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Mike Driver
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
tannertan36
almost home
Not today Justin
bliss lane
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The Bowery Presents
Cosmic Funnies
Product Placement
noise dept.
ellievsbear
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NASA
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
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Xuebing Du
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@orlando-daddy-dom
Underrated Dominant Phrases
“Have you eaten?”
“Drive carefully.”
“Good morning, beautiful.”
“What did you have for lunch today?”
“Sleep well.”
“I’m proud of you.”
“Are you feeling better?”
“Take a sweater, it’s cold out.”
“Be safe.”
*sparkle*
💖💖💖
How to: Aftercare your Sub
Ideas and Tips
These tips may vary depending on what your sub likes/enjoys or doesnt like/enjoy.
Try taking these into consideration before anything else:
Always ask how they feel, does anything hurt?
Make sure they know they are safe and you care about them
Simply ask if they need anything, Reassurance? A glass of water? Cuddles?
Respect if your sub needs some space, doesn’t feel like talking, or just wants to sleep
After Care Ideas
• Holding/ Cuddling your sub
• Praising them: ex. ‘You were such a good girl’, ‘You did so well’
• Treating any wounds: ex. from spanking, rope burn, etc.
• Putting a cold/warm wet compress on any welts, cuts, or bruises
• Kissing any welts, cuts or bruises
• Running them a warm bubble bath
• Wrapping them into a warm fluffy blanket
• Massaging them
(w essential oils, sensitive skin lotions)
• Watching their favorite movies, shows
• Listening to their favorite music*
*preferably soft, calm music
• Giving them a treat they enjoy
• Carrying them where ever they might need to go
The Importance of Aftercare
Aftercare is not only very important but essential, for both vanilla and kinky sex.
Sub drop is how a sub might feel depression/anxiety or even considering their self worth after sex, especially BDSM/Hardcore Sex.
It is very important to be there for your sub as well as reassure them that they are safe, and you care for them.
This is also when you tend to any wounds that may have occurred during sex, like welts, bruises, cuts or rope burns.
DO NOT:
Immediately leave your sub alone or unattended to for an extended amount of time after sex! especially after hardcore/rough/bdsm sex scenes.
Leave any wounds received by the sub unattended to
Try to jump into some unrelated activities THAT CAN WAIT, without proper after care; ex. asking them to do chores, get ready to go grocery shopping.
Failure to comply with essential aftercare risks the trust you and your sub share and your subs mental security after sex,
especially after Hardcore/BDSM/Rough Scenes; ex. Rape Play, Bondage, Spanking, Anal Play and many more.
Reblog if you’re STD FREE
This is actually more important than all of the freak, nasty, and sex filled porn post on here. Hopefully this gets a lot of Reblogs. Know your status
Regular testing is the least you can do for your partner(s)
That’s the truth. The neighbours are going to be seriously worried.
Just a typical Thursday night
I can only wish!!
I remember those calls, followed by "other guests are complaining about the noise...Sir!"
If you can't be bothered to act like she matters ...
It just one of those things that happen on days ending in "y"
Try not to smile.
REBLOG IF YOU THINK THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH AN AGE GAP IN A RELATIONSHIP!!
Love an age gap!!!!
Same here, it’s wonderfully sexy.
None what so ever. young girls need some who is not a rabbit.
Find a balance. Keep your pets happy.
Very true
Well I don’t have Facebook…👅😈
I’ve never had it 👍👍👍
Absolutely!! Fuck that drama.
Not on Facebook! So guess what!
Facebook is for my vanilla life. Tumblr is for my fantasy life!
I have fb on my laptop but no longer on my phone.
@fineapple4u
Love the sound that plane makes
They do make me smile
Truth
You want to call yourself her daddy?
What’s her favorite color? What’s something that always makes her laugh? What are her goals? Her dreams? What is she afraid of? Do you know what she likes do to when she wants to relax? Do you know what helps her when she’s had a bad day? Can you recognize when she needs extra love because she’s feeling needy but doesn’t want to say anything? Can you tell when she’s bothered by something? Do you know her favorite way to be held, to be cuddled, to be wrapped up in your arms? Are you her safe place to go to when the world gets scary? Does she feel safe opening up to you? Does she feel like she can tell you anything? Do you punish from a place of love/caring, for correction of her destructive behaviors, for her own good? Do you see her as a person, a whole complete, complicated person? Do you make her feel respected and cherished? Do you protect her? Do you take care of her?
Being daddy is way more than fucking her, and if you’re not ready to take her heart, mind, body and soul, and protect & treat them with all the love, care, tenderness, respect that you are capable of giving, then you’re not her daddy. You’re just some asshole who wants to be called that. And you can get fucked.
Everyone needs to see this.
I don’t care if I’ve reblogged this before. Everyone needs this.
Yes, yes they do 💦
