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[wetheurban]

You can be soft and still be someone people don't play with.

[aidashakur]

This version of me has boundaries, peace, purpose, and no guilt about it. I love her.

[rob-walks-deactivated20210614]

me finishing a argument

[thoughtkick]

“It’s hard to find people who will love you no matter what.”

— Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City

[hanesbeefytshirt]

I know it is a privilege to feel things deeply but what the fuck

[parably]

You can fuck the fuck off you dumb fucking cunt. You are unbelievable. He “can have you” cause you clearly have lost your fucking mind.

[parably]

Fuck you for real… I was nothing but kind to you this last week when you didn’t deserve it and now this. Noted.

[anniespositivity]

Look at you showing up even though your heart is heavy. Look at you pushing through even though you feel the sadness weigh you down. Look at you staying in touch with family and friends, taking care of yourself by eating, sleeping and making time for your hobbies even though the world feels like it is falling apart around you. Just look at you persisting despite it all, my love. Take it slow - baby steps every single day. Don't let these hard days discourage you. You are so much stronger than you think. And things will get better sooner than you can imagine. I am incredibly proud of you.

[neckkiss]

xx

[parably]

To my future therapist, (may the odds ever be in their favor)

Tell me where to put the anger.

[parably]

At this point, you guys are selfishly, knowingly, and actively making a choice that is a recipe for disaster. If it weren’t for these beautiful children of yours, I’d be done and cut you off. It’s bullshit you’re trapping them in your selfishness and toxicity. I hope they fucking SURVIVE you, and in the end of it all, if they don’t have a relationship with either of you after they turn 18; that is entirely on fucking you guys and nobody else… I won’t blame them, nor will I feel sorry for either of you if that’s the conclusion in the future.

[parably]

You’re such a fucking child sometimes…

It’s pretty fucked that you think it’s okay to treat me like that after everything that’s gone on just from Jan to now…

If you would have actually had a fucking conversation with me instead of flying off the handle like that and going off about shit the way you did things would probably be fine right now. But instead of talking to me about how what I was saying was hurting your feelings or making you feel a certain way and addressing it with me, like a fucking adult, you twisted all of it and took it to an extreme of putting all kinds of nasty disrespectful and judgemental words in my mouth because of your own perception.

It hasn’t even been a year since we were last in the spot we’re in now…

So go ahead and throw your temper tantrum and behave like a child. But I don’t deserve the disrespect and volatile language you spewed out at me. Neither do they. It’s up to you to see that part or not see it.

It’s HARD to set boundaries like this especially with you.. but I’m standing on them. Either you’ll check yourself or you won’t once you’re done throwing your fit. And if you don’t, that’s on you… but I won’t tolerate that kind of behavior and disrespect from anybody, even you.

I tried to come to you and talk about shit as an adult so you could tell me how you perceived things and how you were feeling and you flipped the fuck out and wouldn’t calm down. So that’s on you too.

[parably]

I needed that sign from you, hello to you too, beautiful mama of mine.

The sun, the moon, the star and strength. You were bananas over the sun moon and the stars.. ending with you giving me strength in the potential outcome position.

That was wonderful, and it will have to suffice as enough. But I so wish you were really here. I can feel your energy wrapping around me right now, that will have to suffice as well, and I am grateful to have received such a strong message from you tonight.

Love you beyond the sun, the moon, and all of the stars mama.

[parably]

This will sound angry, because it is. And I’m not gonna say it to you but I can say whatever I want or need to here.

You got me fucked up lol.

Hard boundary check coming your way once shit settles down after a bit. I already had this conversation with you almost a year ago - I don’t care how drunk or how angry you are, or both. You need to think about the shit you say before you say it. Intoxication, stress, lack of sleep, etc, a combo of whatever plethora exists, I do not care. You don’t get to treat me like that and talk to me like that like I’m a personal punching bag and because of xyz it “doesn’t matter” or “you didn’t mean it” or both. It does matter that you said it, regardless of your state. It does matter even if you “didn’t mean it.”

So apparently you’re gonna be learning this lesson again, cause you didn’t learn the first time, clearly.

I don’t like having to put my foot down and hard boundary check you like this. You’ve always been my other mom and my safety and security. But you have no right to talk to me the way you did. And if I don’t hard boundary check you, you’re gonna think it’s okay and it will be tolerated. It will NOT be tolerated nor excused.

Do better dude… cause we’re not doing this fucking shit. I don’t deserve it.

[parably]

Week 2 of consciously implementing small things I have been neglecting that remind me I’m alive… the goal for 2026 was to live and not just survive.

We start small… then we keep adding until it isn’t a conscious effort, and the need to remember fades away. We start small and build our way up into the person we lost over the course of the last 3 years.

We don’t have to be perfect. But we have to try.

Until we succeed.

[parably]

I don’t know what the fuck is in the air lately but I’m fucking done being talked to like a worthless piece of shit by almost everyone. I am not the one right now. All these assholes can fuck the fuck off.

[catchymemes]