True & Co.: True & Co. is honestly wonderful. They even offer a quiz at the beginning of your shopping experience to help you find out what bras are best suited for you based on how your current bras fit. Most of their bras  run between 50-65$. They have lots of basics, as well as some more elegant and pretty bras. Their lingerie sets are also super pretty and really really cheap. Like 50$ for a set kind of cheap. Jump on that.

Mise En Cage: Like Journelle, they’re a market place for fine luxury lingerie like Bordelle, Tatu, Mise En Cage originals, and Kriss Soonik.

Bella Bella Boutique: Probably my favourite market for lingerie, they have unreal prices that give a total range. They stock some of my favourite brands and the most beautiful pieces so you can do all your shopping in one place. Mind you, the website isn’t much to look at, but their products are amazing.

Angela Friedman: Luxurious, beautiful, lavish pieces for beautiful ladies. Unfortunately it’s way out of my price range, but if you have some extra money kicking around and would like to give it to a small designer, Angela Friedman offers great lingerie and wonderful designs.

LaBellaFairy: For the corset loving crowd, they offer impeccable corsets. I would do just about anything for one of these. They’re ultra luxurious, beautiful, and have options from edwardian, to off the rack, to wedding pieces. 

La Lilouche: Ultra beautiful, girly, feminine pieces. If you love ruffles, satin, pastels and jewels this brand is definitely for you. They’re on the pricier side, but are still completely worth it to buy from such a talented small designer. 

Coco’s Retro Closet: Speechless! They are by far my favourite vintage inspired independent designer. They’re a smaller company, operating off etsy, but their designs are impeccable and absolutely gorgeous. This list would not be complete without them.

Ohhh Lulu: Softbras and panties galore! Tons of cute panties and bras in delightful prints, and pretty sleep masks. Mind you, if you’re a larger cup size I probably wouldn’t suggest their bras as soft bras give little to no support. They do offer custom sizing though which is nice if you’re looking for something more to just wear around the house or over another bra! They also have quite reasonable pricing. 

Sugar Lace Lingerie: Marie Antoinette would blush at these beautiful pieces. They are pastel, pretty, luxurious and ultra feminine. They currently don’t have a huge selection of products but I would encourage everyone to check out this new designer with tons of potential. 

Lonely Lingerie: Lonely lingerie is a great brand for people who, like myself, aren’t a fan of bright overbearing colours and patterns. Instead, their detail is added into beautiful lace, straps, and interesting designs. Their bras are soft or unpadded bras. Unfortunately, this bra is quite obviously for girl’s with smaller cup sizes. Their bras appear to offer little support, and only go up to a D (sorry largest chested girl). If you are a smaller cup size, this brand is a cool one to look into.

Playful Promises: Pretty designs, and gorgeous models are found here. Though I’m not usually a fan of some of the colours they use (and I really don’t like their patterned fabrics), their lingerie designs themselves are beautiful, AND they offer a larger variety of cup sizes! They have lots of open cup, soft, balconette and longline bras. I’m personally a fan of this brand and follow their releases. There’s always at least one piece I tend to fall in love with.

Marlies Dekkers: You’ve definitely seen knock off’s of their designs on cheap sites, but i encourage you to take a proper look into their line. Dekkers work can be described as simple, strappy, and sensual. I really like the shapes of bras they offer, and the slight fetish-y vibe they give off!

Panache Lingerie: D+ girls! This one’s for you. Whether you want your lingerie simple and supportive, stylish and colourful, or more of an elegant sexy, panache has a huge array of options for stylish lingerie. As a larger breasted girl myself, I find it really difficult to find super sexy bras that can actually still support me. I’ve fallen in love with this brand and plan on making an order as soon as I can.

intimissimi: So much pretty lingerie in one place. Even the name feels luxurious to say, but the prices are fabulous! No more than you’d pay on a cheap VS bra, you can get something more unique. The only issue is that their collections (in my opinion) are hit or miss. Sometimes I’ll want everything, sometimes I’ll find it painfully dull or cheap looking. Check back frequently so you don’t miss out on the good stuff.

For Love and Lemons: I have mixed feelings about this brand, mostly because it definitely feels like it caters to small girls. Offering sizes XS-L, it’s definitely leaving out larger chested ladies. There’s lots and lots of lace which I love. Everything looks super delicate and feminine. If you’re on the small size, I’d give it a little peak.

Myla: Definitely on the more expensive side, but it just screams luxury. Beautiful silks and fine laces adorn bras, panties and more. Luckily, if you aren’t willing to break the bank they do have a sale section where you can find pieces for up to 75% off. If you’re into the more elegant sexy, this brand is worth looking at.

SIL: A new favourite of mine, this brand is so worth checking out! There are tons of gorgeous retro-looking finds that make my inner pinup girl scream with excitement. They have a great stock of sizes, styles and colours, and their prices are pretty great. Not too high, but not cheap. I made my first order of two bras and a garterbelt and I am over the moon with how great I look in them. 

Chantal Thomas: I’m a big fan of this designer, every season she puts out beautiful pieces of lingerie. I have yet to purchase something for myself, but I definitely have my eye on a few pieces. Her brand is relatively easy to find and stocked at a variety of places. 

Jolidon: *heart eyes* I am never disappointed by Jolidon. I could probably pick something out of a hat and be happy with anything I got from it. They have something for everyone. Really. Whether you’re into simple elegance, luxurious laces and silks, more young and flirty styles, or simple and sensual there is literally something for any style. Just beautiful!

Aubade:  Love love love! They offer some of my favourite kinds of bras (black and white lace, in extraordinarily sexy designs) as well as bright patterns, colours and styles following the seasons. They definitely aren’t cheap but they’re a brand I personally cannot wait to add to my collection.

Von Follies (by Dita Von Teese): well…. What to say of this brand…. it’s quickly become one of my favourites. The quality is great and the designs are impeccable. It screams luxury. I can’t wait to buy even more from the lovely Dita! Be careful though, it definitely runs small in terms of sizing. If you’re between sizes, I would suggest sizing up. Be generous, because buying lingerie only to have it be too small is never fun!

Fraulein Annie: I recently stumbled across this brand and have slowly become obsessed. The colour schemes and styles are absolutely fabulous, right up my alley. Very classic, beautiful, super flattering… The next bit of money that comes by way will most definitely be going to this brand. I’m hoping to have quite a few pieces from their current collection.

Else: Lace lovers, rejoice! This brand will have you drooling. Handmade in Istanbul, they offer superb styles in fashionable fabrics and lovely colours. Whether you like soft bras, light support, or wires, they have a great variety of options. Unfortunately for my fellow bigger busted ladies, this brand is definitely geared towards smaller chested girls.

Chantelle: A brand a can personally stand behind, I would highly suggest taking a look. I sell Chantelle in high qualities at the bra shop I work at and my customers love the quality! You’re guaranteed to love your purchase. They offer lots of sizes, colours, and styles for everyone. Whether you’re looking for a great supportive bra, something conservative, something colourful, or something sexy, you’re bound to find something you will love from Chantelle.

Curvy Kate: Yay! A great brand dedicated to large breasted girls (especially girls who love colour, because they offer lots of that). They’re very well known for having one of the best strapless bras for large chested girls! 

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So many brands I never knew! As a DD girl, this was highly needed! Thanks :)

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Sugar Tips: Being Bratty

I hear time and again how men don’t want to date someone who is “princess-ey.” Both in my personal life and especially on SA. At the same time, they want a woman who definitely looks fabulous (heels, dresses, makeup, hair done, etc.) yet whine that they just want someone who isn’t high maintenance.

Here is the thing though: men are dumb. They actually can’t quite articulate what they want… they don’t want someone helpless, yet they definitely want to be the hero. They don’t want high maintenance, yet they love meeting demands. They don’t want a brat, yet they love to spoil the right girl 😘

Here is a list of tips on how to be the perfect style of bratty: 1. Start Slow

Don’t come flying into a first date with a bratty attitude. While these tips will ultimately apply, most men see them as initial red flags. Reel him in slowly, incorporate bratty tactics as the relationship evolves. What you get away with in a month will be very different than what is acceptable in the first week. Know that he has a preconceived notion of behavior he finds “acceptable” but that he’s likely wrong and will definitely appreciate these bratty tactics.  Also, some of these tips won’t apply to every guy, and some need to be modified and applied appropriately. It’s not always a good time to be bratty, but always be on the look out for the perfect opportunity.

2. Insist on Chivalry

Have him open doors for you. Duh, right? Should be a given and he probably does anyways. Now, take it a step further. If he forgets or is slacking, stand blankly in front of the closed door with a attitude that is a combination of “what, I have to open this myself?” and “I have literally no clue how to even open a door.” Insisting on chivalry weirdly reinvigorates men bc it reminds them how much you need them AND how keeps them in the I-need-to-work-for-this mentality. Lol, lately I have been insisting on this dynamic in revolving doors - it’s quite hilarious! I’ll just stand blankly in the revolving door, and he will maneuver it so I get through and he’ll follow in the compartment behind me. 

3. Have Easily Solvable Problems

These can range from him purchasing you a hotel room because you don’t like to drunk drive after events downtown, all the way to him literally tying your shoes (these both have seriously happened to me, yes). Acting helpless charges up his hero-complex - but adding an element of bratty ~pouting bc things are inconvenient for you~ makes it sexy. Men love to please a pretty but unhappy woman. It literally feels so rewarding to them. Also, for context, their wives are likely cold, whiney bitches who never allow the SDs to solve their problems (for which I pity them). By slightly imitating that behavior, with the element of fixability, it becomes a delightful experience for SDs. 

4. Have Dislikes

Have a certain food, scent, or place (subway, certain streets, etc) that you absolutely loath. These mannerisms of being picky not only allows him opportunities to problem solve for you (see 3) but also reinforces the concept that he should be working towards making you happy. He will more carefully scrutinize activities and restaurants while thinking of you. The more he caters to your needs, the more he will subconsciously like you - why would he bend over backwards for a girl unless she really is that beautiful/hot/special?!  Dislikes also play as a factor that the SD can feel comfortable teasing you about. SDs also sometimes will reference your dislikes, hoping that you’ll notice that he remembers you, and will therefore be happier with him for being a good listener. I personally hate potatoes - unless they’re turned into vodka 😜. Anyways, whenever we are at a restaurant if we’re sharing dishes, I’ll slightly whine that I don’t like potatoes if he suggests a dish with them. Then, he will regroup and try to pick out a better one. If my dish at a restaurant comes with potatoes, I’ll playfully sulk for a minute or two, and act like it’s a super harrowing experience. 

5. Occasionally Throw a Mild Tantrum

Ok… this one is quite risky but can be really rewarding. So, think of all the elements of a toddler absolutely losing their shit: stomping feet, angry face, clenched fists, saying “No,” throwing things on the ground, and occasionally even throwing themselves on the ground. Now, I don’t recommend all of these at once, but isolate some of these and apply them to situations: - SD pokes fun at me, respectively, but I will playfully over-dislike it and scrunch up my lips and tightly cross my arms, and slouch over into myself saying ‘not nice!’ and ‘you’re stupid’ childishly. In small instances that are clearly joking, it’s quite interesting and even cute - we are at his apartment (alone) and the restaurant I want to go to this evening doesn’t take reservations - I literally collapse on the ground and go “whyyyyy!? this is so unreasonable I want to go there and only there!!” SD looks over delighted at my bratty display, and he will get to work either calling them, or trying to convince me that we can go somewhere else just as good I could literally make a million examples, but you get the picture 😜

So full disclosure: start these slowly, and modify them to match the specific SDs preferences. Maybe he likes public tantrums, but maybe he will literally be put off at a slightly picky eating request. Balance. Start slow - like I said men think they don’t like bratty behavior, but in practice it’s a total turn on.

Also, timing is the key part. Don’t be “Unable to open a door” when you guys are rushing to make a reservation. Don’t whine about how cold you are the moment you step outside, let it build up. You got this you bratty babes 🥰

Happy Sugaring, SSL

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“Feelings are just visitors, let them come and go.”

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Marilyn Monroe - The Sex Siren

The Sex Siren has a more urgent and immediate effect than the spectacular Siren does. 

As the incarnation of sex and desire, she does not bother to appeal to extraneous senses are to create a theatrical build up. 

Physicality offers the best opportunities here, since the siren is preeminently a sight to behold. 

A man is easily deceived by appearance. 

Before appearing on site, or even at a party, Marylin would with spent hours before the Mirror. 

That famous image took hours to create.

She spent years studying and practicing the art of make up

The voice, the walk, the face and look where all constructions, an art.

Other women new just as many tricks for heightening their sex appeal, but what’s separated Marylin from them was her little girl quality with an unconscious element. 

Her background as a foster child had deprived her of something critical: affection. 

Her deepest need was to feel loved and desired, which made her seem constantly vulnerable, like a little girl craving protection. 

She emanated this need for love before the camera. It was effortless, coming from somewhere real and deep inside.

Its innocence was precisely what excited a man.

The key is the air of schoolgirl innocence. Why one part of you seems to scream sex, the other part is coy and naive. As if you were incapable of understanding the effect you are having.

Her touch of innocence and vulnerability is what separates the sex siren from the courtesan or whore.

The mix is perversity satisfying; it gives the man the critical illusion that he is a protector, the father figure, although it is actually the sex siren who controls the dynamic.

Next Part: The Natural

Source: The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene