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I’m incredibly tired and was watching this video on Facebook I wanted to show my fiancé later. So I sent it to myself on WhatsApp to save it.
Then I watched the video some more and then decided to go to sleep. So naturally, I opened WhatsApp to text my fiance that I love him before I go to sleep
And as I sent the text I realized how stupid I was.
I had texted myself.
I texted myself “I love you”
I- I gotta sleep.
Dragostea Din Tei has been stuck in my head for literally like 3 days now.
So here’s a drawing I did of the king himself, Numa Numa guy.
Please enjoy :)
Drew a self portrait today no rhyme or reason.
Just me in my PJs.
I didn’t wanna make anything amazing or mind blowing, I just wanted to make something today. And that’s a sign my mental health might be getting a little bit better :)
Happy 4th :)
Last year I was in the ER because I had a horrible tooth infection.
My wisdom tooth had gotten infected and it was causing me immense pain, so at like 10pm, I drove myself to the ER and got admitted.
While I was in the waiting room- an older gentlemen came up to me. He looked very worse for wear, rough shape, just generally kinda sloppy. I figured he was probably homeless because it’s common for homeless people to seek medical care in the ER since they can’t afford elsewhere (America core)
He sits next to me and asks me if I can help him figure out this phone because he just got out of prison and hadn’t used one in a while.
Now, being a young woman who is stressed, tired, and in a lot of pain, immediately felt a bit scared by this since he was an adult man and I didn’t have a lot of strength.
But I’m also a #wokeleftist and thought in my head “this is a black man, he probably was convicted of a stupid crime and didn’t deserve to be in prision. Give him the benefit of the doubt bc he seems nice and he’s not being weird” and I was like alright fair.
And honestly, during the interaction I was like “wow, this guy is actually super sweet. He’s polite, he’s not in my personal space, he’s very friendly and gives kind grandpa vibes. See? Helping people is worth it! Don’t judge a book by their cover.”
He wanted help getting a game on his phone and I helped as best as I could and the conversation really made me have faith that humans can coexists and that I shouldn’t be scared to interact with strangers- even grown men fresh out of jail.
And then after a pause he goes “By the way you have BEAUTIFUL feet”
And that’s why I don’t talk to folks no more.
My fiance is so cute when he says “Sociar Media” 🩷
Or when he says “And dey say dat…”
Hehe
Silly speaking
“Dis heatwave is intense…”
I auditioned for a show, felt really proud of my performance, one of the best dancers in my group, got pulled aside by 2 of the casting crew to let me know how amazing I did, one even offering to be my vocal coach.
And then didn’t get cast in the show.
I literally went for the ENSAMBLE in community theater. And didn’t get cast.
I keep auditioning and auditioning and I realized… I’m just too fat.
I can’t do theatre because I stand out in a bad way. I’m too fat.
I… I don’t know what to do anymore.
No one prepares you for how hard it gets to go from getting cast as the lead in your high school productions, getting handed roles your entire life,and then realizing you’re just not good enough.
Looking back now, I realize I’ve never been good enough.
I’m playing Red Dead Redemption 2 and streaming it to my fiance.
Which is really fun!
But I refuse to call the characters the correct names. It started off bc I genuinely couldn’t remember, but now it’s funnier to rage bait him.
I call Dutch, Butch Chastity (iykyk)
Hosea is Bill Nye
Javier is Jose or Mr School
John is Joe
Etc
He hates it, and I laugh so hard every time.
He never fails to correct me either.
And of course the game is called Red Dead Demption (again, IYKYK)
KICK THE CAN!
Let’s play the biggest game of kick the can on the internet.
To kick the can, reblog it. I wanna see how long this can go on for.
the oldest reblogs for this post that i can find are from january 2nd of 2013. this can has been getting kicked around tumblr for almost 13½ years now
And yet somehow this is my first time kicking it!
The best thing about having met my fiance when he was 18 is being able to watch him grow into an adult and get to grow along side him.
One moment I think about a lot is actually from when we first started dating.
I can’t recall the exact conversation, but I remember he had used the R slur very casually either with me or with his friends.
And I said to him, “I don’t like the R slur because as an autistic person, it hurts me a lot. It is a Harmful word especially coming from a neurotypical/allistic person.”
And he listened to me and said “Oh. Im so sorry. I promise I won’t use it again.”
And genuinely… he’s never used that word ever again.
In fact- I think he told his friends that they shouldn’t use it either which I didn’t even ask him to do.
I just told him I didn’t like when he used it. And he just… stopped.
I think about this moment a lot because it’s such a small thing… but it’s also not.
I expected pushback, I expected an argument, I expected to have to give him time to change…
But he just… did it.
And this change, it’s small right? It’s an easy change to make to not say slurs… but it’s such a testament to who my fiance is.
Not only did he not question that I was hurt, he recognized it and apologized immediately.
And, he also changed his behavior knowing it was harmful to others- especially a marginalized group.
Looking at the man he is today- a feminist, anti racist, a communist, a passionate advocate for human rights, god- he’s even a vegetarian…
He makes me want to be better every single day because he genuinely wants to be a good human being.
I am so proud of the man he’s become and I’m so excited to see how he will grow in the future.
I was scared to marry someone I met at 19, it felt too young.
But, it’s the greatest gift.
He got to watch me drink my first beer. He got to watch me vote for president for the first time. He got to see me get many jobs and watched me get the job I have now- the longest time I’ve ever spent at a place.
I got to watch him visit the USA for the first time, I got to bring him to an American bar when he turned 21.
I got to cheer him on every single step he took.
And I love it. I love him so much!!!!!
So I’m writing a fanfiction about my work and my coworkers..
Tell me why I’m legit getting invested in the story I’M WRITING.
Like, I walked out genuinely disoriented to where I was because I was so invested in the story. THAT I AM MAKING UP.
I didn’t know you could just lie to yourself and believe it. That’s crazy.
Happy Pride Month to my fellow Secretly Bisexual Couples.
I’m super excited to one day get to go to my local Pride with my fiance.
He is bisexual, as am I.
And from the outside- we look like a normal, wholesome, heterosexual couple.
But really we are both nerdy, bisexual commie heathens.
And I love that.
So shout out to my fellow Bisexual Het couples. Yall are awesome.
Also, for anyone who follows my blog (hi), please expect a lot more fiance posting in the near future.
I just love him a lot and wanna talk about how much I love him. I promise to schedule the posts so they aren’t too much tho.
Okay love you bye
Happy Pride Month to my fellow Secretly Bisexual Couples.
I’m super excited to one day get to go to my local Pride with my fiance.
He is bisexual, as am I.
And from the outside- we look like a normal, wholesome, heterosexual couple.
But really we are both nerdy, bisexual commie heathens.
And I love that.
So shout out to my fellow Bisexual Het couples. Yall are awesome.
feels like a real step back that with all the sexual freedom available to us we moved to Hookup Culture instead of Having Sex With Friends Culture
I find it weird, actually, that today it's more common to have sex with casual acquaintances you meet on the Hookup App than to have sex with people you already know and like and have fun with. and how if two friends have sex, there's an assumption there must be underlying romantic feelings. because apparently casual non-romantic sex is fine, but only with people you don't already like and care about?
I feel like the hippies and people who lived through the Free Love movement would be rightfully disappointed at us for these made-up lines we're drawing between Sex/Romance and (gasp!) Friendship. shockingly, it's fine to have casual sex with people you enjoy hanging out with and do not want to date. fun and healthy even!
Ahhh... i dunno why but this feels like a result of purity culture.
Where 2 concepts clash:
You can have sex outside of marriage
But also sex is bad and you shouldn't do it.
It's not actually okay to have sex and it's shameful to do it and it'll taint your relationships if they know about it.
But also sex isn't bad and be free to do it whenever you want!
That turns into:
You can have sex but it's bad for your relationships.
So it's okay to have sex only if you're either planning to Marry them or Never seeing them again.
HUH.... Society really fucked us on this one (and not in the fun kinky way ☹️)
This is so valid
To the guy who said muscles should hurt after you work out?
I hate you.
You have brought me pain, suffering, torment, and strife. I am dying now. So thanks a lot.
As I type this-my legs burn in painful agony. My muscles ache with every slight movement.
I feel like the wrath of a thousand men could not hold a flame to the torturous fires In my thighs.
Curse you squats for your siren songs of a fat ass. You will rue the day you met me once I vanquish thee.
If I see one more person say we should do lab testing and experiments on rapists and pedophiles and other criminals.
I’m going to force you to read Article 5 of the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights, and then force you to watch 10 hours of documentaries about Josef Mengel before I force you to listen to statements made by survivors of Nazi experiments.
Then you and I can discuss how we feel about torture as a method of punishment.
Cat
