:D Iâve been waiting for this to get on someoneâs bad side. *shrugs* In a sense, I totally see where youâre coming from â that this is someoneâs identity. I mean, from my worldview, weâre all messed up without Christ. I wonât apologize for that â itâs what keeps me going. Knowing that, in spite of the horrible, horrible ways in which I ruin my life, God can change that. Godâs bigger than that. Godâs bigger than any sin â and I figure if he can forgive me, he can forgive anyone.
On the other hand, other than just being naturally inclined to sin, because weâre a fallen and messed up world, I donât think that any one thing is so much a part of someoneâs identity that it can never be changed. I donât know how many people are familiar with Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz and his studies in neuralplasticity, but thereâs a heap-ton of evidence suggesting that the brain remains malleable even into adulthood.
This would, obviously, suggest that our brains continue to change throughout our lifetime, influenced by the things that happen to us. A simple example would be someone who grows up speaking one language and then moves to a land where he or she has to learn another. After years of speaking the foreign language, they might have problems reverting to their native tongue â even to the point that their âthought languageâ is in their secondary language.
A more complicated and interesting example is how Schwartz is trying to help people suffering from OCD, not by the often-cruel behavioral treatment (like when someone obsessed with keeping away germs is forced to grasp a doorknob spread with filth), but by teaching them how to actually rewire their brains, to think in new patterns.
All that is to say that there is no proof for people being, as our dear Lady Gaga put it, âborn this wayâ. Nature vs. Nurture is a messy beast, but more and more research is suggesting that there is no one way to be born â one can have inclinations one way or another, but the actual thought processes and behaviors can shape the brain and the neural identity as much or more than genes.
But that was a much longer and more technical answer than Iâm sure anyone was looking for. :D Short answer: Sorry that you found me disrespectful. But if I truly believe that something is wrong or dangerous, and that there could be negative consequences associated with it, it would be hypocritical of me to not say something â in love, unlike some freaks I could mention â but something, all the same.
Anyway, hope that explains my POV a bit more.