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Vanessa Hudgens. 29. actress. mom to be.

[hudgensnews]

Happy Father’s Day to all you Poppa’s out there. I’m missing mine today. ❤️

[omfnessahudg]

vanessahudgens: happy father’s day to you, @nickjoans Thank you for giving me Wes and being the best dad to him.

@fkn--nj

[whoa-njonas]

Baby Brother: Nick, Nessa, Tinies

[whoa-njonas]

The twins were practically jumping out of the car the second Nick had stopped it. It took a minute for him to calm down enough to reprimand them. He knew they were excited to see Weston and Vanessa but that was no excuse for making him panic. He had pulled them both from their seats and one attached to each hand in another few minutes. They reached the door quickly and the girls promptly let go to knock together. “Soft my loves in case Wes is sleeping. You don’t wanna wake him.”

[omfnessahudg]

Hearing a knock ont he door, the brunette smiled down at the baby, “your sissies and daddy are here, Wes!” She cooed towards the infant. She walked to the front door, and opened it. “Hey guys, comein!” She said as she moved out of the way so the three could come in. “Wes is in his swing in the living room if you want to see him.” She told the kids and Nick.

[hqmckinley]

omfnessahudg:

That’s all that should matter, maybe eventually people will stop being so judgy about everything. One could only hope. Like what’s wrong with co parenting and how will that set their life up for failure? I’m not with my Weston’s dad and we’re coparenting. IT’s the best thing, at least the kids have both parents in their lves.

Exactly, and Louis is married with his own kids so he has his own life and happiness. I mean, what do they want me to do? Polygamy? Becuase that’s just weird. And like you said, at least with co-parenting the child has both parents involved.

[omfnessahudg]

And it’d be weird if you tried to do a thing with him like poly when he’s married. What if his wife didn’t like that?

[omfnessahudg]

omgbarbz:

That’s what I’m saying, if everyone is happy and healthy and living life to the fullest then what is it anyone’s business? I always get comments about how I co-parent with the father of my kids and how that will set their life up for failure yet most families do that.

That’s all that should matter, maybe eventually people will stop being so judgy about everything. One could only hope. Like what’s wrong with co parenting and how will that set their life up for failure? I’m not with my Weston’s dad and we’re coparenting. IT’s the best thing, at least the kids have both parents in their lves.

[omfnessahudg]

omgbarbz:

People are honestly idiots and just want to criticize every parenting move you do, especially older parents who think they know what’s best. I can’t tell you how many times older women have asked me if I’m too young to have so many kids. Like I’m twenty-four and I have two kids, not a whole caln. It’s honestly so ridicoulous. 

People are so judgy, especially when it comes to age. Like I have a friend who is twenty eight, she’s married and has like ten kids altogether between her and her husband and her ex boyfriend, and people have mentioned that she’s too young to be married or have kids. But yet again, she’s gotten shit a lot since she got married like three months after dating this guy. Like as long as we’re happy and the babies are happy, that’s all that should matter to anyone.

[freyaxmartin]

Willa James had nightmares all last night, something about the cookie monster and her imaginary friend, I guess they hid under her bed and think they live there. So my three-year-old daughter ended up in my bed cuddled up close telling me all these stories about her dreams tell almost three AM. She had a good sleep in and now just wants to watch movies all day. Should I be worried to put on anything that has something in it that might give her weirder nightmares?

[omfnessahudg]

Maybe just stay away from Seasme street? Or is there a chance she somehow ended up seeing a scary movie by accident?

[omfnessahudg]

vanessahudgens: slowly dying from that la heat

[hudgens-online]

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omfnessahudg:

No they aren’t. One of my best friends told me to ignore them and theyll stop. But it’s hard, maybe because I’m new to all of this

You could totally do that, I think because of my big mouth it’s hard for me to just ignore things like that. I feel like I always say something. But ignoring things is probably the smartest thing to do. 

[omfnessahudg]

Best thing and the hardest. Like I just want to tell them off but know it’s not good for Weston either

[pxrplerosex-deactivated20210324]

omfnessahudg:

Exactly, and f I let him cry, everyone would have complained about it. There’s no win in mothering. I have no idea why no one can understand it. Maybe soon they’ll understand how horrible it is leave us all alone.

There really isn’t. I’ve learned you just kind of have to do things your way and not care what people think about it. That’s how you win in mothering. Because I mean are people ever going to really understand? The only way people understand these days if it’s done their way.

[omfnessahudg]

No they aren’t. One of my best friends told me to ignore them and theyll stop. But it’s hard, maybe because I’m new to all of this

[omfnessahudg]

kxcassidy:

Honestly, I hate when people butt into my busy like that. If I want to pick up my child because she’s crying I’m going to. I’m not just going to let them cry, what if something is really wrong, why don’t people understand that? Why do they always feel the need to butt in? You don’t see me listening in on their little chats. So don’t tell me how to raise my kids. I could rant about this for hours. 

Exactly, and f I let him cry, everyone would have complained about it. There’s no win in mothering. I have no idea why no one can understand it. Maybe soon they’ll understand how horrible it is leave us all alone.

[omfnessahudg]

I went to starbucks today with my sister and Wes was in his carseat crying so I picked him up and someone came over to tell me I shouldn’t do that and just let him cry it out. Like don’t people realize that we all raise our own kids differently? Like if I want to have him cry it out and self soothe, I would. But he’s three and a half months old and these are critical bonding moments with him.

[ben-brnes]

It’s important to have people around who love themselves, are true to themselves, who have their own hobbies and their world doesn’t revolve around Hollywood. I can always go to my family with any doubts or questions I may have.

[whoa-njonas]

Baby Brother: Nick, Nessa, Tinies

Nick couldn’t help but smile as his daughters climbed back into the car with the toys they picked for Wes. They were excited to see their three month old brother again. He knew it was weird that he hadn’t just moved closer to he and Vanessa but he just couldn’t seem to bring himself to do it. He wasn’t exactly sure what to think of their relationship but either way they both had Wes think about. “Buckle up princesses baby brothers waiting."He smiled before pressing on the pedal down.

[omfnessahudg]

Vanessa had just gotten done feeding her three month old as Nick texted her about coming over. She planted a kiss on his forehead as she set him in his swing. “daddy and your sisters will be here soon, buddy.” she cooed softly to the infant as she grabbed her phone and texted her mom to see how she was as she waited for the younger male to come over.

[omfnessahudg]

vanessahudgens: got my first hello fresh box and can't wait to try it out!

[omfnessahudg]

axtisdale:

I’m so incredibly nervous, I feel like I’m going to barf.

You’ll be fine, Ashley. I promise.