flags. : both alter and collective flags and terms
illnesses:
official dxed: generalized anxiety, social anxiety, depression, arfid
self dxed: did (researched since 2018/2019; if you have a problem with this then leave.), bpd (researched for 2 years), avpd (still looking into this, but i thought id list it here anyways.)
suspected: autism, adhd
we also suffer from psychosis and possibly cotard’s.
typical posts: alter rambles, trauma-related reblogs, aesthetics + media that fit our system (largely signalis, neon genesis evangelion, and canine imagery).
opt-in expression flags in the same vein as bear/otter/etc for Black individuals with the intention of turning around "micro"aggressive labels.
BOMBAY :: a term for Black queers that are considered “off-putting” or "strange" by others, when in actuality they are shy and kind but cautious towards new people.
BLACK SHUCK :: a term for Black queers that are considered “intimidating” or "too much" by others, when in actuality they are upbeat, friendly, and eager to meet new people.
LIGHTNING BIRD :: a term for Black queers that are considered “aggressive” or "too headstrong" by others, when in actuality they are confident, passionate, and protective of themselves and their loved ones.
— these terms / flags are exclusively for any and all Black individuals !
— taglist @radiomogai @fleurvoidteacollective (ask to be added/removed.)
TRASHFEM: a gender identity all about identifying with and embracing the “trashier” side of femininity! those who are trashfem might feel connected to smudged makeup, wearing revealing or “skimpy” clothes, 2000s electric/pop music, artists like Katy Perry and Ke$ha, staying up partying or clubbing, etc!
TRASHMASC: a gender identity all about identifying with and embracing the “trashier” side of masculinity! those who are trashmasc might feel connected to sweat-soaked shirts, empty beer cans, playfighting as a form of affection, hunting when bored, wearing clothes despite them being heavily stained, etc!
TRASHNEU: a gender identity all about identifying with and embracing the “trashier” side of neutrality! those who are trashneu might feel connected to stained or ill-fitting clothes, crooked teeth, casually vulgar language, shaggy and messy hair, casually putting one’s feet up on someone else’s table, etc!
NOTE: despite being transneutral myself, i kind of struggled with finding examples of what trashneu people might be connected to :( i did my best tho, and i hope people can resonate with it!!
NOTE 2: edited trashneu to have less emphasis on physically gross things
An identity that is in the same vein as Boi, Qirl, and Qiroi, but for those who are genderless. In other words, it's an identity specific to black people which is similar to being genderless, but involves a deliberate separation from the western gender binary.
An [x]cora term for those who’s identity is genderater at its core; it will always be genderater, should always be perceived as genderater, and cannot exist without being genderater.
A gender identity in which the experiences of being black / being black in general affects ones gender identity.
This gender is an umbrella term for other gender identities that are coined to explain being black and an identity. An example of this would be Atervamp.
This is not a xenogender coining post, but I'm tagging as such for reach.
Tagging – @blessedfangs (ask 2 be removed)
This gender is black exclusive and should not be used by non black people. it is NOT for POC in general, but for black people only.
Boi is a word that has historically been used by queer people of every and any gender identity, including trans and nonbinary people, intersex people lesbians, bisexuals and gay men! The spelling of the word Boi, comes from African American Vernacular English/Ebonics, It first came into popularity within the black queer community and then spread throughout communities. It has been said that Boi, started off as a reclamation of the way “boy” was used to insult and belittle masculine black people (citation needed).
The most widely accepted definition of Boi is a queer masculine person whose masculinity is differing from and subversive of white cishetro masculinity, (usually a black or brown person, since this terminology is still widely used within the black community)
Due to the reclaimed(?) nature of “boi” as derogatory and the fact that the spelling of boi comes from AAVE, some people consider this to be a cultural and exclusive identity
The symbolism itself is meant to represent subversive masculinity, which is why the symbol for mars is replaced with a star, representing hope, passion beauty and transcendence.
Transcending the roles and norms of white cishetro patriarchal masculinity into something beautiful powerful and undeniably queer.
I long for a day where I can say I'm a system and people will know I mean an ACTUAL system and I won't have to clarify that I am in fact an actual system
what if I just delete fucking everything for my system and just let everything fade into obscurity because every fucking aid is just gonna end up shutting down because no one wants to admit that they cant handle an entire fucking app on their own and just deletes everything instead of actually implementing a team to help them because they cant farm pity if they arent the perfect image of a poor little meow meow doing allll this work alllll by themself :((( you should be grateful that one person would do so much for you and your community :((((( but it means FUCK ALL because im deleting it all anyways LOLZ!!!! good luck keeping track of all your information now that you have nothing else!!!!!!!
I dont care if im "being mean" or whatever the fuck about simply plural and octocon being shut down. systems are being left without aids that help them track and manage dissociation and keep them from losing years worth of information and memories all because some dumb fucks dont know how to properly manage their fucking projects. we are being robbed of our functionality because of someone else's incompetence. every single system has a right to be fucking mad about this.
DEFINITION ⠀✦⠀ when one presents androgynously in a way that's purposefully meant to be ambiguous and confuse other people around them. they may be able to pass as either gender or even read as both at the same time. this may be because it's entertaining to them, because they like it & it makes them euphoric, or for whatever reason the user has.
pt: definition, when one presents androgynously in a way that's purposefully meant to be ambiguous and confuse other people around them. they may be able to pass as either gender or even read as both at the same time. this may be because it's entertaining to them, because they like it and it makes them euphoric, or for whatever reason the user has. end pt.
EXTRATERRESTRIAL: a flag for one who feels like their presentation can't be understood by others, specifically because it is an unusual or non-human concept.
this could be for a variety of reasons, like being alterhuman, otherkin, a different species, a fictive, presenting in a gnc way, having a contradictory or "odd" identity, etc.
BAT (BAT TWiNK) ; for small trans men who identify with the twink label, but like to detach from it or have an alternate term because the associations (hairlessness and bodytype) cause dysphoria. a bat can also be a trans man who identifies with twink but is deliberately seeking to gain weight and body hair
exclusive to trans men and trans mascs
🦇 ——— COINED BY ME
[ PT / bat (bat twink) ; for small trans men who identify with the twink label, but like to detach from it or have an alternate term because the associations (hairlessness and bodytype) cause dysphoria. a bat can also be a trans man who identifies with twink but is deliberately seeking to gain weight and body hair
I miss phone sex so bad. Like yes I would love to call at 3am to listen to you touch yourself while trying my hardest to guide you while not cumming in my pants, ultimately failing and joining in because your moans make my pussy so wet that it’s basically impossible not to. But it’s cool, a vibe works too ig.