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@obsessionwithmelzara
the natural lifespan of a fandom is unlimited. when well tended a fandom can be functionally immortal. and yet everywhere you look you see newly bred fandoms withering and dying when they’re barely a year old. barely even six months old. fans are looking at their six month old fandoms and saying i think it’s on its last legs, should i euthanise it? when with the proper care that fandom could outlive them for decades. it’s sad. sad state of affairs we’re in.
simon yotsuya byouin gallery (2003)
The “would you rather have a gay son or a thot daughter” memes are honestly pretty revealing about men’s insecurities surrounding their hypothetical kids depending on gender. A man expects his son to be his heir, his protégé, his best friend, basically an extension of himself to the point that men literally give their sons their own name. His worst fear is that his son will reject his proper role as a man and forfeit the spoils that are supposed to come with masculinity, namely the right to conquer women and claim one to have his own children. Your son being a gay man, especially an effeminate or flamboyant one, is not only a rejection of masculinity but symbolizes a rejection of the father, his ego, and his desire to continue his bloodline.
Daughters, on the other hand, are seen as their father’s property and are expected to one day be handed over to another man to have his children. The worst thing she could possibly do is be “ran through” - to be “used up” and have her potential value as a wife and mother ruined. It’s fascinating that these memes aren’t worried about the idea of a “gay daughter” because lesbian and bi women are often not even believed about their attraction to women and are still expected to marry a man and breed (though bi women are often stereotyped as promiscuous/sluts anyways). And men are encouraged to be sluts anyways, we just don’t call them that. A father pats his son on the back for being a raging whore as long as he just fucks women.
your doglike mannerisms and subservient nature and rather characteristic boyish grin and weird relationships with the older men around you have bewitched me. can i interest you in a prostate orgasm
i still know how to draw these two ... :'(
what i would love right now:
access to an organized and extensive archive of all queer films from every country since time immemorial. please please please please
Ask yourself: what’s good about this moment right now? Is the sun out? Can you hear birds? Are you drinking coffee? Can you smell freshly cut grass? Is your bed soft and warm? These little things are oh so precious and yet seem so arbitrary.
i am finally done w taxes!!!! shall i play minecraft or draw pornography 🤔
so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation, the goal of which was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.
i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care – a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation – and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.
i don't think i'd have died without transition – not in the conventional sense, at least – but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.
and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.
so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-denial that so many of us once learned to rely on.
and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to
i love this fucking post. just thousands of deeply and profoundly wounded people in the notes recognizing their past and present selves in a picture of self-abnegation, ignorance, and despair. some are weary, some are shocked, some are hopeful; all have tried at some point to make themselves disappear. they failed, and must now work thanklessly to undo a lifetime of shame and starvation in favor of the happiness, abundance, and pleasure which is their birthright.
so many of my siblings, especially those who are awaiting or beginning transition, step into transgender life as fragile, apathetic beings who have spent their lives being coerced, beaten, and tricked into winnowing themselves to nothing, doing the work of the murderers for them, because they have been taught to believe that trans people deserve to live suspended, half-dead lives as punishment for their abhorrence.
they do not. you do not.
if you put your thoughts in the tags or the notes on this post, whether they were hopeful, despairing, reminiscent, or terrified, know that i have read it, and i love you. keep fighting.
house is a girl you have to take care of her
the house. a house. your house. building. residence. abode. not that faggot from the tv show
ceasefire today, accountability from tomorrow until the end of time. all my love to the steadfast people and martyrs of gaza
in common israeli behavior, as phase I of the ceasefire expires today israel attempts to sabotage the ceasefire again to avoid accountability.
they have violated the conditions for phase I and are refusing to move to phase II by announcing a war crime instead: resuming the starvation siege and preventing international aid from entering gaza during ramadan. this is all par for the course. israel has never met an agreement it wouldn't break, nor missed an opportunity to inflict more suffering. accountability will come regardless, but now is the time to be alert, especially as western media tries to obfuscate the reasons for the ceasefire violations.
get my pussy up.....get my money up...... (chanting) (barren stone temple) (voice reverberating) get my pussy up...... (cobweb sounds) (crumbling support beams) (emptiness) get my money up.....
rewatching iwtv and sorry it's so funny that louis says to daniel "this is the point in my story where you said in san francisco, and i paraphrase, 'give it to me'" like he might as well have said "this is how far we got last time before you started gagging for it like a common whore. do you think you can put your tits away this time?" ldpdl original slut shamer
the thing about disability is it really does sometimes boil down to "wow i wish i could do that" and then you can't. and it sucks.
accomodations are important but i think they miss the point of this post. sometimes you can't do it. at all. someone needs to do it for you or it will never happen.
"and then you force yourself anyway" folks im starting to think some of you really do not understand what it means to not be able to do things.
every description of devil’s minion in the books: the Preternatural Angel beautiful magnificent armand wluld carefully wash off his lover aka the FILTHY MAN and carefully choose from his FILTHY FUCKING CLOTHES gross because he was BROKE BROKE BROKE AND sleeping on BENCHES did i mention he was DRUNK
white people be like “i’m not racist but…” and then proceed to speed run the world record for micro-aggressions
lets hear it for transgenderism and faggotry. can I get a round of applause for transgenderism and faggotry
also shoutout to queerness and dykishness and gender fuckery. if you reblog this post you hate conservatives
