…..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment
likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post
the last time I reblogged this post right before I got a great job, in a permanent work-from-home position, with benefits, retirement, and a salary literally 3x what I was making before, doing something I really like.
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Getting overly jealous over small interactions.
"So what? You're dating them now?"
Overthinking and overanalyzing every single one of their crushes' actions/words, trying to figure out the intent behind them.
"Do they like me back, or not?"
"I can never figure out what you want from me..."
Constantly trying to confess, but biting their tongue before words come out, just to wonder later what would have happened if they had just said what they meant.
Getting upset over cancelled plans and unanswered texts.
Glances that linger on longer than intended.
Recalling small touches, like brushed hands or a small nudge, and immediately yearning for that warmth again.
"Why don't you get it?"
"Is it not obvious? Am I doing something wrong?"
Feeling mad or annoyed with their crush for not realizing their feelings go deeper than just friendship.
Replaying old memories in their head and wishing to make more.
Feeling unwanted whenever they see their crush giving their time, attention, and affection to someone else.
Trying to subtly touch their crush to hint at their feelings.
The "playful" flirting that they mean with every bit of their heart.
Overcompensating by giving compliments and being extra nice, but feeling frustrated all the same when their crush doesn't seem to notice their efforts.
The constant daydreams about how life would be if they were together.
Avoiding any other romantic pursuit because they're stuck on that one person.
Staring at their crush whenever they laugh or smile and thinking: "I wish I can make this moment last forever."
this has been sitting in my drafts for over a year, and i finally found the motivation to finish lmaooo
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cw/tw: alcohol.
THINGS:
1) Seeing them in a different way after a long time apart.
2) Lingering looks.
3) Bed sharing, but only platonically. (Regretfully).
4) Inside jokes.
5) Late night [texts]
6) Smiles that hurt.
7) Always being each other’s +1 to any event.
8) Forced proximity, that wouldn’t be such a problem if things weren’t changing between the two of you.
9) Home cooked meals, made special by the other.
10) Walking each other home from work.
11) Falling asleep on the couch, intertwined.
12) Fake-dating; either because you have to, (friends, family, a wedding, job) or because you two made an agreement when you were younger to get married.
13) Having to vet the other’s SOs.
14) Soft touches. A brush on the shoulder, across the waist, through the hair.
15) Everyone knowing that, oh, it’s those two.
16) People asking where’s the other if only one is present.
17) Minted keys to each other’s apartment. (Bonus if it’s the only copy).
18) Sleepovers because you're sick and they don’t want to leave.
19) Their parents always asking how you’re doing, and yours asking about them.
20) Bets on your relationship.
21) That kind of laughter that ends up like squeaking because you can’t hold it in anymore.
22) Confessing your love in the worst ways. (In the middle of an argument, while in danger, in a drunken stupor, simply because you’re tired.)
23) Using them as a seat, because that’s what you’re used to.
24) Slow dancing. Totally platonic.
25) Prom with one another.
26) Spending sad anniversaries on the couch with buckets of chocolate, their arms curled around your shoulders.
27) They only trust you with their problems.
28) And you only have them to cry on.
29) “Goodnight” and “Good morning” texts.
30) “Did you get home safe?” texts.
31) “If anything ever happens to you, call me.”
32) Self-sacrificing behavior because neither of you can live without the other.
33) Chiding the other while patching them up, inches away from their lips.
34) When they throw themselves into danger, you’re there to pull them out.
35) “Can’t sleep, come over?”
36) Movie marathons.
37) Hiding each other whenever you’re not supposed to be in their room, giggling.
38) “I can’t imagine being with anyone but you.”
39) Petty jealousy.
40) “Where are you?”
41) Always sitting by each other in [school].
42) Fixing each other’s clothing; ESPECIALLY tying their ties, fingers brushing against their sternum.
43) “I’ve wanted this forever.”
44) Them being the only person who notices the small changes you make to either your appearance or house.
45) Emergency contacts.
46) Sleep-deprived nights because the other’s in the hospital.
47) Platonic love proclamations, until they're not.
48) An accidental kiss to the cheek that leaves both of you stunned.
49) “I can’t keep going without telling you how I feel.”
50) That awkward phase after you start dating where everything is new and you really don’t want to mess it up.
51) “It’s just me.”
52) The whole exaggeration about their dating. (Eg, we’ve been dating since I’ve known them.)
53) “I didn’t know you loved me.” “I didn’t know you loved me.”
54) Semi-protective behavior.
55) Knuckle kisses that get progressively longer.
56) Dreams shared in the darkness.
57) Working together—which means no productivity, basically.
58) Playful arguments.
59) Being able to resolve actual arguments because they both value the friendship too much.
60) “Take the bed.” “Not without you.”
61) Stargazing, your head on their shoulder.
62) Being there when things go bad with each other’s families.
63) The “do you want to talk?” with pinched eyebrows.
64) Knowing the exact shade of each other’s eyes from memory.
65) Coffee trips in the middle of the day.
66) Dropped off lunches.
67) Random midnight snack runs.
68) Nighttime road trips.
69) A shared music taste and a bass that rocks the car, windows down.
70) “Don’t replace me… please. I can’t lose you, too.”
71) Straight-faced covering for them, even while they sneak out the backdoor behind you.
72) Mutual shenanigans despite the consequences of said shenanigans.
73) “Hey, what if we—” “No.”
74) That first kiss that’s a tentative touch, then turns into a feverous kiss, hands on shoulders, jaws, cheeks, squeezing their sides.
75) Wanting to take their relationship slow.
76) Each milestone meaning more than the last.
77) Soft singing to put one another to sleep—perhaps a song that they’ve sang since childhood.
78) Being ready to drop everything to go help them no matter what.
79) Smiling when thinking about them [and being called out on it].
80) Objects that you have to get for them.
81) Board Game competition.
82) Zipping up their dress, or tying their tie and fixing their cufflinks.
83) Secret languages.
84) “What are we?” “What do you want us to be?”
85) Standing in front of them on the [train].
86) Memories that you can’t forget.
87) Growing old with one another.
88) Kids who they can’t decide which looks like who.
89) The most outlandish anniversaries you can think of.
90) “Happy That Time We Almost Died For the Second Time!”
91) Communicating through simple expressions.
92) And finally, the ability to trust utmost in one another.
