Comfortably Numb

Anna • 28 • Stubborn

[stability]

[lyjerria]

as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.

[caffeinewitchcraft]

Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

[madammuffins]

Fyi- just in case you didn’t know.

TOUCH got a bro that likes to give high fives? Back slaps? Are they a hugger? Do they not blink an eye at cuddles?

QUALITY TIME this bro will (as op stated) sprint to spend every minute possible with you. Every second that you guys are together is a declaration of affection.

WORDS does your bro tell you how amazing and great and fantastic and wonderful you are all the time? Guess what…?

GIFTS do they buy you coffee? Snacks, energy drinks, spot you at the restaurant? Did that one key chain removed you of them? Ding ding!

ACTS are they always doing things for you? Ie: Nah bro, I got this, I can do that, need me to get anything for you, I can help with…?

PRO TIP - The way people show love is often how they receive love as well.

[starsequence]

Sometimes you need to remind yourself that you were the one who carried you through the heartache. You are the one who sits with the cold body on the shower floor, and picks it up. You are the one who feeds it, who clothes it, who tucks it into bed, and you should be proud of that. Having the strength to take care of yourself when the world is trying to bleed you dry, that is the strongest thing in the universe.

[cheaphalloweencostume]

do you ever have like a breakdown but your logical brain is still active just thinking “ok this is annoying can we wrap this up so we can go back to bottling these feelings and like going to work or whatever” lol

[cheaphalloweencostume]

like can we finish this early im trying to build a potato farm in minecraft

[spoopy-story]

Emotional brain: 

Logical brain:

[awakandangoddess]

This

gotta be the equivalent to this

[misomimii]

Same energy

[audreysmusings-deactivated20251]

[stevensteven97-deactivated20190]

[goingslowly-deactivated20191211]

parks and rec had the best minor characters

[atbuckybarnes]

100 year old men have seen far too much, are no longer fazed.

[noten]

I really can’t wait for winter because then I can start wearing the other 97% of my clothes 

[just-shower-thoughts]

The most disturbing thing about accidentally waking up at 4am is discovering that some people do it on purpose so they can exercise.

[auroratheoracle]

My Experience With the Signs

Aries: Always really energetic and emotional, and they always seem to have anger issues. (4) 2/10

Taurus: So sweet, but self-indulgent, high sex drive, would often get emotionally detached. (2) 7.5/10

Gemini: Self contradictory, very annoying most of the time, but cool and smart the rest of the time. Fluctuating emotions. (4) 4/10

Cancer: Can either be very sweet or a total cunt, there is no in between. (3) 5/10

Leo: They are all so very sweet to me, I love them a lot, BUT they can also be bitchy. (3) 7/10

Virgo: Most of my friends are Virgos. They are that bitch, and they care a lot about a lot of things, but they won’t let it show a lot of the time. (5) 9/10

Libra: Very emotional and emotionally manipulative, I’ve been cheated on by so many Libras, but the one I have right now is the sweetest and most amazing baby. Usually pretty smart, very flirty. (6) 5/10

Scorpio: Kind of scary when you first meet them, but they are often very sweet and emotional at heart. Don’t break their hearts, they’ll never forgive you. (4) 6/10

Sagittarius: A lot of my friends are also Sagittarians, they are the coolest people you’ll ever meet and are pretty fearless. They are ride or dies, and I love them. (5) 9.5/10

Capricorn: The exact opposite of what most people think Capricorns are. They’re usually very funny and cool people and they like to have fun. They can get serious and nervous, but it doesn’t stop them a lot of the time. (4) 8/10

Aquarius: The best sign. They are all without a doubt, the chillest people on Earth. They are pretty generous. Most of the ones I’ve met have some artistic talent like drawing or writing or even just being really good at hair dressing. Very funny and smart. (7) 10/10

Pisces: Fish piss babies. They’re really cool at first, but once I got to know them, they turned out to be really sensitive little snitches. Literally all of them have snitched on me for the smallest shit. Very annoying, but still kinda cool? They usually have good style. BUT, my uncle is the best Pisces on Earth. (4) 2/10

note: the numbers in parenthesis are how many people of each sign i’ve met. no two people were exactly alike because astrology doesn’t effect every single part of a person and everyone has a different chart. 

[dxrissa]

The best type of sex is when ya can be hella nasty & hella sweet at the same time. Pound me out & hold my hand.

[excillery-deactivated20211023]

👅

[spacedlexi]

if anyone would like to learn a couple tricks for carving pumpkins:

- dont cut out the top to scoop out the seeds, cut out the bottom instead. this way the pumpkin doesnt cave in on itself and lasts longer - sprinkle some cinnamon inside at the top after carving. this way when you put the candle in it smells like pumpkin pie

[topsiders-tanlines]

this is the quality content I wanna see on my dash

[spider-hands-mannos-deactivated]

- rub the i sides with lemon after you’re done scooping. This will also help preserve the pumpkin

[dashaibo]

It’s fucking June, at least wait until the fourth of July, you animal.

[frowningfox]

I’m sorry, I can’t hear you over the sound of me disemboweling this pumpkin.

[dyospeaks]

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

[softcoreish-deactivated20240717]

give her head and self confidence

[zodiacwhisperer]

How the signs express their anger (check Mars)

Aries: indirect rage; they take their anger out on everyone and everything - physical; like all fire signs whether its punching or running they need to physically release their anger

Taurus: slow rage; very patient and steady people, they can wait to show their anger until most convenient to them - controlled; like all earth signs they subdue their anger in a way to manage their emotions

Gemini: unfocused rage; fast paced and easily bored, they don’t have the energy to stay mad for a long time - mental; like all air signs rather than facing their problem with their fists they will covey their anger through words and wit

Cancer: petty rage; they don’t get overwhelmed by rage, instead they will slowly get even with what’s making them mad - emotional; like all water signs when they do not express one emotion at a time, their anger will open a floodgate of feelings

Leo: directed rage; they will personally attack the source of their anger - physical; like all fire signs whether its punching or running they need to physically release their anger

Virgo: passives aggressive rage; they won’t explode with anger, but they will never forgive or forget and they will always get their revenge - controlled; like all earth signs they subdue their anger in a way to manage their emotions

Libra: isolated rage; they will never confront the cause of their anger but everybody will know who/what is truly making them mad - mental; like all air signs rather than facing their problem with their fists they will covey their anger through words and witt

Scorpio: wild rage; they are not afraid to show how they are truly feeling, no sugar coating or white lies especially when angry - emotional; like all water signs when they do not express one emotion at a time, their anger will open a floodgate of feelings

Sagittarius: fuming rage; they will often fester in their own anger and then explode once they confront the cause of their rage - physical; like all fire signs whether it’s punching or running they need to physically release their anger

Capricorn: loud rage; once they have decide you are the cause of the anger they will announce it to the world - controlled; like all earth signs they subdue their anger in a way to manage their emotions

Aquarius: independent rage; they will try to handle their anger by themselves, which may lead to an explosion towards the wrong person - mental; like all air signs rather than facing their problem with their fists they will covey their anger through words and witt

Pisces: patient rage; they will calmly hold in their anger and only express it when it can be used for their advantage - emotional; like all water signs when they do not express one emotion at a time, their anger will open a floodgate of feelings

[wtfzodiacsigns]

Truths

☆Aries: You keep looking for someone who will bring excitement + passion to your life but you need to be looking for someone who brings stability instead.

☆Taurus: You continue to believe that people will change when they keep proving that it’s not going to happen over and over again.

☆Gemini: You send out mixed signals because you aren’t entirely sure about what you want but when you finally decide it’s too late.

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[latenights]

“You’re my girl” is my fav thing. Like yes I am. You’re right. Say it again.