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I genuinely have no idea why they haven't talked with me in more then a month, it's just so strange that I am not only hurt by it but also just befuddled.
They where talking normaly to me until at some point they tolled me they would be away for 10 or so days for some school stuff, THEN they where gone for longer and when I asked they just siad they where with some friends, AFTER THAT I could get maybe one or two sentences from them a day andn whenever I asked what they where doing they just said they where on a voice call with their partner(ugh), and some days they where just not online at all. The only ACTUAL conversation I managed to have with them was asking if I could meet their partner(ugh) witch they reffused quite persistently, apparently the only people that even know that those 2 people are together is me and their parents, they do not want ANYONE they know (other then their parents) to even MEET that person, witch is all just so fucking strange and confusing to me??????? RIGHT after that conversation they tolled me to stop asking about it and then stoped replying to me. At some point I managed to get my hands on a common friend of ours (witch only appears like once a blue moon I swear down) and they just said that the person I am interested in is busy with school, and that would make SOME sense... IF THEY WHERE NOT ONLINE LIKE ALMOST EVERY DAY PLAYING VIDEO GAMES?????? I CAN LITERALLY SEE THEM PLAYING FUCKING SKYRIM AS I TYPE THIS
Mind you, this sort of behaviour ONLY started after they left to do that school thing, before that everything was normal, we talked normaly, and there was nothing that I really had a problem with (other then them talking about how they miss their partner UGH) ((me, that person I like and their partner are all in different countries))
A day or so ago a friend had the theori that maybe that person that they are with dose not like that they talked with me since I kinda obviously like them??? And that person was like doing the whole abusive partner thing "isolate your partner from everyone else" but I don't exactly know enough about that bloody basterd to tell if that is true or not, but at the same time I don't have any other ideas (and I swear to every god that you can think of if I somehow find out that this is the case if I manage to get my hands on that guy or that guy's information I will do everything within my power to bring nothing but ruin upon his existnce, I already planed to try and break them up somehow but if he is the cause of this I will do all within my power to leave him with no social life if I can)... of cores that depends if I can somehow FIND ANYTHING ON THIS GUY.
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OMG THISBIS. EXACTLY ON PAR W SOMETHIFN I WAJTED TO ASK!!!!! I WAS GUNNA ASK IF THEIR CURRNT PARTNER WAS DOING THA WHOLE "isolate and talk tk NOBODY.but me" THING 😭😭😭😭😭
I HAVE NO CLUE wahtd id do in this situartion..... my only idea is thay like. i could create the perfect personality for darling and. make a alt and suddenly meet them kn a game theh play we become friends i save them from their rs rhey like me we date but they dont mknow its me... THAT COULD PROBABLY WORK..? buf thay takes atleast 1-3 years hinstly..... HOPE U FIND OUT WAHTS GOING ON SOON 😭
for all the other yans with jealousy problems sigh: if someone is getting too close to darling (platonically or romantically or however), what would be the best way to drive a wrench in that relationship?
i mean, depending on the circumstances, i have a few ideas as to what could happen that would do the relationship in (circumstances as in the character/background/reputation of the unwanted person in question, what environment/place they interact in, what activities they do together, the shared interests or traits that brought them together in the first place, the friends that the unwanted person has, etc.)
you can answer by picking your fav idea out of these or explain your own, but to make it clear what i’m asking for, i don’t really know how one would go about making these things happen in the first place 😓
causing one person to say or do something that goes completely against the other’s values or agitates them/makes them uncomfortable in some way, causing conflict > irreparable drift in the relationship
something similar to the above but instead of an argument, one person would just run away from/ghost/avoid the other. which one to aim for depends on the kind of person you’re dealing with
if not to darling, the third party doing something totally unacceptable > stories and rumors spread > everyone hates and is disgusted by or afraid of that third party now > darling jumps on the toxic gossip train and also loathes them and leaves them or just leaves cuz of the peer pressure
the above but instead of making the third party the villain, do it to darling! as satisfying as it could be to watch some thief’s life fall apart and completely void and shit all over whatever connection they had with darling, this method would prevent most any connection to darling from happening in the first place. plus if you’re the only one who accepts, chooses to trust and stay with, and is there for darling, you’d be pretty much set for life 💍
whatever place/platform/class/extracurricular they were interacting at becomes inaccessible or corrupted in some way; darling weighs the pros and cons and finds that going to that place is not worth it and they lose their main source of contact with the third party. of course, this would only COMPLETELY do the relationship in if they didn’t meet outside of that space, but at the very least it could be a good start for causing rifts.
etc etc………yap yap yap yap……..
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QUESTION TIME 4 YANBLRR!!!
PERSONALLY, ivevdone all of them ii think...? I CSNT JUST CHOOSE 1 THEYRE ALL PEAK 😢😢😢😢😢 IVE ALSO DONE A FEW UNLISTED METHODS AS WELL!!
Hi again! It's the person who did that ask where I asked about other ways to cyber stalk and stuff (if we're doing emojis to identify people here I will just pick up 🖥 if that's alright)
Yeahhhh I get that it's probably a scam, I will probably like at least look it up to see what other people say but yeahh.....
The only social media I've been able to find either have absolutly nothing, or absolutly nothing and are private, I found like, ONE social media THAT MIGHT be them (I am not 100% sure if it actually them) but it's private so at some point I do want to see about using some site that claims to allow you to see info from private accounts like followers (witch as far as I know they all either do not work or cost money so I will see bout that when I get money).
Looking up social media that is in their country might be something I look into yeah thank you for the advise! ^^
Also unfortunatly I am not into contact with the person I like, they have not talked with me in more then a month, and it's one of the reasons why I lost my mind enough to the point where I started to try and stalk them to get as much info as I could.
The last talk I got to actually have with them was me trying to ask to meet their partener(ugh) but they just keept refusing and aparently nobody else besides me and their parents even know that those 2 people are together, afterwards they tolled me to stop and haven't talked with me since, witch is just really strange to me????? Heck even a week before they ghosted me for about a week they said maybe 2 sentences per day, and when I asked what they where doing they said they where in a voice call with their partenr(ugh), witch was a GIANT source of frustration and depression witch is also one of the things that pushed me to do the whole cyberstalking thing. At the moment I am just waiting until I can get my hands on some money so I can see about using some info sites that are paied, like besides the site that allows you to see things from pricate accounts for money I also rememerd some "look up this person's name and find info" that was paied so it might have more info, and a site where you can see if any data from an email has been leaked, but it was paied so I will also check that one when I get money.
Other then that I am not toooooo sure what to do.
Again thank you for your time! ^^
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HEYYY ANON!!!!!! 💗💗
YOUR WELCOME 4 THA ADVICE!! AND to me ot sounds like they separated on purpose...? LIEK THEY JUST DONT WANNA INTERACT FOR SOME REASKN 🤔🤔 OBVIOUSLY i donf know them or the. fulll story BUT tatts something u should think about!!!!!! WHY dont they want to interact and actively avoid you
ALSO YE A MAKE SURE UDKNT GET SCAMMED 😭😭😭😭😭😭 IDT theres a actial way to see jnto a priv account but ofncourse i could be wronf but......just stay aware oke.. cause idt that exists yet..... unelss its some random vibe coded website theyre on🥹💗
HOPE YOU FINFD A LEAD SOON ANON!! GOOD LUCK 💗💗
Hello! I was just curious if you knew anything for cyber stalking, I've been tring to find stuff on a particular person, and I did manage to find their address, 2 emails, phone number, I believe the name of their mom (almost all of these where things I was given by them in the past), but I haven't really been able to get much from those, as any social media they have was completly empty or private, or just didn't exist in FB's case (seriously who dosen't have a facebook account even if you don't use it???), I also tried to find any info I could by looking up documents from schools nearby where they live but I coulden't find anything, the fact that they where all in a language I don't speak didn't really help, I mostly want to find info on someone they know (their partner ugh) but I haven't had much luck in any way, I did find some sites that MIGHT be able to tell me more info (one of them can allegedly tell me things like the password of a instagram account but I have yet to research it) but they either don't work or cost money witch at the moment I do not posses (tho that might be changing at some point hopefully).
Just wanted to ask if you have any advice on what other things I could try or any app or site (preferably not payed but payed is still aceptable) that might be able to help me out. :,3
Hope you have a good day! ^^
OOKNSO I JUST WANNA SAY. WTV U GOUND THAT SAID ITLL GIVE U A INSTAGRAM PASSWORD IS A SCAM😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ESPECIALLY. if its a site... SITES DO NOT HOLD THAT TYPE OF INFO SO FREELY!!!! MONEY OR NOT!!!
ANUYWAY. for cyber stalking ther e isnt much u can do me thinks.. social media is EMPTY..???? GOOD LORD?? BUT. the oen thing i can think of is lookign up social media apps that people use where they live, stuff that isnt the USUAL things like tiktok or instagram!!! they could have a active telegram or somethinf depending on where they live....
BUT!!! in terms of other things, UR PRETTY SET!!!! GOOD JOB 🥹💗 if you have contact with darling you can just try to casually bring up any social apps theyre active on for help, if theres NO contact ummmm. i canthink of a entire plan that involves irl stuff 🤔
ggguess who’s back……..trust i will come up with sooo many stupid asks and youll give baller adivce on em and they’ll all get 100000 reposts and the blog will blow up…..
sooo one thing i’ve learned from this blog is being pushy with a darling is a versatile strategy that can get you a lot of leverage!!
what if darling doesn’t like pushy or needy people 🥺 (yes this is kind of adding on to the last ask…..)
i’ve seen ppl get all pathetic and overbearing and clingy for darling (dw they got what was coming for them. 🐺) and then darling cut them off and told horror stories of that meddler to everybody. SO much (deserved) shit was talked and darling kept talking about how much they hated touch + all the venting n threatening pushed onto them (they have been DEALT with. 🐺 AWOO) (i did NOT do anything illegal) i imagine that would be a pretty normal response to that sorta behavior which locks off all the fun spells….
now i DO have….heh….some favoritism and privilege with darling….#thefruitsofmylabor heh…butttt i still don’t wanna push it,, since it would be ooc for me….. i neeeever ever ever get mushy teary pathetic touchy feely or demanding just to be safe (god knows i want to. i felt like kyoko danganronpa execution scene watching that guy get slimed tf out)
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i see i see....🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 SO NO CLINGING OR PUSHING..🤔
OKS O INSTEAD of the begging && alike advice i gave, replace taht stuff with casually asking with a tint of worry, BUT IF DARLING continues to do the nonchalant act quit ot.. BUT. just say 'okay just know ill always be there for you when your going through anything', it serves as a trustful reminded taht isnt pushy nor clingy!!! JUST a reminder, then drop it n wait till theyre that way again & repeat it, THIS IS MORE OF A. LONG WAITING GAME but evebtually itll be burned into darlings skull and they SHOULD eventually start being honest and truthful, along with venting more openly, ang slowly u should be able to build up their vulnerability + clinginess since theyll go to you for help!!!! and when you help someone enough times, they seee you as a good source && cling onto you for more help 🥺💗💗
biting and clawing at the bars of my enclosure fighting the urge to spam this blog w/ asks…………losing…….
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SPAM MEE!!!! I DONTF GET MANY ANONS ANND I REALLY LOVE THEM 🥹🥹🥹
LUVVV THE CONCEPT OF THIS BLOG!! it’s like a safe space but for “ toxic “ ppl which we need so much more of 😭😭
- anon from the last ask (can i take 💍 pretty please)
AAWHHHH TAHNK U!!!!!! 🥹🥹🥹 ITS SMTH I REALLYYY WANTED 2 DO, i think tha toxic ppl deserve a space 4 THEMSELVES 🥹
OBVIOUSLLY I HAVE A LINE I CANT CROSS but id make that clear if asked something i cant provide!!!!
we are yanblr kirrkkkkk... we carryyyy the obsessionnnnn...... we fighhtttt for the darlingssss we honorr the stalkinngg...
darling is the kind of person who can be lonely and disregarded for a long time without ever asking for an apology or explanation…always like “it’s okay i get it lol” even tho darling was obviously bothered…. (a saint 💗💗💗💗💗)
how can i get darling to be a bit more vulnerable…maybe needy………rubs hands together evilly…
HURRAHYYY ANOTHER ASK!!! AND ANON.... I GOT UUU 👀💗💗💗
NOW this is whatbi like to think is the type of method that REALLYYY makes you look like a sweethearted saint!!!! SO. if thats too out of character for ya & might be suspicious sprinkle your own personality in the mix..
SO for me it sounds liek your darling will put up & tolerate things while keeping true emotions hidden 🤔 so for this party trick youd have to wait till you get them to do this again: be bothered without saying anything!!! this can be for any situation BUT. works best the more bad the situation was
how do i find my darlings info, specifically an address quickly?
GOOD QUESTION ANONN!!!
SO theres 2 main ways (and 1 extra more difficult way) you can achieve this!!!! IF you already have your darlings phone number, go to whitepages or beenverified!! I THINK both you need to pay a smallll amount for BUT. its worth it 10/10, upon looking up the numbe r you should either see an address or name (or both) attached to the number, and you can go frum there!! i used this method to reverse it back to my old obsessions name and then slowly found her entire family tree!!!
DONT have their number or any other info? I GOT U!!!! if you have contact / message your darling frequently you can jusf casually bring it up and give them a textnow number, while they give YOU their actual numberr!!
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