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Little Duck Feeding The Fish.
Al.Most.There.
Someone please tap this weave. #spidercrochet (at Tricycle Garden)
Morning walk (to CVS). #churchhill #rva #naturerules!
The Dismemberment Plan’s first new album in 12 years, Uncanney Valley, is due out October 15 via Partisan.
Is that me on the far right?
Neighbor spotting (far left), as well as boss-doppelgänger spotting (far right)! Hey, guys!
far left: totes my manfriend. (not-so-humble brag)
The Rumblr’s in-house astrologer, Madame Clairevoyant, presents her latest dispatch from the stars:
Aries: This week you might finding yourself working very hard to combat bad feelings, to dispel loneliness. This week, try to wake up early, try to stay up late, try to eat very well. Try to live inside small shining moments with your friends. Your bad feelings are yours and they’re bound to you and they’ll live with you forever; this is okay. The things you do this week to try to be better than your worst feelings, these are the things that will help you and hold you and keep you alive.
Taurus: This week, the world’s going to give you the freedom to do unimaginably weird things. This week, the world will give you a little space to breathe. This week, the world’ll turn a blind eye and let you be your own strange self in ways that are thrilling, ways that scare you. It’s a great kindness and a great danger to be given so much space to live your own life, to talk loudly, to speak in your own voice. This week, be gentle to the people you love, while you revel in this wild luxury. Listen to X.
Gemini: This week, your thoughts are going to become very clear and they’re going to become very focused. This week, your brain is going to carry you closer and closer to the center of things, to the core of the earth, to the stripped-down essence of the world you live in. This week’s going to be about clear vision, about learning to live inside a world that looks new. This week’s going to be about big elegant truths and (equally, achingly) about feelings of love that are small and fragile and green. Listen to Thao Nguyen.
Cancer: This week, do things that make you feel like you’re dangerous, things that make you feel like you’re flying. This week, you can find a dizzy optimism in bravery, in talking to strangers or going out alone or showing your heart on the bus, in the office, in the grocery store. If you open yourself up this week, if you pretend to be brave, the world will fill you with a strong and sunny confidence. It’ll show you wild new things; it will carry you through this whole season. Listen to TLC.
Leo: This week, as you move through the small, strange everyday-ness of your life, you’ll find yourself searching for ways to make your world safer, ways to make your world more whole. It can be heartbreaking, it can feel like defeat, when things are (even a little bit) rough or dark or cruel. As you move through the commonplaces of your life, try not to worry—try to just keep working. Find a few warm days. Sit on the porch and write letters and listen to old songs and drink tea with someone you love. Read Banana Yoshimoto.
Virgo: This week, spend time in spaces that are quiet, spend time in places that are bright, spend time in spaces that are expansive and alive. Go to places that are quiet, places that are clear, places where you can hear your brain moving, where you can recognize yourself. Feel how the silence echoes around inside you and feel how your own voice echoes through the air. This week you’re going to get your best work done in silence; you’re going to have ideas that are brilliant and wild and true. Listen to Yoko Ono. Think about the sky.
Libra: This week’s the things you know about the world are going to get a little looser, getting wilder. This is a week for walking as far as you can through places you know and places you don’t, down streets that smell like grass, ones that smell like concrete. It’s a week for moving through places you know and seeing the newness, the weirdness, the wild contrasts and balances. Live in the contrasts, this week, live in the balances. Live in the airy space between your dreams and your breakfast.
Scorpio: This week’s going to be filled with deep rumbling echoes of your past selves and your future worlds. It’s going to be filled with remnants of things that are gone and shadows of things that are coming to protect you and haunt you and love you. Your world is about to crack, it’s about to explode into colors. This week’s going to prepare you for the past, show you the future. This week, sleep in late, stare at the ceiling, peer out the window. Feel the earth moving slowly underneath your feet, singing to you, telling you secrets. Read Shirley Jackson.
Sagittarius: This week, it’s going to be very important for you not to be afraid, not to run scared from your own pleasure. This week is a good week to indulge in ice cream, in trips to the beach, in love, in loneliness. Skip school, call in sick to work, and spend the day in your backyard or looking up at the sky or on the phone with your sister or cooking something good. These are the things that feed you; these are the things that keep you strong and solid and whole. Listen to pop albums. Listen to songs that make you cry.
Capricorn: This week you’re going to feel growth rumbling around inside you. You’re going to feel it like a buzz, like an ache, like a sign of strange futures to come. It’s going to be a week of emotions becoming solid in your body, becoming physical, turning into muscle and bone and guts and fingernails. It’s going to feel weird, it’s going to feel uncomfortable, it’s going to feel like your old clothes don’t fit (maybe your old thoughts too). Sit with this for a little bit. Drive around your neighborhood and listen to Beyoncé. Get lots of sleep.
Aquarius: This week is going to be good to you. This week, you’re going to feel so powerful and so happy and so right, that it’ll be unnerving if you think about it too much, scary if you look at it too closely. This week, when things are most golden and most bright, it’s going to be easy to convince yourself that you don’t deserve this, easy to convince yourself that you should throw it all away. Don’t. Go to your friends’ house for dinner and laugh and dance and wash the dishes. Walk home at night and dream about rivers.
Pisces: This week’s going to be a week of exposures, a week of peeling back layers, a week of remembering dreams and stories and parts of yourself you’ve forgotten. It’s going to be a week of reading the whole history of your life, written in the layers of emotion you uncover, like old coats of paint, like rock formations. It’s going to be a week for cleaning your room and organizing your bookshelves and honoring the strange emotional history of your strange complicated self. Listen to old mixtapes. Read Marilynne Robinson.
Today’s image was made specially for Madame Clairevoyant by Jen May.
So much is happening here right now it's not even funny. (at The Duplex)
Nice toupee, cow. (at Maymont)
Bluest of blues. #rva #nofilterstilllooksgood
#dannyssong on repeat
Kitten-Bunny Roll.
Theme: Patience
Every week, I pick a collective intention - a sankalpa - for my yoga classes. I incorporate a reading with this theme in mind for our final savasana. All of these themes evolve out of what I'm thinking, feeling, needing right now, and my hope is my students will find something relatable and meaningful in it. This is my hope for you, too. So this week, concentrate on this idea of patience in the face of uncertainty and whatever that means to you - as it applies to your love life, or simply where you are in your life, a challenging co-worker, your Levis that aren't offering as much room anymore (OK, OK that's my problem). "I beg you, to have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don’t search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer." —From Rainer Maria Rilke’s 1903 Letters to a Young Poet via Brain Pickings
To Be or Not To Be "Facebook Official"
Does a relationship count if it's not Facebook Official? Like, if both parties haven't updated their status, are they really truly together? Someone recently asked me about this because her new boyfriend hadn't updated his status even though they already had the "we're exclusive" conversation and had been dating four months. Her concern was that not making things official on Facebook meant he wasn't serious about her and was keeping his options open. (My response: If the concern is about him leaving a door open for other possibilities, ask. If he cares about you and wants to be with you, he will be concerned. And if he is in fact leaving the door open, that's also good to know. Also is him changing his status on Facebook really going to make you feel better, or is there something he isn't doing in real life that makes you question where you stand?) Clearly, I think the idea of Facebook or any other social media platform legitimizing a relationship or ANYTHING IN REAL LIFE is crap. Doesn't the Internet take so much from already? (I know, I know, it gives, too. Even relationships.) Do we now have to go online to confirm what we know to be true in real life? Welllllll, according to couple's therapist Gretchen Kelmer who studies the role of social media in relationships at University of Denver, some research does suggest that "people who disclose that they are 'In a Relationship' on Facebook also report being more committed to that relationship. Even among married people, we found that those whose primary Facebook photos include their spouses are less likely to split up 6 months later." (A recent online survey for Robbins Brothers, an engagement ring store, found that half of of the people they talked to said they would update their Facebook status right away as soon as she (or he) said yes. 75% would do it within a week.) For new couples, declaring yourself boyfriend and girlfriend to each other, then to your family and friends— this process of relationship defining means so much, especially if it's been a long time since a relationship has stuck. Maybe you tread lightly. Maybe you don't like massive declarations. WHAT IF YOU AREN'T EVEN ON FACEBOOK??? Four months can be early for some. Even six months. We might be committed to not seeing other people but we also might be still assessing, and it's OK to take the time to let a relationship unfold and honor how you are feeling. If that means your relationship status doesn't make it to the news feed quite yet, so be it. It may be less about keeping options open and more about making sure it's right. Because those damn broken hearts that pop up when someone goes from "in a relationship" to "single" are the worst kind of declaration at the worst time. (Cue sad tuba.) Stupid emoji.
Situation: First Date
In cleaning out my desk here at home, I found this old writing assignment from junior year in high school. I wrote it almost exactly 21 years ago to the date of "The Science of Single" being published. Coincidence? Not really. The writing assignment was "Romanticize." I'm guessing we were supposed to romanticize a situation. It's quite possible I thought I was supposed to simply write about a romantic situation. I do believe I succeeded in doing both. (Hence my score 20 out of 20. BOOM.) I'd had a couple first dates before writing this. They were all awkward. Two of them involved parental chauffeurs. None involved Jaguars, roses or stolen glances. I'm pretty sure my English teacher should have swooped in with a smack of reality to the head as soon as I turned this in, though ultimately, if you take out the creepy sports car and creepier stolen glances, it's a nice date. Alas, I never reached this pinnacle of dating (unless you count the guy with the hired car and driver). Just yesterday, I joked that all my dates now consist of moonlight walks to the compost bin at the neighborhood community garden. I was half joking. Don't worry, we go to dinner and the movies, too. In my sleek red Hyundai. Please disregard bubble cursive. (And if you'd like even more 90s-era writing by me, I'd be glad to share with you a paper I wrote for my junior year in college entitled: An Interpretation of Cleaver's Supermasculine Menial, Omnipotent Administrator, Amazon, and Ultrafeminine in the novels Invisible Man and Middle Passage and the play Dutchman.)
Double Rainbow!
Totally helped frost this baby cake.
Yoga Camp Lessons
During my three weeks at yoga camp in November, I learned a few things. Not just about how to cue Vrksasana (tree), my favorite pose and Bhujangasana (cobra), the pose with the coolest sounding name (seriously say it out loud right now [boo-jang-ahhs-anna] and tell me I'm wrong). I got a little closer to myself. I experienced moments in meditation during which I seriously, from the bottom of my heart, thought I would levitate. Seriously. And there was one day I cried for two hours straight. Couldn't stop. I'd encountered some obstacles. We worked hard in small spaces with people we were just getting to know. There was no door to the bathroom in my bungalow fit for three. Shoot, the wall between the sleeping space and the toiley didn't even go all the way up. Our longest physical training class was from 2 to 5 pm in the hot afternoon sun. But there was always the sound of the ocean rolling and crashing right there. Right there. Always present. Soothing, but then sometimes I wished there was a volume control because I couldn't always hear the spiritual lesson. Dang ocean. We OMed easily 10x a day. We OMed it in for every meditation, class and lesson. And then we OMed it out when we were done. Sometimes we sounded like dying sheep. Others, it was a resounding harmony of full-bodied church bells. The primordial sound of the universe at creation. We manifested our desires. I did this by shouting mine into the ocean under the new moon. It was a very special moment and time. Now that I'm back in regular life, I'm incorporating the things we learned. Here are some basic lessons that I follow about 93 percent of the time. 1. First thing in the morning, scrape your tongue. And then use your neti pot. Gets out the gunk. Feels good. 2. Do some breathing exercises. (Anuloma Viloma is my fave. This video is also amazing.) Then meditate. Even if it's just for five minutes. 3. Look for the good in people and know that even if they are challenging to work with, they are probably doing their best. 4. Once you stop judging others, you can stop judging yourself. Works the other way around, too. 5. Ask for what you want. Seriously, when you ask the universe for something, it will deliver exactly what you ask for in a timely fashion. I didn't believe it before yoga camp, but I believe it now. 6. Eat fruit alone. And here is that loud-ass ocean: http://youtu.be/wDx7sA2Qw74