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tom ; he/him ; 15 ;  aries ☉ leo ☾ cancer ↑ ; bigots dni

[pacific-mlm]

me!

hi there! i’m tom, but i also go by tommy. i’m bi with a preference for guys and i’m single. also i’m trilingual (english, spanish, french) and big into film, music, and literature! sometimes i post about hockey and college sports. i’m not new to tumblr, my main blog just got deleted for some reason so i thought i’d start over. 

asks and pms are always open!

dni if:

anti-lgbt+ (including terf/tehm)

racist

pro-cop

map/map supporter

nsfw-oriented blog (i’m a minor!)

fujoshi/yaoi

a philadelphia flyers fan

tag guide

tags are organized by relevancy (mlm/not mlm) and content (text, vid, photo, gif)

aesthetic fillers are tagged ‘watercore’ and sports are tagged by name (ie hockey, football)

my stupid commentary is tagged ‘tom.txt’

[hyaciinthmlm]

hh grabbing your partners face softly and looking into their eyes for a few moments before pressing kisses all over their face and calling them pretty or darling after each kiss🥺🥺

[ripe]

cozymood_ on ig

[to-the-enddd-deactivated2020122]

desperately craving a simple, yet mischievous life on the open sea. I have my sword, my large (and intricately carved) ship, and my crew. i am an expert on sea dragons and i use them to my advantage in the many battles I fight. I become legendary in the pirate world and yes, me and my biggest rival become an enemies to lovers couple 💖

[mxbutchtwink]

Darling I see your body like a painting that I can take into my hands and hold close, art that breathes, moves and lives as I do. Every dimple, every freckle, every crease and curve so beautifully rendered, so thoughtfully placed together with wonderful intention. It's almost impossible to take you all in, as you step out of your frame, as you become more than a creation on canvas and meet my eyes with your delicate gaze. I am not only a beholder, I am an audience member, and I am a participant in experiencing the beauty that is you.

[earthstory]

seefromthesky

Social Distancing

[just-shower-thoughts]

If homosexuality occurs naturally in almost all animals, you’ve probably seen a lesbian pigeon at some point.

[chromnur]

[wyntswonderland]

[heavenlycreatures]

on soulmates

f. scott fitzgerald / friedrich nietzsche / florence and the machine / andrea dworkin / kiersten white / euripides / audre lorde / phillip pullmann / bob hicok

[water-aesthetics]

[lumberjackloverboy-moved]

i want to teach a boy how to garden; i want us to get out hands dirty and get soil under our fingers and kiss under the sunshine

[maxximonstre]

gonna dismantle the government who's with me

he/him

[radicel-archive]

fuck it

i dont want girls sexualising mlm relationships anymore. at all

i dont want them fetishizing our relationships bc they think it’s sexy

i dont care if its a “way for them to express their sexuality”. that aint right and its messed that they can say that they want men in the porn industry to stop fetishizing wlw relationships, only to do the same bc its “fandom”

[radicel-archive]

can yall please reblog this actually ??

bc like. im a boy attracted to boys. and this is making me uncomfortable and i want it to stop

and im not the only one ? a handful of people have agreed with me and im sure there are more

please dont ignore this bc you want to keep writing/drawing/reading m/m porn…. or bc im a boy and you dont care what i have to say….. especially if you disagree with the treatment of wlw in the porn industry its a double standard and this is important to me and i dont want it to be swept under the rug

[transboybrock]

Add on: you can still write, draw and read about mlm without fetishizing them. By fetishization, OP means that you only see these relationships as sexy and sinful instead of just seeing it as average everyday relationships.

Nearly every girl I’ve met within fandoms with mlm ships has only focused on the men having sex or calling them ‘my nasty gay babies’ and that’s just gross.

[theinkstainsblog]

We’re all writers here so I thought it important that y’all see this and take note. 

[lgbtqhelpandsupport]

^^^ yes. I’m a boy who likes boys and even has multiple gay ships. But please don’t fetishize mlm relationships as ONLY sexy and sinful.

[cryptspren-moved]

ts sides fandom read this & take it to FUCKING heart :)))))

[wongburgerdiscourse]

Another gay guy here. A lot of these modern girls are “YAOI XD” with a different coat of paint. Like hating on people with straight ships, “yass my gay babies,” etc is all really nasty. We’re just people like everyone else.

[rattymlm]

another thing i would like to add about this is that it doesn’t matter whether the girl is straight or not. it’s just as CREEPY and DEHUMANIZING when a lgbtq girl fetishizes and uses gay men for their pleasure. mlm do not find it as a compliment. mlm do not care for or want your sexualized “allyship”.

[bloomingtrans]

shit is getting scary in california.

the sf chronicle has a live fire map and the cal fire has live info on its twitter and an incident map on its website. if your county has a local alert system i’d recommend signing up for that as well! alert wildfire has fire cams all over the state if you want footage of fires near your location.

take pictures of belongings for insurance purposes! and just in case, get an evacuation bag ready. things that are in my bag:

change of clothes, underwear

pair of sturdy shoes with thick soles

flashlight + batteries

first aid kit (bandages, gauze, burn cream)

water and nonperishable food (three days)

medication + paper copies of prescription

important papers

toothbrush, toilet paper, hand sanitizer

smoke mask if possible (n95 at least)

phone, charged battery pack, phone cable

if you have a pet, a leash and three days worth of pet food

here is a calfire evacuation guide for planning to evacuate. please stay safe!

[strwberrymlm]

he loves your body so tenderly and respectfully, caressing what you think are flaws, but, to him, they are what he loves most. there's not a lot out there telling you your flaws are loveable. that you, yourself, are loveable.

[achesspiece]

Bro hold my beer bro no bro with your other hand bro this one needs to be free to hold my hand bro

[mydeeppink]

Sometimes I'm glad to text you instead of being face to face. That way I don't have to hide how absolutely, ridiculously smitten I look when I talk to you