“You should bring this in case*insert random situation but not, IMO, entirely unlikely to happen*”
Of course you already know where you have heard these lines before. And of course, they’re from your mother. I guess you can say that most mothers, if not all, are natural naggers. But in another perspective, maybe they really are just being concerned and loving.
I’m 22 years old now and though I’m not even halfway there yet, I feel like this is growing on me already (thanks mom), which can be a good thing or a bad thing. Being an ENFP maybe is a factor on how I view relationships, particularly friendships. Sure, I have a lot of friends and acquaintances given my outgoing nature, but there really are just a few ones who are very dear to me and whom I value as family. And with that comes the undisputed love and concern for each person in that group.
Being friends with people is easy. Being a family to friends is easy... AND difficult because being there every step of the way is what it’s about. I hate and love that the cliché of crying when someone cries, and rejoicing when someone is is actually true, because you feel everything they feel. You are one person. Shit is an emotional roller coaster for me at times because you deal with time, distance, and whatnots, which help you learn to sympathize and empathize. In the most basic sense, you just really want what’s best for them and you sincerely hope they get it. Woah, that almost sounded so motherly.
And you’d know that what you have is genuine when you don’t have to question it, or ask for it, or even expect something out of it. You give without reluctance. Maybe I’m just the affectionate and (sometimes) blatant type, which can put me to a disadvantage of being let down but having this much love to give to the world shouldn’t be put to waste, right? If it means making a person feel loved and happy in the most trying or even mundane times, if you ask me again why do I care so much?
To Star, Anj, Jepoy, and George, whatever paths life takes us this year and the years after that, know that you all deserve the stars.
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