Post 3- Queer Girl Utena, part 2: Are they going to kiss or...?
WILL THEY WON’T THEY
I would like to start this post by confessing something: The first time I watched Revolutionary Girl Utena, I felt utterly queerbaited. The opening and the second ending were so clear about Utena and Anthy’s relationship, but the TV anime didn’t seem to agree so explicitly.
It didn’t help when the anime gave us moments like these
That being said, after watching the movie, I felt very differently. And then, after learning a bit more about society and yuri that does not occur in Yuri World, where every girl in school likes other girls, I did my first rewatch and everything changed.
It is less usual to see this in soujo, romance or anime in general but their personalities and story are not meant to build their love story, but it is built after the conclusion, after everything changes. The change is necessary for them to love each other.
If we are clearly seeing that they have the chemistry and strong feelings for each other, why are they the way they are and why does their relationship take so much time to flourish? (Ha! Flower joke.)
THE WITCH IN HER COFFIN
Above all, we must take into account that Anthy is a victim of abuse and that is what makes her being the way she is. She seems so passive, so submissive, as if she was not bothered by how bad the world was treating her or by his brother’s abuse. Utena and the viewer ask themselves the same question: Why doesn’t she say something? Why is she pushed to be the Rose Bride? Can she not just walk away? Why doesn’t she seem sad about it.
I will not deny that we get many hints that Anthy is not as passive as she seems behind the scenes (when you are being called a witch for so long, you learn to act like one), but it is also true that, when you are in a coffin it means you are dead, and therefore you cannot move. Sometimes you need to play dead to survive the situation, you need to convince yourself that there is nothing else for you in this world and make yourself be happy with it even if it’s killing you. You turn pain into your home.
The Rose Bride, meant to be used, how could she ever imagine any other situation for herself? Her? Dating Utena? Unthinkable. Not even worth pondering. Even the thought of Utena saving her is unthinkable, even less so when she is having sex with the one who is imprisoning and abusing her. It shows Utena’s weakness, she is a girl at the end of the day, and that is why Anthy does not conceive the possibility of putting herself into Utena’s care in a more serious manner. She cannot save her because she is a girl. A girl, as little free as her, will not save her. It is dangerous for Anthy to put herself in the care of another girl who cannot free her, or so she thinks.
Anthy is not willing to leave her coffin, and that is why she won’t be with Utena.
THE PRINCE IN HER COFFIN
Utena is not free either. She is subjected to the gender roles of what society sees her as and the roles of what she’d like to be, as I talked about in my previous post.
One could argue (Anthy definitely could) that her involvement with Anthy at first was simply an attempt to affirm her identity as prince. A prince who cares and saves princesses. A prince who loves princesses? Well, as I previously stated, no one told her she could be a prince and still kiss other princes, so we expect her to know that she could kiss the princess too? Her primary motive is to win the duels and defend Anthy, and that fills her motivations as prince. That was probably it for the beginning, and it is not hard to guess it very difficult to break, as she might have felt she would lose herself and what she stands for by changing that.
Also, have you noticed? She won’t call Anthy by her first name! There is no consistent theory about why is that, but I think it is related to her noble character: She is defending her, she is respecting her like no one else does. Although the name dynamic changes, not even at the end, I truly do think it is because of her nobility, it is part of her self-fulfilling prince relationship with Anthy, not because of how close or how far she feels about her.
I want to clarify that, although I’m saying that Anthy and Utena’s relationship is fulfilling for Utena’s role, I do not think Utena is using Anthy. But it is involuntary when a relationship with someone validates you, and difficult to leave it behind.
She also had to be greatly groomed by Akio for her to forget her prince, so forgetting her prince voluntarily so she could be with the princess she is defending is out of the question.
At the end of the series, when she is her strongest because she shows and accepts her weaknesses, is when she can truly give Anthy her all and allow herself to love her. Thus, causing the revolution.
UTENANTHY: MOVIE VERSION
The movie finally scratched what had been itching the whole series: They get to love each other! And kiss!!
While the movie is a reimagination of the story, I cannot think of it and the TV series separately. I think movie Anthy and movie Utena exist because of everything they went through in the TV series, in some cosmic way.
Akio is dead from the beginning, so the system is not as pressing, so they can love each other without any restriction.
Also, what happens in the movie is really anti Class-S stuff. In case you are not familiar with Class-S, it was the predecessor of shoujo and yuri. This genre explored the things girls would live, like sentimentalism and sexuality. These stories would almost always take place at schools, where girls could develop feelings for other girls and have relationships with them, but they would alwats part ways when they graduated, as those sapphic relationships were considered as practice for the men they would marry.
It was a really nice surprise that, in Utena’s TV anime and the movie, they are free to get together at the end, when they leave school. Well, in the anime it might be a little more complicated than that, since we don’t really know where Utena is, but Anthy is free now to go look for her and to want to be with her and escape her own chains so they can be together.
In the movie, they literally escape school and their chains to be together. They don’t belong there, they belong together in the real world, I cannot stress this enough. That felt like such a win.
So, taking into account everything that is going on in the TV series and how the movie takes it, I hereby declare Utenanthy canon from beginning to end.
CANON AT FIRST SIGHT
We cannot speak about queer love in Revolutionary Girl Utena without talking about Juri. She is in love with Shiori and she is her weakness, which allows the dueling system to push her to participate. Not really much to say about a painful sapphic love story of unrequited love, but it is nice to see a canon lesbian right when you are crying on the floor wondering why Utena and Anthy are not kissing. I really do wish we could see more about Juri and her backstory apart from Shiori to have a proper analysis about this queer character.
This was my second post about Utena, which is my favourite anime (including the movie, and the manga too, but it lacks queerness to be discussed here). I think I left a lot of topics untouched, since Utena has a lot of readings and it is hard to cover everything, so feel free to say if there is something you saw that I didn’t!
I will probably write about Utena again in the future as well.
Sources:
https://davedalessiowrites.wordpress.com/2019/09/02/character-analysis-utena-tenjou/
https://ohtori.nu/analysis/04_azusa_anthy_mirror.htm
It was revealed to me in a rewatch.














