A Place for All Things Pan

Pansexual/Panromantic posts, role models, and history

[pan-pride]

Radical love and solidarity to all Native or Indigenous pan folks on this National Day of Mourning and Unthanksgiving Day. We see you & we love you 💗💛💙

[pantransautie]

pan culture is being respectful of all genders and pronouns, even the less common and the less well-known genders and pronouns

[panromantic-from-next-door]

Pan guys are 👌👌💕💖💛💙

[nonbinarypastels]

[Image Description: A picture of the ocean with text on it that reads “nonbinary pansexual pride”]

[ashtyntheviolist]

Why is this a mood

[xoaspiewriterxo]

Pansexual and asexual Autistic people are wonderful and deserve support and respect

[themlike]

I’m bi and so tired of seeing posts that are like “pan ppl love regardless of genitals unlike bi ppl uwu” and “pan ppl are snowflakes just call urself bi”.

BEING BI IS NOT INHERENTLY TRANS/NB-PHOBIC

THE DISTINCTIONS BETWEEN BI AND PAN IS IMPORTANT FOR SOME PEOPLE AND DEFINITIONS VARY BETWEEN EACH PERSON

Thanks for coming to my TED talk 

[pantransautie]

pan culture is acknowledging the existence of, loving and supporting nonbinary people

[posi-pan]

[Image Description: A photo of eight medium sized stars on a dark grey background. Each star is striped pink, yellow, and blue, outlined in black, with black text in the center. The texts read; “your identity is real”, “you are seen”, “your identity is valid”, “you are valid”, “you are loved”, “your identity is its own”, “your experiences are genuine”, and “you matter”.]

some pan validation stars ★

[pan-pride]

I'm so insecure about calling myself pan because like 70% of the time I'm attracted to men/masc people but sometimes I see girls/fem people and I'm completely 😍😍😍 so idc sometimes I feel like I'm a cheater and ugh I just wanted to get this off my chest 😅

Hi there friend, pan people can definitely have preferences! I totally get the insecurity, but there are all kinds of pan people out there, including many many many who have preferences for what gender they date. You’re no cheater, sounds to me like you might just be a pan person with a preference :) 

[pan-pride]

I CAME OUT TO MY MOM ON FEBRUARY AND SINCE SHE SOMETIMES ACTS HOMOPHOBIC I WAS V SCARED TO TELL HER BUT SHE ACCEPTS ME!!!!! (she wishes I liked boys and she said it'll be a lil weird to see me with a gf but she's okay with my sexuality!!!!)

I’m so happy that went well for you!! You are super duper brave!! 

[pan-pride]

I think I may be panromantic, but when I learned about being pan I didn't feel any of the 'thank god' reaction do many people seem to. I am scared that maybe I just am interesting in learning about different sexualities And am actually just straight. Advicee going forward?

Hello, just wanted to say that all of this can be really confusing and that I totally relate. When I was first learning about LGBTQ+ identities, I thought I was just interested in learning more and being a good ally, when in fact the more I learned, the more I realized that wow there all these different ways to do love and romance and sexuality that I didn’t even realize were options for me. The idea that there was more out there, that I could chose to align myself with different kinds of love felt right. I felt nervous, but powerful. 

When I first heard about the term pan, I was hesitant to apply it to myself because I felt like I was an imposter or I was just faking it to be more interesting-- but part of feeling that was just a product of compulsory heterosexuality--of growing up internalizing the idea that being straight was the default to the point that I was having trouble seeing myself as someone who might not be straight. 

Not everyone has a “thank god” reaction to learning about being pan because we all are coming from different places and have unique and varied pan experiences. As for whether you’re straight or not, I think only you can figure that out. I would say, if you think you may be panromantic, explore those feelings and take time to think about what that’s bringing up for you. Maybe talk talk it over with some trusted friends or meet some random folks on the internet and tell them you’re panromantic and see how it feels to say that? 

Best of luck, you got this! 

[pan-pride]

My bf and gf are all pan I feel happy

Woohoo that’s awesome! I’m glad you have rad pan folks in your life!! 

[posi-pan]

[Image Description: Nine square photos, three by three. The top three photos are, from left to right; black text over a light pink background that reads “your speed doesn’t matter, forward is forward”, white text over a light blue background that reads “celebrate every tiny victory”, and black text over a light yellow background “you’re not a mess. you’re brave for trying”.

The middle three photos are, from left to right; white text over a light blue background that reads “you are not a burden”, white text over a light yellow background that reads “mental illness is not a personal failure”, and white text over a light pink background that reads “be gentle with yourself, you’re doing the best you can”.

The bottom three photos are, from left to right; black text over a light yellow background that reads “you matter”, white text over a light pink background that reads “it’s going to be alright. just get some rest and try again tomorrow, okay?”, and black text over a light blue background that reads “take a breath. relax. you got this”.]

some pan mental health positivity/validation

[forest-dreemurr]

Commissions! I need $600 by Oct 30th (EDIT: Nov 10), so here’s an updated commission post!

Prices: $10 - digital sketch/unfinished $15 - finished digital with plain color or transparent background $20 - finished digital with background

If you aren’t interested, I also do $2 1-3 card tarot readings and $5 4+ card readings, as well as nude pics for $5 and videos for $8.

[pan-pride]

Urgent: Hi y’all, this rad trans friend of mine is trying to pay hir next college tuition payment ASAP. Ze honestly is such a kind person and is constantly helping other LGBTQIA+ and questioning folks learn about gender and sexuality and so many important things! Please help out as you can, and if you don’t have any money to spare please reblog, us LGBTQIA+ folx gotta support each other! 

[pan-pride]

I recently realized that I'm pansexual. I decided one day to tell my mom, who is possibly the sweetest person on the planet. Still, I was nervous because I didn't want her to treat me differently. When I was done talking she said "honey, I've always known who you are. I've had my finger on your pulse since day one." I was so happy that it didn't surprise her. I haven't told my dad or stepmom yet, because I think their reaction will be more critical, but it still feels good that my mom knows.

Hey that is so great! Congrats on coming out to your mom and I wish you luck when or if you decide to come out to other family members. It’s always good to have someone who has your back! 

[phacheltheprophetess]

haven’t seen this yet so:

pansexuals are great. you’re not forgotten.

you are not grouped anywhere that does not define you.

the lack of understanding & erasure of your identity does not invalidate you.

you’re literally all great & matter.

I hope you all have a good day today