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Seriously, it's paradoxical to believe that Kevin and Madison won't end up together or that he'll end up with someone else knowing how hard he's worked to get to be the person he is today that he's been since Madison and the kids are in his life.

It would be like saying "okay let's take his character to the peak of growth and then throw down him again!"

That would be absurd!

This is just another starting point for the Kevisons.

They will never really break up, they have two kids and Kevin has no intention of leaving them, to be honest I don't even know if I would call it a "break up" between the two of them because they will continue to have a relationship. Madison won't stop loving Kevin and Kevin won't stop believing in their relationship and won't stop fighting for them, making his feelings become full fledged love.

On the one hand we have a person who has always loved immensely and it never worked out for him because he always ruined everything in the end, on the other hand we have a person who because of the continuous lack of love was satisfied even when he shouldn't have been.

Now Madison is leaving because she knows she deserves MUCH more, Kevin is staying and fighting because he knows he has found someone really special.

I still see a lot of fear on both sides though.

Fear of admitting love so as not to ruin it all again, and fear of once again settling and lulling herself only on the idea of a happy family!

He will fight for her, he will not run away again.

She knows deserves true love not handouts.

They complement each other, they know it and so do we.

That's why always here cheering Kevison on, I know they won't be ruined!

Because I know they have both been on a totally uphill path over the course of this season that will simply lead them to understand that it's not just love for family that's important, it's love for each other.

Of course he has to understand it more Kevin than Madison but he will get there, soon enough.... (my beloved Kevin who always needs a jolt)

No illusions, I just look at the facts and they tell me there is hope.

I am sorry OBVIOUSLY but I accept the path they have taken because if there is one thing I want more than anything it is to see them happy.. together and fully aware that they are each other's endgame.

That they are the best they could ever want out of life for each other. That they truly loved each other and always have!

That's all..

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KIT YOUNG as JESPER FAHEY

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SHADOW AND BONE: Season 1

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We love Jesper.

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Are you Addicted to Approval?

Signs of being addicted to approval include:

1. You are very aware of the expectations of others. They also affect how you feel about yourself.

2. You are constantly worried about how others view you/ what they are thinking about you.

3. You choose NOT to do things that others don’t approve of for fear of judgment and rejection.

4. You DO things you don’t want to do as you fear others making fun of you, putting you down, or talking about it.

5. You feel anxious and upset if you think you have upset or irritated someone – and desperately try to make things right.

6. You think the views and opinions of others are more informed and valuable than yours.

7. You agree when others criticise and put you down. Then you start to attack and feel ashamed of yourself.

8. You reject yourself if other people reject you, and basically believed that at core you are flawed.

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“As an introvert, you can be your own best friend or your own worst enemy. The good news is, we generally like our own company, a quality that extroverts often envy. We find comfort in solitude and know how to soothe ourselves. Even our willingness to look at ourselves critically is often helpful.”

— Laurie Helgoe

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Tips for Getting What you Want out of Life

1. You need to begin by thinking about what you want your life to look like. It’s important to be concrete and specific here – not general and vague. Then, use that information to set clear goals for yourself.

2. Be confident and believe in yourself. There’s no reason why you shouldn’t have what other people have, or shouldn’t be that person you’d really like to be. If you’re willing to work hard, and to pay the price required.

3. Keep your focus on your goal – don’t get sidetracked from your dream. You’ll have to keep on going and to push through trying times. Remember, it is worth it. You’ll be glad you persevered.

4. Don’t give into temptation to go for lesser goals, or to do something attractive that won’t lead anywhere. Don’t pretend that you’ll be happy if you give up on your dream. You’ll wish that you’d been stronger and looked at the long-term.

5. If you slip up – just get over it – and move on with your plan. It doesn’t mean it’s over. Get back on track again. The goal is too important to waste time on regrets. Your focus is the future, and what will take you there.

6. Recognise your weaknesses – then plan to manage them. That way you’ll have some strategies to deal with obstacles.

7. Finish what you start, and don’t leave loose ends untied. You have to be committed, and thorough, to achieve. Being lazy or half-hearted will hamper your success.

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"You are kind. And you are beautiful and funny and remarkable graceful even in a ridiculous feather dress. And we're all crazy about you"

"I'm not marrying Madison because I got her pregnant. I'm marrying her because I'm crazy about her!"

"I don't know what to expect out of him honestly. All that Fame, all those abs, his face.. that movie star brother of yours has stepped up in ways I never could have imagined. I love him Kate. I really do"