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@okcupidmessages
You're probably waaaaay too cerebral for me (I'm a bit of a simpleton) but I dig your style (odd because I'm typically averse to tattoos) and certain elements of your probably-way-too-long profile sparked some neurons in my pea brain. Plus I'm a sucker for anyone who's dropped out of a master's program. -Fred
Skimmed your profile but I need to have a coffee and really wake up before I tackle this thing and read it. Will write more shortly. I live a little bit north of the city so I'm already above 14 that street so I wouldn't mind visiting lol. Anyway I'll write more in a a bit. We have similar interests. Oh also I'm random. :p
Why do girls do the short hair thing?
I originally posted this series of messages:
“Message #1 (May 18th):
[username]! You pop up a lot as a match.. I like your tattoos and the pictures of you grilling or stuffing the turkey.. I also love pickles.. Did you know they are good for the immune system?? I bet you, like me, are very healthy… It’s because of pickles..
Message #2 (May 20th): Hi [username], how has your weekend been??
Message #3 (May 20th): [Incorrectly spelled username]!! You get plenty of messages from me.. But I’m sure you get plenty of messages from lots of guys.. I’m at 139th I’ve been in and out of wash. Heights a lot.. I know great Italian places around and great places for margaritas…
Message #4 (May 21st): Hi [username], how are you?? Do any grilling recently?? I’m going to a bbq on Thursday.. so I’m brainstorming ideas..
Message #5 (May 23rd): [username].. I realize I’m a part of your social experiment.. You’re like a secret scoiologist.. You want to go to a BBQ on thurs.?? It’s a friends bday and I won’t know anyone there.. Could be fun.. Sometimes I’m funny.. And it’ll be a chance to grill..
Message #6 (June 19th): [username]!! You never give me the time of day.. :(. But how are things?? How is your week going?? Btw have I told you Im in wash hts. And I like to cook.. We should at least be friends!! Take care!
And I've gotten so fed up with this dude's inability to take a hint that I finally lost it and wrote the following response (after the 6th message I received from him):
Since subtlety of any kind is apparently lost on you: QUITE OBVIOUSLY I have not responded to any of the SIX messages you have sent me in the past month because I am NOT INTERESTED. This has long been, in my mind, the easiest way to rebuff any unwanted advances on OkCupid (particularly since I receive quite a few messages to begin with). 98% of the men who message me on this website without a response in return seem to understand this. You, however, seem to belong to the remaining 2% who believe that if you try hard enough, if you are annoyingly persistent to the point of creepiness, then eventually I'll somehow give in and want to go out with you. This leads me to conclude that you are either stupid or perhaps completely socially inept. What is worrisome to me about this is that your nagging persistence, whether based in stupidity or social ineptitude, is maybe indicative of a lack of respect for women (or just people, generally) and their right/ability to say no, to refuse, and to express disinterest. And here's the thing: I devote too much of my time and energy fighting against a system that perpetuates the notion that men don't have to take "no" for an answer for me to ever be okay with this. I strongly advise you to take this time now to sit back and reflect on yourself and how you approach and interact with other people, especially women. You need to learn to accept rejection for what it is - an order of cease and desist - and not an invitation for harassment. You'll find that you'll have much better luck with your interactions with women - and, ultimately, maybe not wind up with a court order against you for stalking/harassment. This is not, in any way, an encouragement for you to continue messaging me. I am even less interested in you than I was from the start. Please do not message me anymore - I cannot be clearer. I wish you the best of luck in learning how to respect women and their boundaries.
I don't give a shit if it seems harsh. I'm tired of it all.
Message #1 (May 18th): [username]! You pop up a lot as a match.. I like your tattoos and the pictures of you grilling or stuffing the turkey.. I also love pickles.. Did you know they are good for the immune system?? I bet you, like me, are very healthy... It's because of pickles.. Message #2 (May 20th): Hi [username], how has your weekend been?? Message #3 (May 20th): [Incorrectly spelled username]!! You get plenty of messages from me.. But I'm sure you get plenty of messages from lots of guys.. I'm at 139th I've been in and out of wash. Heights a lot.. I know great Italian places around and great places for margaritas... Message #4 (May 21st): Hi [username], how are you?? Do any grilling recently?? I'm going to a bbq on Thursday.. so I'm brainstorming ideas.. Message #5 (May 23rd): [username].. I realize I'm a part of your social experiment.. You're like a secret scoiologist.. You want to go to a BBQ on thurs.?? It's a friends bday and I won't know anyone there.. Could be fun.. Sometimes I'm funny.. And it'll be a chance to grill.. Message #6 (June 19th): [username]!! You never give me the time of day.. :(. But how are things?? How is your week going?? Btw have I told you Im in wash hts. And I like to cook.. We should at least be friends!! Take care!
I have not responded to any of these messages.
Just gonna try once more, very forwardly 'cause you're in the hood and appear to be like the sexiest thing ever. Full disclosure: I was about to close my okc account...am leaving nyc in a few weeks to focus on meditation training and volunteer work full time... But feeling really frisky and would love to find an early summer playmate who loves every aspect of intimacy, sharing, and sensuality...ready to dive straight into a connection that's sufficiently intense in exploration on every level (mental/physical/emotional/spiritual) to make it worthwhile, but also non-attached given the practicalities... So...while maybe this is just a spin on typical male NSA callousness, would you be up for an intense diving into immersion and even fusion that's time limited...? ...my ideal scenario would be if you invited me over to tell me all about yourself while I go down on you silently for at least the first hour, squeezing your life out between moans as you interrupt yourself by coming in explosions over and over and in the process becoming more and more open and undefended and baring any and every fear and craving and secret and question and soaking up my attentiveness and responsiveness and responses (as I come up for air now and then to give you a break before bringing you back to crescendo)...and then swaping and hearing me as you take me into your every orifice and I bare my soul and body and secrets and mind and empty everything in orgasm all over and in you... ...and then, naked and vulnerable, entering one another mutually in every sense...sharing, melding, feeling, penetrating, tasting, smelling, listening, perceiving... ...without any expectation or entanglement...fully immersed in a moment of uncertain length but total abandon and freedom to share and demand and feel and release...perhaps to part ways, or could be to meet again, or join paths if it really clicks... ...would you consider taking a leap that's maybe a bit uncomfortable and scary, but potentially equally exhilarating?...tell me your address and when to arrive...and meet me at the threshold silently, leading me to your bed and spreading your legs and pulling my nose and mouth to caress and explore and pleasure you with patience and insistence...? Could be right now...or anytime you feel a tingle and want to be adored and ravaged in an extended moment of complete suurender to desire and fascination and pleasure and melding... Let's play? L
Hello there cool girl. Yes you profile is very long but I read it :) I also love spicy food and I grill an excellent skirt steak. You seem to be a pretty honest and straight forward person and would you be interested in having a drink or dinner sometime. Hope you are having a great day
Hi, I'm Ryan. You seem pretty cool. Hope I don't have to write anything too crazy to get your attention considering we barely know anything about each other.
Well, Ryan, considering you were wearing a Native American headdress in your photo... you're right, you don't need to write anything too crazy. I already know I don't want to know anything more about you.
oh, and I also liked reading your reasoning behind messaging you. I respect an opinionated, strong woman who has a great personality... as long as they don't shove their ideals down others throats.
hi my name is lex lets chat and be friends and by the way i think your beautiful.
I'm sort of a nerdy pothead, so if you're into that kind of thing and wanna grab me a drink drop me a line.
Hehe your photos are super summery and filled with food and shorts :)
You and I both know that you're beautiful, and probably an amazing person also............., so when you are ready to hang with a man who will treat you like the woman you are becoming (not the girl you used to be) then hit me up.......
wow those last few pics make me want to grill with you, no seriously, lI ove cooking over open fire. I dig your hair-gear too. message me, I think we'd make a good chat (curious what you were making for one) -Jason
Hey, I'm not gonna start with the cliche "hey cutie/ Mama(i)", or whatever most dudes think are a good opener. And not because that is what a lot of you ladies have said. I am definitely not your typical dude, I probably should have been born in the 40's. I am not exactly sure what I'm doing here, I had never heard of okc before just recently, and I never have been on a dating site. That being said, I'm very open, and not shy in the slightest. I wouldn't be messaging you if I didn't find you attractive, in fact I think you are really cute, that being said, I liked a lot of what you said in your profile, and had we met in person, I would probably be chatting you up or out right flirting. Message me back if you want.
Such a cute little pussy ;) The black one... but you're cute too ;) You're probably looking for something more serious though, otherwise let me know if interested.
butthole, what is up?