Thou it looks like tiny 5 letter word but it holds the biggest responsibility in this fantasy world. it can easily build a relationship nor break!
what comes first to your mind when you hear this word?
is it about your relationship with a partner or your parents or colleague? let it be any relationship. Even a strange builds a quick trust when you speak with him for the first time. Either he can build a positive one that can make you continue your relationship with him nor it can stop your first meet right there.
So trust is not a single player, it has a dual role in the game of life.
which one do you want to play? positive or negative?
when you have huge responsibility for playing, you have an equal amount of responsibility to see a game of people around you. Don't judge anyone so quick. Each one has a different story and different screen play.
just accept them as they are. If you think you can't build trust on them for the first time, go ahead and try for next time. Nothing wrong in stepping down and understanding your loved ones for N number of times.
If you want them in your life or if you think your loved ones are in the wrong path or it may be any circumstances. You can step in Correct it or wait for their change to happen.
Each one sees the world in their own perspective and have grown different cultures.
No one is perfect in this world nor be a perfect couple. Even a rocking couple who have lived together for 20 years will still have different opinions and views. It's how you build your trust and how you accept each other the way they are makes them a rocking couple.
Trust is a key point for any bonding. It starts right from your childhood. As a kid you might lay your parents many times. Now if you go back to young age you might think " huh I just lied for a chocolate.." now it might sound silly but during your young age, even though your parents know your lying they still believed you " okay someday he will change and start being true to himself". Your parents would have corrected you right there or they might have given you another chance for you to correct yourself with their advice.
this is simple logic that you play with your loved ones. You very well know they are a good person but somewhere down the lane you don't get a good hold on their trust. or they would have broken your trust in some situations sometimes they may be forced to break the trust due to some unavoidable circumstances.
Few may not shared things with you and kept in silence,it doesn't mean they are cheating over you. They will be reason behind it nor missed to say. we do forget many things in our day to day chores.
these are the moments when your heart is broken and mind works fast to judge the other person and your love fades out.
Just think twice or even thrice before doubting your loved ones because you have been living with the same person this many years/months or even days, If they have loved you with all true heart they can never even think of cheating you.
True love is unconditional, it doesn't keep record of wrongs. it protects us, it heals us
In this generation life seems to be very complicated. Each one is busy in their own world, finding time for the loved one is precious. In this precious time let's make sure we pour our love and affection instead of quarreling with each other and break each other's trust. It's easy to break.
let's love more and judge less!!