In general, Parker is more adventurous and extreme in sex when not taking the lead. From a dominant position, theyâre interested in rough sex and sensation play, will leave bruises and bite marks on a partner, pull hair and scratch them up, but they donât have the interest in causing the sort of pain they like to receive. Blindfolds and mild restraints might be involved, but tend more toward sensuality overall when they're taking the lead.
In a more submissive role, they go much more violent and aggressive. They will fight back, not in a bratty way but needing to be reassured that someone strong is taking care of them, testing the boundaries to know where they are as a comforting structure, and also in a sort of test to make sure the person theyâre dealing with is worthy of that submission. Impact play is huge for them, and they prefer their pain to be heavy rather than sharp, thudding rather than stinging. Give them orders, enforce discipline, put restrictions on eye contact -- not in a way meant to degrade or humiliate, but to provide order and a space where they don't have to think or be in control. Parker kneeling, head down, before someone they respect and feel respected by is something incredibly intimate and special for them.
In more equal power dynamics, thereâs still that edge of combative aggressiveness. A half-real fight turned into fucking, giving as good as they get, challenging and being challenged in something that range from playful to genuine animosity. Parker is not opposed to a good old hate-fuck.
There are a couple kinks they might want to explore but which are decidedly not casual. These would not be done with random, fling partners, and would require trust and safety with the partner before hand and outside of sex as well. That would be a partner dressing up in a uniform or any roleplaying of a kidnapping or torture scenario. This would collide squarely with legitimate traumas they have experienced and if handled flippantly would end very badly. Conversely, handled well it could be very cathartic. It should be noted generally that anyone wearing a military uniform as a costume or without respect will not have a happy ending, in or out of a sexual situation, as far as Parker is involved.
fighting, blindfolds, light bondage, bruises, leather cuffs, face slapping, flogging, following orders and discipline, hair pulling, hot wax, ice cubes, kneeling, leather clothing, leather restraints, marks, massage, âthuddyâ pain, scratching, shaving, spreader bars, strap-ons, teasing, whips, wooden paddles, wrestling and fighting
MAYBE (requires context and/or more in depth negotiations)
riding crops, uniforms, kidnapping/torture roleplay, choking/breathplay, knifeplay, eye contact restrictions, standing in corner
sharp pain, degradation, genital/breast torture, encasement/mummification, watersports, scat, pet play