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Mocha/Hearth | 22 | they/she/hymn Heyo! I just reblog things that I think are neat bc I'm too anxious to really put out my own stuff. The header is by @bleuhillbitz, and the current icon is from the IDW MLP comics. 

[mmleepmlorp]

This blog is my adult version of cutting pictures out of magazines and glueing them on to paper

[artisheaven]

"Tiny Landscapes" by Constance Baltuck of Juneau, Alaska (2022)

[fleebites]

throwback thursday: recharge

[eldritchbauble]

People who have a pervasive shit attitude toward everything are extremely exhausting to be around. No, this doesn't make you a bad person for having trauma or depression. You're allowed to go through hard times and lean on others for support. But there is a point where being negative and spiteful about things all the time is not only self-defeating but harmful to your relationships. There is a meaningful difference between talking about your struggles vs. almost pointedly refusing to engage with opportunities for positive experiences/emotions. The latter becomes contagious and fatiguing for people around you, because you're essentially expecting them to dig themselves into a hole, too. It can even start to feel like you're punishing others for enjoying things if you're not happy. And it's wrong.

[eldritchbauble]

Like my mother will often respond to a comment that's positive or happy by talking about how she's unhappy, upset, or angry about things, and she does it with a spiteful "good for you" tone. Absolutely nothing I say will get her to acknowledge that she's still being shown support and caring even if people aren't willing to be miserable with her all the time. It's a very unhealthy and emotionally immature trait. If this is you, I strongly suggest that you look at ways to improve your distress tolerance and consider the emotional impact you have on others. It is NOT others' job to regulate your emotions or fix all of the wrongs in your life for you. Other people's happiness or attempts at happiness aren't a betrayal.

[eldritchbauble]

The bottom line is that it does actually matter how you frame things, sometimes. A lot of the time. Are you committed to being miserable because you take some form of satisfaction in it, and is that maybe preventing you from being healthier and happier?

[rosechata]

rojoalto

[abbytabbys]

(Forever Together au) was playing around with new brushes and here’s the outcome. I like it, but maybe I need to make the shading deeper or lines darker. 

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

spoiler alert: you’re going to get through this, look back, and understand why some things went the way they did

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[monolupin]

Commission inspired by her event ‘Under the Meteor Shower’

[haaarpb]

happy july 4th it is peaches day

[haaarpb]

happy peaches day to all that celebrate

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[blinkees found f2u, credits to makers]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

someone in your life wants you to be safe right now

[01-heaven]

do you have any medieval/knight/fantasy themed stamps & blinkies perchance? Love your blog btw.

x // x // x // x

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Buttons pngs ⋆·˚ ༘ * (no credit needed).

[somebitchprobably-graphicdump]

Tiles!!! Lots of them!! :)

F2U just like/ reblog. Tag if you’d like but it’s not necessary 🫶

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if you were ever so kind... some blue and yellow dividers? maybe a whimsical-esque vibe?

I already have a yellow whimsy post here, so i focused a little bit more on the blue in this set.

Blue / Yellow whimsy

F2U just like/ reblog. Tag me if you wanna 💙

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

it was never your fault they were abusive to you. it wasn’t because you did something wrong to deserve mistreatment. it was because they were cruel and you were there for them to hurt.