Patchwork Poly

  A complicated woman learning the ropes of Polyamory

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Night

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New Moon Ramblings

Sending positive vibes into the universe... The ones I love will be safe, especially during travel by air and land. All will go smoothly for finishing school and graduating. The ideal job(s) will come forth and eventually a career making position. My husband will recognize his worth and find happiness in his work and personal life. Healthy relationships will present themselves and unhealthy ones will quietly make their way out of my life. I will continue to find ways to let my light shine and foster love for myself and my presence in this world. Those who are a positive influence and bring joy will find ways to remain in my life while also experiencing happiness and personal growth. So mote it be.

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Have you listened to my episode of @dawn_serra’s awesome #sexpertise #podcast Sex Gets Real? •••• Link in bio because you should! 😊 👆🏼👉🏼 http://sexgetsreal.com/ep126 . . . #sexgetsreal #dawnserra #polyamory #nonmonogamy #sexeducatorlife #sexeducator #sexpert #sexpertise #keepitconsensual #valleyvspot #pleasureposishops

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Tips That Can Save Your Kid’s Life.

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THIS IS IMPORTANT 

When I was a child, from the time I was about four and could understand things, my mom told me and my brother that we should have a secret word. That way, if we were ever in trouble or felt unsafe and we didn’t want the people around us to know we needed her to come get us, we could let her know. So she let us pick the word and my brother and I chose the phrase “peanut butter cups.” (I’m happy to share the phrase now since both my brother and I are adults now). 

I used the phrase twice in my life. Once, I was at a friends house when I eight years old. Her dad got really drunk and was throwing things against the wall. I was really scared and I didn’t want to draw attention to myself on the phone when I called my mom to come get me because I didn’t know if he would get more violent if I asked her to come get me. So I called her and was calm and after a couple minutes I asked “Hey mommy, did you get me those peanut butter cups from the store?” And she said “I’ll be right there.” And she came and got me within minutes. 

Second, I was a teenager spending the night at a friends house. Her brother and dad were drinking and they started talking about things that made me uncomfortable - ie: what they liked to do to women. My friend didn’t seem perturbed and said that was normal for them and that I shouldn’t worry. But I was worried because they were really drunk and I was 15 and the only ‘woman’ around that wasn’t related to them. I went in my friends room, told her I needed to call my mom and say goodnight. Before I hung up with her I asked “Next time we go to the store, can we get some peanut butters cups? I’ve been craving them.” And she came and got me, just like that. 

Two incidents, one as a young child, one years later as a teen. Don’t discredit this stuff, it fucking works. My brother used it a few times too. Let your child pick the word and no never, ever, ever, ever get mad at them for using it no matter what it is. 

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That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.

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Another one Bites the Dust

Another one Bites the Dust

So remember last week when I told you about the new guy, Riley, I’ve been dating for several months? My only concern was that we didn’t spend enough time together. He must have gathered that I wasn’t happy with the limited availability and expressed that he didn’t feel he was being fair to me and what I wanted. He said he enjoyed what we had and didn’t want to end things, but he wanted to give me…

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Long Distance-Short Story

Nelson has been out of state for almost 8 months now. Some of you may remember the gut-wrenching emotion when I discovered he was leaving (I was young and dramatic back then, what can I say.) Much to my surprise, we have managed to make things work much better than expected. Texting daily, phone calls every other month or so (I’m not a big fan of talking on the phone), and he’s visited a time or…

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