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[samanthacdslave]

Sissy chastity training

Chastity Training

First let me start that this is for sissies without owners, owners can determine there own training schedule.

I bought a locking device on Amazon called the Kitchen Safe. It is a timed locking device. You can set it for any length of time and when it locks the only way to get it open is to break the case. I bought a non clear model so once it is locked then I can’t see what is inside.

Next get a chastity that is somewhat comfortable that you can’t escape from that locks. Your only cheating yourself of your proper training.

Chastity schedule:

When in your chastity the device is to be locked and the key is to be in some way you can’t get to it, sissies can’t be trusted with the keys.

When out of the chastity you are to clean the device and your genitals to proper maintain health and cleanliness. You are to resist playing unless it says you can. When you do you are to eat it like a proper sissy should.

Every day you should be cleaning as best as you can for proper health. If something does not feel right stop and assess your health.

1: 1 day in chastity, 1 day out. 2: 2 days in chastity, 1 day out. 3: 4 days in chastity, 1 day out. 4: 5 days in chastity, 1 orgasm allowed and only enough time to clean. 5: 1 week in chastity, 1 day out. 6: 1 week in chastity, 1 orgasm allowed and only enough time to clean. 7: 1 week in chastity, only enough time to clean. 8: 1 week in chastity, only enough time to clean. 9: 1 week in chastity, only enough time to clean. 10: 1 week in chastity, 1 orgasm allowed and only enough time to clean.

At this point you are going a whole month in chastity only a week at a time between full cleanings. You may maintain this for a while before moving on. Remember this is your choice, and listen to your body, it will tell you if your ready to move on. Make sure if you move on your device is able to be cleaned while inside.

11: 2 weeks in chastity, only enough time to clean. 12: 2 weeks in chastity, only enough time to clean. 13: 2 weeks in chastity, 1 orgasm and only enough time to clean. 14: 1 month in chastity, only enough time to clean. 15: 1 month in chastity, 1 orgasm and only enough time to clean. 16: repeat steps 14 and 15 till ready to go forward.

17: increase steps 14 and 15 to 2 months.

So you see where this is going, it is taking each step slowly allowing you to clean and maintain health and decreasing your allowed orgasms. You may continue at your own choice increasing the months till your at 6 and 6. Yea! You have been in chastity without orgasm for a year.

You can also, depending on your body do this with the weekly just not allowing orgasm more and more but allowing a weekly cleaning.

Tell me what you think and where you are in the process!

Hope you enjoy.

[sissygames]

Fantastic way to work your way into serious chastity time.

[tnjockpussy-deactivated20191009]

What advice would you give to those that are considering or trying out chastity? Any personal struggles that you've experienced with chastity that you're willing to share?

This can be a somewhat large can of worms in my opinion but I’ll try and keep it brief. Everything within is from personal experiences Dad and I have shared. @tndaddybear has been amazing at supporting me, and us, through this process.

Keep expectations realistic.

If you’re just starting out, don’t expect to last three months or something like that. Take time to acclimate to the changes your body and psyche will go through. For example, in no particular order:

1) Your body physically will require time to adapt. Your nuts might get sore and chaffed until they’re used to being constantly confined… they may need time to heal. Your body will also have reactions to not getting off. That might mean leaking cum tears, painful nuts (for me that happens after fucking when I’m all wound up,) uncontrollable erections in the night that will wake you, and the occasional night emission (it’s always a little odd to wake up thinking, “Why am I sticky?”).

2) Your mind will experience changes more than your body. The emotions will change, sometimes rapidly. You might be desperately horny to fuck one minute, and angrily frustrated that you can’t cum the next. Having a strong key holder to keep you stable in the maelstrom of emotion is really important. I find after the first few weeks of a lockup, they tend to chill out. I’m currently at about month 5, week 1. It’s now just a part of who I am, and generally don’t realize it’s there. Sometimes I buck up, but it happens less frequently, and less intensely than in the beginning. No matter what, talk about what you’re experiencing with your key holder. They’re a part of the process, don’t shut them out. That’s how resentment happens. Talk everything out.

3) One of the more annoying parts of chastity: finding the right fit. You may need to try multiple devices, or multiple ring sizes. You may find that you go through a dozen devices. We have. Be ready to adapt when you find a cage just isn’t working. It’s not supposed to be painful (all the time,) it’s supposed to be fun. Don’t think there’s only one chastity solution out there.

Take the proper time to build up your tolerance.

You can’t just suddenly lock up and go three months, unless you’re a supersub. If you can, rock on. But for most folks, I advise the following schedule to begin:

1) 12 hours, during the workday, through the gym, school, whatever your daily routine is. Take it off at night.

2) Next, go overnight. Lock up before bed, experience what that’s like, and assess the situation in the morning. A break may be needed, it may not.

3) Then, go an entire 24 hour period at a minimum. Wake up locked, go through your day locked, settle in for bed locked, and sleep locked. 

4) You now know what to expect. Go three days. By now, you should have tested your environments, driving, school, work, gym, etc. If you cannot function through a critical part of your day, reassess what cage you’re using. You may need to try others.

5) Time to go a whole week. Then two weeks. Then a month. Then three months. Then…… and so on.

The point is, build up. Your body is made of muscles. You can’t lift 95 pounds in a bench press one day, and 305 the next, right? Don’t do that to your genitalia either. Train it. Train your mind especially.

Clear, defined expectations with yourself and/or key holder.

I don’t necessarily recommend open time limits in the beginning. It leads to frustration, anger, feeling lost, or maybe like you’re not really working towards anything.

Dad sets milking periods for me, and we tend to stick to them. It looks like this: Dad will say, “I’ll choose a milking date on the first of the month,” and then that doesn’t mean it happens on the first. It happens on a date he chooses on the first. Still flexible, still in Dad’s control, and still gives me something to look forward to.

Have conversations that lead to understanding what the purpose of chastity is. That’s going to mean something very different for everyone. For one, it might mean being a human dildo, where your key holder locks you up, uses you to ride while they get off, and locks you back up whether you cum or not. They might punish you if you do cum. It might mean focusing your attention from your dick to theirs exclusively (probably the most common.) Whatever the goals and expectations are, know them. Make sure everyone knows and understands. Clear expectations are healthy. Boundaries are healthy.

Cleanliness is next to godliness.

Figure out what cleaning method works for you. Bacteria can be a real bitch, don’t be foolish and think weeks in a cage without cleaning will just be fine. Use shower wands, liquid soaps, hydrogen peroxide and a q-tip, whatever works for you. If you have foreskin, you may need to be unlocked for a supervised cleaning more often, I wouldn’t know, I’m cut. 

A sub is no good to their dominant if they’re not in proper working order. That’s the sub’s responsibility, and the dominant’s responsibility to inspect.

It’s not bondage till you want out.

Dad says this to me all the time, it’s not bondage till you want out. Try to let go of your individual wants and needs, and understand with your key holder, you are now a part of a collective sex life. Consider, “My pussy is my sex organ,” and leave your dick out of the equation entirely. This leads to…

The most effective chastity device is between your ears.

Your brain is the most effective chastity device, period. Whatever you commit to, understand, if you want to cheat, you will. If you want to behave, you will. If you’re locked up, use that energy to further other projects. Workout more regularly, study more effectively, be more focused at work. 

When periods of extreme horniness come, let them wash over you. Be in heat. Be a cunt in heat. And tell your key holder. Beg. Let them know where you’re at. Let them help you. There will be a fire in your pussy that only their cum can put out. Trust and believe.

When you truly give yourself to the chastity life style, as opposed to resist resist resist, beautiful things happen. And that’s probably a post for another day. 

Thanks for the great question! I hope I answered effectively. 

Please feel free to share this post! There are many ways to do chastity, and all of them are right (you know, unless they’re unsafe, unethical, or illegal.) Have fun with it!

[chastechron]

[chastity-affairs-deactivated201]

Definitely!

[chastestories-deactivated201904]

[cagedjock]

Very useful information

[neswpnw]

Why Chastity?

Before listing some key reasons, let’s emphasize that chastity encompasses more than just caging a penis. Submissive men with great self-control can be perfectly chaste through obedience alone, a very impressive feat. Dominant men may also prefer a sub with an unusually small penis to have it fully visible. So with both options (caging and pure obedience) in mind, here goes:

Ownership: It reflects someone’s ownership over your body. He decides when it’s right for you to climax. Your orgasms are secondary. It is about the fact that you have ceded control over them to the man who owns your body. He can decide to have you beat off on a whim, or deny it for discipline.

Arousal: Chastity will make you unusually horny. Being unable to release that sexual tension makes you sexually charged. Your feelings of sexual attraction are revved up, and you become more open to new sexual experiences. Paradoxically, you feel more like a sexual person than when you were free. You are always in a state of readiness.

Realignment: Chastity leads to drastic changes in sexual behavior. Being unable to jerk off leads to exploring other forms of sexual activity, such as focusing on your ass, mouth, and nipples (and male breasts for those who have them). 

Self-Control: This is particularly true when chastity is achieved through pure obedience. For those unprepared for this leap, who cannot control their own urges, a cage is like a bike with training wheels. Your key-holder can help you learn the virtues of chastity, to the point where you are eventually able to exercise full self-control. Admittedly, some may never reach that point, and may need to remain caged.

Role Clarity: You enjoy being in a relationship characterized by well-defined and contrasting roles - Dominant and submissive, top and bottom. Sublimating a defining trait of masculine identity - seeing your penis small, limp, and useless except to pee - is psychologically potent. It helps you focus on serving your obviously more masculine partner, both in and out of bed. Especially when caged, it unmistakably signals no need for reciprocation. Your penis is clearly marked as not a sexual organ, focusing your partner’s attention on your ass, mouth, and nipples.

(Inspired by an illustrated post by @chastestories, but extensively rewritten to expand the concept beyond caging)

[cagedpussyboy]

[rubberforfun]

Thank you @yoshikawasakix for visit FORFUN 🤗

[men-heart-and-desire]

[diaryofapussyboy]

The Cocksucker's Pledge.

1. I WILL SWALLOW, unless otherwise instructed. A man’s cum deserves as much respect as the man himself. Swallowing reinforces the bond between man and cocksucker.

2. I WILL DEEPTHROAT to the best of my ability, regardless of whether I gag. A well-rounded cocksucker must master the use of his lips, tongue AND throat to maximize a man’s pleasure.

3. I WILL NOT USE MY HANDS unless instructed. My mouth is my sexual organ.

4. I WILL NOT TOUCH MYSELF when sucking a man’s Cock. His pleasure is my own. To suggest otherwise is deeply disrespectful.

5. I WILL NOT EXPECT RECIPROCATION—ever. See above.

6. I WILL MAKE MYSELF AVAILABLE, and service on his terms. A man should never have to jerk himself off when a cocksucker could do the job instead.

7. I WILL ALLOW HIM TO CALL ME NAMES, such as “faggot”, “cocksucker” and “slut”, regardless of whether I enjoy this. A cocksucker must accept his place on the sexual totem pole. Such names are a man’s way of claiming this superiority over a cocksucker.

8. I WILL CONTINUE TO SERVICE for as long as a man deems appropriate, whether minutes or hours, without complaint.

I pledge these things because I am a cocksucker; because I am in awe of men and am at their service; because it is their charity that allows me to even come close some sort of sexual fulfillment.

[ericdane8]

[rovaris-deactivated20221016]

Just holy fuck.

[paddockareasub]

A hot Sir.

[88mf]

[himinoboi]

[m4mdiscipline]

How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

1:  You  need to get into his head.

-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

- Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy.  Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”  

-Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

- Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

- Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

- Long term bondage

- Corner time

- Food restrictions

- Writing standards/lines\

- Write a book report or essay.

- Ground him/take away privileges.

- Wash his mouth out with soap.

- Make him do anything he hates.

- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

-Humiliate him often.

- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

- If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

- Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

- Talk sexy to him.

-Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

- Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

-      Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him.  You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

-      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

-      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

-      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

-      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

-      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

-      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

-      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

- Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc.  In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

- Make him masturbate for You.

- Slap him in the face.

- Spit on him.

- Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

- Talk down to him in front of others

7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You.  Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

- Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

- Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

- Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

- Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has.  Make sure You are at the top of that list.  One great way to do this is to deny him things.  Yep, it’s time to say “No.”  Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

- Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

-  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

-  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

- Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

-Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

[domgayhusbands]

Amazing list and great advice 😍😍

[cachorro-en-castidad]

[949mailman]

[pupcruze]

So my hubby and I have a third moving in. He will be moving into my bed in the master bedroom and I’ll be moving into the new nursery. I have had some friends help me come up with some rules and one really good one helped me create this list. Still has lots of editing and still more discussions with Sir. I’m super excited to get to be a little 24/7 again as well as an additional role as a Cuck.

Rules for diaperboys:

- Diapers are to be worn 24/7. Thickness can be determined for time of day: one diaper and a stuffer for work, three+ diapers at home, or when out. Punishment can include obviously thick diapers being worn in public, to the bar, with friends, and under tight pants or a short shirt.

- No bathroom privileges. Diapers are to be used fully, with the possible exception of the work setting (though a diaper bag and supplies should always be brought to work). Diapers are only changed when used fully - wet to the point of leaking or messy. Messy diapers should not be changed immediately as diaperboys need to learn to enjoy them and their place.

- If a diaperboy has to mess in public, he is supposed to tell daddy/caretaker that he is a made a mess in his diapers.

- Diapers can only be changed by a partner, daddy, caretaker or approved friend, with the exception of changes at work which much be with daddy or other’s permission. Diaperboys changing their own diaper or attempting to take it off will be punished. Diaperboys are also not to complain about being in full diapers.

- Daddy, partner and others should be helping a diaperboy fill his diapers. Diaperboys should be viewed as a personal toilet, as well as when there are guests or out.

- Diaperboys should be referred to as such. Other names include baby boy, little guy, babybear, or whatever nickname is chosen by a daddy or caretaker. This is how boy should be referred to at home, in public and by friends. Similarly, baby boy should only be using the terms daddy, sir, big brother or other respectful terms for adults.

- Chastity is fulltime and non-negotiable. Little boys are not ready to play with themselves and should only be used for the pleasure of their daddy or other adult partners. Special privileges for getting off will be done with anal toys or a magic wand vibrator. If using a vibrator, it should be done on top of the diaper and the diaper should be wet and messy.

- A diaperboy’s hole is meant for cum as well as piss which should be done during changes.

- Diaperboys mouths should always be full. A pacifier or gag should be in at all times, and removed for meals, bottle-feeding and grown men’s cocks.

- Meals will be eaten in a high chair and diaperboys will be spoon-fed. All drinking should be done from a bottle.

- Diaperboys need to be dependent on adults, so their hands should be in mitts frequently, as well as other forms of restraint (spreader pants, cuffs etc).

- Diaperboys should be kept well fed and hydrated to help them grow big and chubby, as well as make sure their diapers are full.

- Good hygiene is important for diaperboys. Baths should be taken at least once a day. Showers are not allowed.

- A diaperboy’s crotch should be smooth and free of all pubic hair. This can also be repeated for the butt and hole too, making diaper changes and cleanup easier.

- Bedtime should be a predetermined time that must be adhered to. Diaperboys are to be tucked into their crib and proper measures ensured so that they do not remove their diaper or play with themselves overnight: restraints (seguifix etc), mitts, other bondage and locking plastic pants.

- Littles’ wardrobe should begin to consist of age-appropriate clothing including onesies (both printed and plain to be worn at home and in public), shortalls, pajamas etc. Adult clothing should always be snug (and shirts too short) to show off diapers as well as baby’s chubby body.

- No adult clothing is allowed at home. At least, diaperboys should be waddling around in thick diapers and pacifier. All other clothing outfits should show off being little. Punishments can include humiliating outfits, as well as humiliating outfits worn in public.

Punishment Ideas:

- Spanking/flogging

- Denial of diaper changes for a set period of time

- Forced messy diapers: enemas, suppositories, laxatives, etc

- Funnel attached to boy’s hole acting as a urinal

- Forced messy diapers in public

- Obviously thick diapers in public

- Humiliating/baby outfits in public

- Sissy outfits/“girly” clothing

- Extra large buttplug

- Admitting to wearing diapers/being a diaperboy in public, to strangers, to friends etc (example, having to ask where you can change your diaper in public)

- Enforced naptime with bondage in full diapers

- Orgasm denial and teasing (even edging without chastity)

Diaper Brand Suggestions:

Daytime Wear

Betterdry 24/7

Abena L4

Bambino Classico

ABU

Barebum

At home/ABDL

Bambino Magnifico

Bambino Bellissimo

Betterdry 24/7

Rearz Safari

note: diaper supply should also include thick Abena Abri-let Maxi stuffers

Wardrobe Ideas:

- Onesies - printed and plain

- Pyjamas - footed sleepers, two-piece sets

- Shortalls and overalls - should be snug to show off diaper bulge

- Rompers

- Short/cropped tshirts

ABDL Furniture:

- Crib - fitted with restraints and/or seguifix

- Changing Table

- High Chair

- Jumper from ceiling

- Play mat for toys

ABDL Accessories:

- Pacifiers - large

- Pacifier clips - for outfits/in public

- Plastic Pants - printed, plain, locking, sissy etc.

- Mitts - padded

- Bibs

- Bonnets

- Socks and booties

- Blankets

- Stuffed animals/plushies

Punishment & Bondage Accessories:

- Mitts - locking

- Gags - pacifier gag, panel gag, cock gag

- Cuffs and restraints

- Straightjacket

- Spreader pants

- Sissy outfits for punishments- skirts, frilly things

Suggested Sites for Purchasing

Diapers: https://bambinodiapers.com

www.rearz.ca

https://us.abuniverse.com/

Plastic Pants: https://abdlfactory.com/plastic-pants

http://www.baby-pants.com/

Punishment items: https://www.adultbaby-shop.com/Home

also http://adult-baby-shop.eu/ (different store)

Onesies: https://onesiesdownunder.com/

https://us.abuniverse.com/

www.rearz.ca

Furniture: http://babyapparels.com/

Please add any other rules you may think I need to add or other ideas you’d have!!

[mikedymike69]

So jealous.  Wish I could find a daddy or pair of daddies.  

[dprsubboi]

Another Fav! :D

[boytoydjpanther]

Love these ideas and rules!

[imlockedndenied]

How to Become a True Locked Bottom Bitch, Second Edition

(Please Note: I made a few updates…)

I’ve had several conversations with locked boiz over the past couple years where we discussed how to truly become a locked bottom bitch.

Now, you may ask, “Isn’t having your cocklette permanently riveted in a cage enough?”

The answer is “No.”

I believe that the point where you no longer focus on your cocklette as a source of pleasure, that it’s simply the thing you piss from, AND when your holes have become your only sources of sexual release - when you learn to have anal orgasms and squirt cum from your soft cocklette from receiving a man’s cock (or dildo) - then and only then have you truly become a locked bottom bitch, a true servant of real men, an acolyte of cock, a disciple of sexual energy.

I’ve been asked how to get to that state of mind, to that place where we want to be.  I no longer think of my locked cocklette as anything other than something to piss from.  I no longer get erections (though sometimes a bit of swelling) and I haven’t had a real, honest-to-goodness orgasm in 1,813 days (as of 7/15/18).  I have gotten to the point of being able to have an anal orgasm while being penetrated nearly every time. For me, the rougher the top, the more vocal we are, the greater my chances of exploding in my cage.

So here’s my theory on how to move from a cock-focused life to a hole-focused life.

1. Get that cock caged! 2. Stay locked’n’denied longer each session. Start at 2 weeks, then 3, then 4 … and just keep going.

3. Now the real trick is to shift your sexual NEED from that locked cocklette to your hole. So, they way I’ve done it is simply by fucking a dildo EVERY TIME I GET HORNY.  

Its that simple.  Back when I was a top with a free cock, when I cruised porn I’d take my hard cock in my hand and wank one out.  Or, when I mad my bottom bitch, Carlos, he would kneel under the desk with a plug in his ass and suck my cock until I told him I was ready to blow.  Then I’d put him over the desk and fuck my load into his El Salvadoran ass.

Remember when your cock was free?  I bet you stroked that sucker every time you got the slightest bit horny.

Well, now, instead of thinking about your useless cock … go jump on a dildo - the bigger, the longer, the better.  NEVER cruise porn without being ready to fuck a dildo the second you get horny. These days, I have an electroplug in my hole, cranking up the charge the longer I cruise tumblr.

You will train yourself to equate “horny” with “penetration.”  That’s the key.

4. When you watch porn stop thinking about that real man’s cock, look at that bottom bitch taking it.  Hear him moan.  Think about your hole and how wonderful and amazing it feels when it is being penetrated.  My God! Writing this now I have the urge to grab my Kevin Dean dildo and fuck it into me!

4. Once you’ve gone 6 months locked’n’denied you are ready to go permanent … invest in that stainless steel cage that fits perfectly and rivet the fucker on!

5. NEVER stop training. When you’re horny … fuck a dildo, fuck your man … fuck a stranger.  Watch porn? Fuck a dildo.  Each and every time!

The chastity cages we all so love to use tackle only one part of the “problem” of being a submissive bottom.  We have to change our physical, mental and emotional states.

If you have additional suggestions on how you have learned to become a true bottom bitch … please share!

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