Just a small town girl

Trips, adventures and experiences along the way

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Countdown to Pareece 2015!!

While most people are unpacking the last of their summer travels, Jaykishan and I are just beginning to pack our bags for a much awaited much needed summer getaway to Paris and Greece! 

I’m learning, there’s definitely some perks to taking a trip at the end of summer. So, I thought, why not highlight a few of these “plus points”. 

Let your Social Media friends who have travelled all summer do the hard work of checking out the places you’d want to visit, and then simply let their Facebook posts and Snaps do the work of where to go, where not to go, what to wear, what sites to see, where to eat....anddd you get my drift 

Need to buy a new outfit for you travels, oh thats right “end of summer” sales are in full force, thank you Nordstrom for your Anniversary Sale - found some great steals

You may have spent all summer being an “out of office “ for your co-workers but now you get the ultimate treat of jet setting off to far away lands while everyone else hits the ground running with piles of work to be done

Ever get stuck on a plane with child that won’t stop kicking your seat and speaking at decibels so loud your Beats By Dre are no competition? - School is now in session - you can thank your local ISD 

Pitch Perfect 2, Avengers, Jurassic World and every other summer blockbuster that you missed are now available for “In Flight Entertainment” (yes, I managed to miss every movie this summer) 

I should probably work on my checklist of things to pack, so I’ll cut this entry short, but more to come as I head out to Pareece! 

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Boston Recap - Travel Diaries

As the summertime madness continues, this weekend we found ourselves on the streets of Boston screaming “The British are coming, the British are coming!” Well, in actuality, there was no invasion of the Brits and Jaykishan nor myself could ever come close to any re-enactment of Paul Revere.  We did however, take in the rich history and culture that Boston had to offer.  

With only two days to explore, we found that the best way to cover the most ground is to purchase a sightseeing tour.  Special shout out to Old Town Trolley Tours.  Used them in other cities, never fails.  Great tour guides and easy hop on and hop off.  Jaykishan and I also just like riding around on an open air trolley with the wind in our hair (or lack thereof J) and getting a quick overview of the city.

Our stops included Cambridge, home of Harvard. Visiting Harvard’s campus I’d say, I’ve never felt smarter and dumber at the same time. Gorgeous campus, nice people but sadly my application was rejected. I was all set to buy myself a Harvard T-shirt but as a true Longhorn, I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. Hook ‘em Horns!!!

****Boston Fun Fact: There are 60 colleges in Boston – yes, that’s right 60! Now that’s a college town****

Walking the Freedom Trail was probably the highlight of the trip! It truly is a trail! Imagine that Little Red Riding Hood left behind a trail of red bricks instead of bread and you follow them all the way to around the city. No need for your smart phone time, it’s time to take it back old school.  Along the way, you make stops at over a dozen historical points in America’s History. Piece of advice: leave your red soled Louboutins behind, it’s a rocky road.

Traffic in Boston is NOT A JOKE – I mean for any of us who have experienced Mumbai or NYC Traffic in all its glory, it’s a piece of cake.  None the less, still a challenge to navigate.  #oldtowntrolleyrocks

I cannot tell you enough how laid back the people of Boston are. Here in Dallas, heaven forbid I dare walk onto McKinney Avenue without my hair blown out, 4 inch Stilettos and a Louis Vuitton bag. (Sorry Uptown, I just took a dig at you)  Your biggest fashion faux pas in Boston would be not wearing a Red Sox t-shirt on game day.  Now, I’m sure there are some parts of Boston that are “Hollywood” but from my experience it was great.

****Boston Fun Fact: Grande Non Fat Misto with two Splendas – Sorry Starbucks lovers, not happening -  this is the birthplace of Dunkin Donuts, where you can’t walk more than a few feet before you come to another…you guessed it…Dunkin Donuts**** Special thanks to Cheekiee for giving me her Starbucks order for this blog 

Cheers Bar – “Where Everybody Knows Your Name” – enough said, another big highlight, being at the actual set bar.  I remember all the times I’d see this show on TV and there I was!

Newberry Street – no trip for me is complete without a visit to each city’s shopping Mecca – cute street, great walking, very reminiscent of New York City but not quite on steroids like the Big Apple, lucky for Jaykishan, no shopping sprees that day.

One of the best things about Boston is that it’s a very manageable city as a tourist.  You don’t need a car, it’s not spread out everywhere, yet, it has so much to see but not so much you walk away feeling you missed half the highlights.

Below are some more places we checked out that I’d say for anyone planning a trip might be helpful

Food: -Thai – Montien – great Thai place in Chinatown -Giacomo’s – Italian in the North End – be prepared to wait in a line – good veggie options – super tiny place – eat fast - Blu at Ritz Carlton – Came here for a work dinner – nice fine dining – come for the view – healthy veggie options -Quincy Market – Massive Food Hall – think upscale food court – there’s always something for everyone -Mike’s Pastry – good cupcakes and cannoli’s – be ready throw some ‘bows for your place in line – super busy

Sightseeing: Old Town Trolley Tours – super easy, tons of stops, ride around all day if you like Duck Tours – We didn’t do this but it’s super popular in Boston– no hop on and off Boston Common – great place to walk through or have a picnic – we walked through here after dinner one night Historical Cemeteries – yes, this might be a bit creepy but at the same time it’s fascinating to see a tombstone from 1690 Fenway Park – We didn’t watch a game here but it’s, great place to see a piece American Sports History Boston Tea Party Ships – takes you back to your elementary days – great place for kids  

Enjoy the pictures below: 

Goalllllll - Outside TD Garden

Boston Traffic - Yikes! 

Boston Selfie

The Gates of Harvard and Campus 

Walking the Freedom Trail! 

Yes, we visited a cemetery!

Cheers Bar! 

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Summertime Madness - Schlitterbahn - Travel Diaries

The ice has thawed, snow boots have been packed away and the thermostat is inching closer to triple digits.  Old Man Winter has made his exit.  No better sign of summer approaching than a calendar full of events weekend after weekend.  No better start to a jam packed calendar than with those you love.  

This weekend was the annual Schlitterbahn reunion weekend that our Didi (meaning older sister) organizes each summer.  For those that aren’t familiar with Schlitterbahn – imagine every water park you’ve been to.  Now, imagine every water park you’ve been to, on STEROIDS, yes steroids.  It’s so big that you have to be shuttled on a bus from one end of the park to the other end just to get through it all.  It’s so big that you don’t even have to leave the resort when the park closes.  They have their own accommodations in the park!      

For those that know me, know that I run screaming bloody murder from any water activity outside of taking a bath – to which my OCD cleanliness will never argue.  As we all know, spending time with those we love also requires us to often times do things we wouldn’t normally be found doing in our day to day lives.  When I RSVP’D back in March a big fat YES, Didi promised me a weekend I would never forget with the best of times.  As I sit here typing this entry, she held true to every word. 

Below are a few highlights of the weekend and bullets to prepare yourself if you are planning a trip to Schlitterbahn in the near future:  

Be prepared to get wet – not soak your feet at the end of the pool as you catch up on life with your cousin wet – but drenched to your bones wet.

Be prepared to face all your fears of water – Oh yes – let’s just say, I found myself on rides called  “Raging River”, Cliffhanger”, “The Falls”, “White Water Rapids” – fears faced and clearly it was not my time to meet my creator, came out with all limbs in tact and a side of confidence boosted! 

**Special Shoutout to To all my fellow ride partners, Lee, Corby, Didi, Rupa, Meera, Kunal, Jaykishan – thank you for saving my life over and over as I fumbled my way through every ride I hopped on. ** 

Be prepared to overcome hypothermia – heated and treated water – I don’t think so – Schlitterbahn water is all natural direct from the river – no such thing as heated water here – so yes, when I jumped on my first ride, aside from my fear of water I also experienced my other nuance in life – being cold! The sheer shock of the cold water was enough to freeze any fear of water I may have had. 

Be prepared to lose your hat, jewelry, sunglasses or anything of value that you thought “oh I’ll be fine” – Bye Bye Fendi Sunglasses, may you rest in peace at the bottom of the river rapids.

Be prepared to spend the night on the resort – By far the most genius idea – we rented two 10 sleeper cabins right on the resort.  Wake up in the morning, throw on your bathing suit and walk on over the rides.

But more than anything – Be prepared for some serious fun!!

This was by far the best three days that I have had in the longest time and I wouldn’t have spent it with anyone else.  Nothing warms my heart more than to say from when I was three at Disneyworld to Schlitterbahn, Didi has always held my hand and took care of me.   Sorry Allstate, but I’m only in good hands with my Didi.

Time to unpack and repack for next weekend: Boston!

Enjoy the pictures below!

View from the river cabins

Jaykishan, Corby and Meera getting ready to take off on the Sky Coaster! 

Sanaya bonding with Masi and Masa!

All the Munchkins + Meera Didi

Mumu and PIggy for life! 

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Closing the Deal: A Sales Lesson in Marriage

Typically when one were to think of a salesman, the following may come to mind:  

Persistant 

Big Talker 

Pushy

Run, run, run!!

However, I'd like to share my experience with what may be the most cleverest salesman of them all - my husband.  

Now, most people that know him, would probably say, he's very kind, calm, collected, easy going etc. etc.  So how could I ever think to define him to the bullets listed above. Let's be clear - I'm not, definitely not. Wellllll, after this post you may want to run from him but..... ahhh just kidding. 

To give you a little bit of background, those that know me, know that I absolutely hate without a shadow of doubt,  cold weather, cold rooms, cold cars - basically aside from food and beverage - cold anything.  Those that know me also know the minute you are going to try and sell me or convince me of anything, my first response is going to be a BIG NO - aside from Thin Mint Girl Scout cookies.

To which I'd like stop this post for a Public Service Announcement - Girl Scout Cookies are now on sale!!! You should be able find them sitting outside your local grocery store, community events or knocking on doors in your neighborhood. This weekend I happily I swung my door wide open when I saw them coming down the sidewalk. Cash in hand ready to get my share of those little green boxes:

BUT- Back to our post

Now that we have established I'm not easily sold or convinced, I can explain why Jaykishan has managed to break this thought process of mine.  

A couple of weeks ago, Jaykishan let's me know that he has a work event to be at in Chicago and he'll be gone for a few days.  Great, good for him, who wants to be in that frozen tundra in the middle of winter anyways. I tell him have fun with frostbite while i stay toasty at home.

 He then comes back a few hours later and the following conversation takes place: 

Jay: I was thinking, wouldn't it be nice if you could come too, ya it'll be cold but it'll be nice getaway, we can see the city in the winter, it might even snow.  It's also close to our anniversary and you have all your dad's family that we have yet to go visit. 

Payal: Are you crazy, there's no way I want to go, I'll die in the cold 

Jay: Ya I know, it's okay, don't worry about it 

Payal: Ya, exactly

The next day, the following conversation takes place. 

Payal: Hey, do you think I could still come to Chicago

Jay: Ya, do you want to come

Payal: I think so, I mean, ya it'll be cold but I did NYC in the winter and I was okay.  It'd be nice to think we went away for our anniversary and I'd love to see my family. What do you think?

Jay: I think I just closed the deal - I already had your ticket booked 

As I stood feeling a little stumped, I realized this guy just sold me on something I would have never gone for had he used the typical methods of a salesman.  I started thinking back over time to all the other things he had managed to outsmart me and sell me on. 

His strategy,  I learned,  just like him - was simple: 

He approached me, calm and collected 

Briefly provided me with the 3 strong take aways (beautiful city, anniversary and family) 

Allowed me to feel in charge by saying "No" 

Accepted that answer as final 

Then, he left me on my own to let the those takeaways marinate in my head - all the while knowing he already had the sale 

One may say he just knows his wife very well. Which he clearly does - But I will say for any of us that know him, he knows how to close the deal. He doesn't come off pushy or add a lot of fluff. He keeps it simple and gets his points across in a strong manner and next thing you know your willing to go on a trip to Chicago in the middle of winter -  thinking you just got a deal of the decade! 

Stay Tuned for a Chicago Recap...

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Scottsdale Recap - Travel Diaries

Anyone who knows me, know that there are generally no such things as spontaneous or spur of the moments in my life. Key Word: Generally.  When Ami and I decided within a week to book a trip to Scottsdale – with no planning, no one was more surprised than myself.

Wait, let's retract that statement. My husband may have been just as shocked.  Jaykishan, did ask me no less than 34 times “so wait, you’re really going?” “you really booked?” “this is for sure right?” Let’s be honest, he probably had set into motion plans for an all guys weekend and couldn’t risk any last minute cancellations from his beloved wife. Much to his delight, there were no cancellations and I was off to my desert getaway. 

Highlights of Scottsdale Trip: 

Airline: US Airways - no delays, no disasters, all is well

Car Rental: National - Emerald Club - easiest car rental ever...no seriously...you just walk to a car, keys inside and drive off -  not a single paper to sign

Accommodations: Waldorf Astoria at the Boulders - Total oasis in the Desert

Arriving from different cities we made plans to book similar flight times and meet at the rental car center once we landed.  I landed  before Ami, so upon arrival, I thought out where best to sit and wait so she could easily find me.  Clearly, the high altitude from the flight must have affected my thinking, because after being friends for over 20 years why would she have any trouble finding me. I haven't grown since the day she met me, I'm not old enough for Botox induced faced changes,  so just humor me. I have no explanation for why I would think she wouldn't recognize me.    

We learned that a downtown valet can get full...on a Friday...at 12pm.  Yes, we were shocked too.  Clearly, I need to find out what the people of Scottsdale do for living because, I have a suspicion it must not be what rest of us are doing. Attempting to grab a bite to eat at The Original Chopshop turned into a 45 minute parking ordeal. Nice girls always finish last when it comes to a parking war. 

Our resort was about 45 minutes away from the actual city.  We plugged in the directions after lunch and off we went! At some point, I remember asking Ami "when's our next exit" only to hear her go "oh crap Payal your phone died!" (I knew I should have stood in line for an iPhone 6 when it came out) Luckily, her iPhone holds a charge much better than mine and she quickly pulled up the directions before we ended up in the unknown. 

Flashy Porsche - Yes please, everyone in Scottsdale seems to drive one - yellow, white, red, you can't look more than 30 feet and you see one.  

Hiking the Boulders - Oddly enough, despite some shopping and spa time, this was probably the most refreshing part of the trip.  There is nothing that makes you feel more alive than climbing these larger than life creations. No harness, no guide, no training.  Here's a great way to put any friendship and relationship to the test.  Thank you Ami for not letting me slip to my demise! 

Overall, this was by far one of my most favorite trips I have ever taken. It allowed me to spend time with a dear friend and really Zen out.  Sometimes we all need to just disconnect and not think. I've always loved the Southwest region but this last trip solidified how much I love it!  

A few pictures from the weekend

Meditation Teepee Tent

Time to Meditate! But first: Let me take a selfie! 

We laid in these forever! 

The Challenge

Making our way to the top! 

The view! 

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"Here Let Me Get That For You" - Travel Diaries

Anytime I used to fly alone, I would always check in my luggage. Whether I was travelling for a weekend, a week, or a month… Point is, if I was flying alone that bag was getting checked in.  Clearly, these were the pre airline fees days. Then came, “oh you’d like to check that bag in, hand over $25 and wait for 30 mins at baggage claim.”  At 5ft 1in, lifting and stuffing a carry-on into an overhead bin is quite a daunting task.

However, many "single flights" later I have finally mastered the art of traveling alone with a carry-on bag.  The secret, is to make sure you board the plane with a nice gentleman right behind you. No, I’m not crazy, there is a method to this madness.  It’s a lot like dating actually. Just as you want to pick a partner that will support you all through life, you want to pick a man that will support you all through your flight, should any need arise. 

Here is my guide to all my fellow vertically challenged ladies, on how to travel stress free with a carry-on bag. 

****Before we start, there are few important things to keep in mind*** 

See Below: 

If you like to arrive at the gate as the plane is boarding. Forget about it.  You might as well join the boarding line and pray you can gracefully throw 30lbs over your head. 

You will want to avoid any of the following men behind you:  

Grandfather and older Fatherly types: Not that they aren’t perfectly capable by any means, but do you really want to be the cause of throwing out what could be your dad’s back because you overstuffed your carry on with one too many platform heels

The Douchebag with the Louis Vuitton duffle: Yes, I’m judging, but chances are he’s going to be too concerned about his overpriced duffle not getting scratched to help you with your carry-on bag

Anyone that looks like they might be riding in 1st class: Let’s face it, they aren’t going past row 5 to help you when they already boarded 20 mins before you and are sipping their cocktail – move on  

Now that we have taken care of those housekeeping items, let's get started

First:  Make sure you get to the gate a good 15-20 minutes before boarding starts.  That’s usually around the time everyone starts making their way to gate and you need to be able scope out the potential prospects 

Next: Narrow down your potentials and make your move.  Engage in some small talk and find out what group they are boarding in. 

If they are boarding before you or seated more than a few rows before you – mission abort – this man will be of no use to you – move on to the next guy

Same group as you or after – continue to engage in small talk as you both wait for boarding

Finally: As boarding starts, and the masses all attempt to board with Group One, make a light joke and wait a few minutes. --Unless, you are both Group One-- but regardless, once it's your turn to board, invite him by saying "I guess we should make our way". He will kindly agree and follow your lead. Now he's hooked. 

Once you've entered the plane the deal is pretty closed.  Arrive at your seat and as you begin to lift your bag, the Angels will start to sing and you hear the magic words: “Let me get that for you”. And up goes your overstuffed carryon bag to be safely secured for the remainder of the flight. Flash your million dollar smile and thank him kindly for his services. 

**By no means is this strategy a way to say we women can't manage our own luggage or help each other out, but why not have some fun while we travel!**

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Good-Bye Summer Solstice

It’s that time of year when the leaves start to fall off the trees, bears start prepping for hibernation and most signs of life start to disappear for the winter months. Myself included. Anyone who knows me, knows that the minute the temperature gauge drops below 90 I immediately have a scowl on my face. Born a true summer baby, I should be living on a beach in the middle of the Pacific. But, alas - Dallas, TX it is.  So why is it, that these falling temps are putting a smile on my face? 

I have spent the last few months within the three walls of my cube in my own work induced recluse from the world. Aside from a few rare celebrity appearances for baby showers or birthdays, it’s all been about being off the grid. With that light at the end of the tunnel starting to shine bright and strong, it’s beginning to feel more like the night before Christmas.  Santa better watch out, I’ve got enough jolly in me to take out all his little elves and enough job loyalty to take on the workshop myself.  On second thought, let’s leave the toy building to the experts.  

 This year, fall is not going to be a catalyst for my winter wind down.  Nope, it’s going to be sign of life to come.  Oh yes, that means I’m going to read your updated Facebook statuses within minutes of posting. I’m going to be the first to “heart” your Instagram pictures  – well, maybe.  No longer will I be going through pages and pages of Perez Hilton trying to get caught up on the latest celebrity scoop.  I’m finally going to stop being “that friend” who always uses work as an excuse to miss out on a good time.  We all know I’m honest enough to just say “I’m feeling lazy” when I don’t want to do something.  OH the things I have to catch up on - TV, movies, friends, books, LIFE! Though, the happiest person may be none other than Jaykishan.  How his patience didn’t run out with my Dr. Freeze personality these last few months may make him Marvel’s newest Ironman.

Anytime I get busy like this - work or personal -  I always tell myself I will not let it consume me.  But, as I’m learning, I’m still a work in progress.  Rome wasn’t built in one day and I definitely have a long way to go.  Until then, I am going to take these little victories and do my little victory dance! 

 The temps are dropping and its creating a smile on my face.

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Texting and Driving – A One Act Play

(Because there is no other way to describe this than theatrics)

Characters:

Jaykishan (notorious for texting and driving with the attitude of “I’m untouchable”)

Payal (worn out from trying to tell her husband to stop his bad habit)

Police Officer (waiting to pounce on guilty party)

Setting: Jaykishan in the driver’s seat of his X5, with phone in hand texting with no care in mind. Payal riding in the passenger seat, annoyed that phone is riding shotgun more than she is.  Police officer in clear view of anyone with two eyes on the road.  

 Scene

Saturday morning of TX/OU minutes before kickoff.Parking lot of Royal Choptstix in Irving, en route to Twin Peaks.

Act 1:

Jaykishan: (looking up to review mirror) Oh crap, I just got pulled over!

Payal: (eyebrow raised) Better put that phone down

Officer: Sir, the reason I pulled you over today is because you failed to stop at the Stop sign

Jaykishan: Yes sir

 - Officer leaves to go write ticket-                                                                                                 

Jaykishan: (turning to Payal) What stop sign, I didn’t see no stop sign!?!

Payal: Ummm the one that has always been there

Jaykishan: Which one, I don’t’ remember it!

Payal: The one right as your making that turn

Jaykishan: Oh that one…

Payal: You mean your 3rd eye didn’t see it while your other two eyes were texting.

Jaykishan: This is Bhavin’s fault I was texting him

Payal: Right of course, because he told you to run the stop sign so you could text him, Yep, you are right, all his fault.

Jaykishan: But I really was texting him!

Payal: (shakes her head in defeat)

The End. 

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Long Distance Friendships

"Oh my gosh Payal, you won't believe who I just saw!!" There's nothing more exciting than picking up the phone and hearing your good friend screaming that through the other end! 

New York Fashion Week has been in full force for the last few days and everyday I ask my dear friend/colleague  who is currently working in the Big Apple for any celebrity sightings. No luck…until today that is!

For the last few months, I have absolutely enjoyed living vicariously through her adventures as she takes on the highs and lows from the city that never sleeps.  Today, was more than just hearing about a celebrity sighting.  Today, I didn't talk to a co-worker or team member, today I really connected with a friend. On a phone. "What a concept" - as she would say.

***I have to interrupt this post for public service announcement***

We really do live in a world where socially connecting via phone is as archaic as writing letters. Yes, Tim Cook just unveiled Apple's latest and greatest and thankfully the "touch to talk " feature is still available. Whew! Good to know we have not completely succumbed to communicating via Emails, iMessage and Social Media - #omgarealphone, #omgicanhearyou 

***I will now return you back to my thoughts at hand***

Now that we have established a real conversation took place, I cannot explain in mere words the joy and excitement of talking to Tricia for the remaining 45 minutes of our conversation.  When I can stay on the phone for 45 minutes with any person, you know that's a real friend.  Once we had caught up on our daily celebrity dish we carried on to every topic essential for a good "catch up"…see below

NYC happenings (obviously)

Work - even though we do that while at work

What to eat for dinner 

Shopping

Men…pause…I definitely do not recall talking about the NYC dating pool nor my husband…WHOA..how did we miss this

Working out - no need for gyms in the Big Apple, just hauling your groceries home works your triceps, biceps, back, legs, quads - you get the idea 

I'm never good at good byes, whether they are in person or on the phone, so once we said "talk to you later" I took a second and just smiled. A smile that explained everything i was feeling at that moment from talking to Tricia - content, full of love and grateful that I have such amazing people in my life.  :)  

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When Harry Wed Bansari

No Meg Ryan or Tom Hanks here, just one awesome Longhorn Bride saying "I do" to her Midwestern Groom.  

And so, that brings us to the final epic wedding in our family…for this year that is.  A few weeks back Harry and Bansari tied the knot.  As with every wedding in our family, it was nothing short of an epic event.  My personal favorite highlights below: 

It's not a wedding until you have a Bride vs. Groom flip cup, oh yes, we did and yes Bansari schooled Harry in a heartbeat 

Let's just say our family gave a while new meaning to D.A.R.E - just say NO program - that is all

Breaking into the Groom's room the night before the wedding and taking snap shots in his wedding attire and stealing his shoes - check and check

"Baby Bye Bye Bye" - Forget the Harlem Shake or the Cupid Shuffle, it's not a party until you have a throwback to the classic boy bands…and so...we did

Nothing and I mean nothing, warms my heart more than to see a little "Texas Love" in Californiaaa

After the Party it's the hotel lobby…nooo…after the party it's the 3rd floor conference room of the Radisson.  It's fair to say this bullet needs it's own paragraph.  No really, it does.  Why…anything that involves grown boys dancing to Sanedo, doing garba and putting on a table top performance of Diliwale girlfriend has to be in a league all it's own.  

For the last couple of family weddings, once departure day rolled around it was sad to see everyone leave but the next event was already lined up so there was always something to look forward too.  This time, I did leave with a bit of a heavy heart, I wasn't sure when I'd get to see my family again. As I always say about our time together, the days are hectic, time is too short, but a good time is always had.  Congrats again to Harry and Bansari! 

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Mid Year Review

New Year's Resolutions are not my thing, but I think it never hurts to pause for a moment and see how 2014 is coming along. And so we have Payal's Self Assessment.  

I knew I'd be up for some challenges this year when I survived New Year's Eve on a cruise in the middle of the Bosphorus in Istanbul - sick with food poisoning, green in the face from motion sickness, fever and frozen to the bones.  It's amazing what you can force your body to endure if you put your mind to it.  - By no means am I saying I'd like such a challenge again, let's be real, I'm only 5ft tall, barely 100lbs, I may not survive.  

I've realized, I'm a bit spunky, goofy and a total child at heart and you know what? I'm totally okay with it.  I've learned to stop taking life so seriously, because I'm not a deep in thought melodramatic person. Dramatic - yes - especially when it involves any form of bugs or furry friends but I leave the melodrama to my Soap Operas and Bollywood movies.   I laugh like my 4 year old nephew and have no shame in shopping in the "kids" section of Macy's.  On what level is ANYONE going to take me seriously…clearly I am not - so why you.

I could really work on trying to grow a little more. I need that extra inch or two so I can stop having to pay for alterations on all my pants. If one must insist - there maybe be some areas for me to work on:

Patience has never been my strong point - Thank you Jaykishan for forcing me to learn patience - kicking and screaming that is :) but I am learning it

Worry Less - oh yes, this child at heart tends to worry over the most ridiculous things i.e. the other day I passed a person with a flat tire on the road and kept thinking "what if no one stops to help them, will they find a ride home or get help" Yes, I totally could have stopped and lent a helping hand but I'm not trying to make the 5'oclock news headlines for any highway attacks. 

Washing my Car -That's right, I seriously put this on my list of areas to improve.  For as long as I can remember, my dad always taught me to keep a clean car.  We keep our homes clean and organized why should our car be any different. I may not have the newest or flashiest model car around but there is a pride in a clean car that goes far beyond just shiny tires and spotless windows. So yes, I need to wash my car more often.  

I asked Jaykishan for this bullet point - he stated - I need to not let my emotions build up until I become my own version of Mt. Helen. Soooo I suppose when I'm upset, I should just let it out, instead of letting all that lava build up. He's probably saying this for his own safety but we'll take it into consideration :)   

But in all seriousness, I could really really use the extra inch or two in height, I really must stop being on a first name basis with the local tailor. 

Aside from my personal assessment, 2014 has been wonderful to date.  I've travelled a bit, seen hard work pay off in the office space, avoided any serious illnesses and had good times with family and friends.  Anything more and I'd be getting a little selfish.

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Exoticlly Epic: Arjun weds Versha

Another year means another family wedding…of epic proportions.  Last year Pooja and Vinay gave March Madness a whole new definition.  This year Arjun and Versha took exotic to a new level, as titled - their wedding was "exotically epic. From elephants to snake charmers and everything in between as cliche as at it sounds "this wedding had it all".  

I could story tell every event into the early morning hours.  Instead, I'll sum up what was three unforgettable days into my Cliff's Notes version of bullet points.  

Forget Pete's Dualing Pianos - the Srivastava's hosted a Sangeet night that put Bollywood to shame.  Full on competition between the two sides, sitting across from each other.  For all my Bollywood friend's take a trip down memory lane to the Hum Apke Hain Kaun scene jamming out to "Samne Samdhan Hai" 

Haldi Ceremony with a Twist - oh yes, at a time in the stone ages it may have been that only married women and "bhabis" could put "haldi" on the groom.  Not anymoreeee - all of us sisters got to join in on making Arjun "fair and lovely" for his bride.  But wait, there's more, forget the moms, the bhabis and the sisters. Arjun's brothers and brothers in laws joined in on the ceremony as well. Equal opportunity people, equal opportunity.  Needless to say, Arjun came out looking very "glowing" for his bride.  

Special shout out to Arjun for being the best brother ever and waiting for me to get back from sister duties before starting the Haldi Ceremony - made my heart melt - every wedding has to have a soft spot moment - this was mine 

Bharaat 101 - In the event Versha were to have any confusion as to where her handsome groom was, Arjun made sure to arrive in style.  By style, I mean, perched atop a 2 ton elephant with his jaan dancing in front of him. Our elephant was nothing short of a high demand hollywood actor.  Striking poses at every chance and tapping a foot to the beat - Turn Down for What! 

Major kudos to our incredible DJ, not only did he get all of us in the bharaat warmed up but made sure and taught our diverse crowd a few Bollywood dance moves as well.  Cue - "screw the light bulb" and "jersey fist pump"   

Wedding with a view - whats that? Oh that's right, the backdrop for the wedding was a scene straight out a Hollywood Chick Flick - gorgeous sunny day, ocean views, Mandap set on top of a hill at the Ritz - an insanely good looking couple tying the knot  - no big deal - oh forget it - its a huge deal, let's be real most of us will never attend a wedding this beautiful again - yes I'm biased and quite clearly very dramatic

Reception of Exotic Proportions - as with most receptions, we had entrances, speeches, a toast, side of belly dancers and snake charmers.  No,the reception did not take place in a far east land but for a moment the ballroom was transformed into our own version of the best Morocco could offer. My highlight however, Texas Two-Stepping it to some good ole country music! And now, we have seen it all.  

As always, the days were hectic, time was too short but we have memories for a lifetime! Congrats again Arjun and Versha!

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And so the Countdown Begins!

Before I begin my entry, I must make note that it appears I took a involuntary Sabbatical from my blog since my Turkey trip.  It's no joke when people say "time flies". Didn't realize it has been months since the last time I wrote. Let's see how rusty I have got!

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6 wedding outfits - packed

Matching Jewelry and Bangles - sorted and organized

Endless Bindi options - extra glue in tow 

India size suitcase - zipped and packed to the max

No, I'm not packing for a Royal Wedding - we missed the RSVP deadline for Prince William's and Prince Harry can't seem to decide if he wants to settle down or not, so who knows when that will happen. BUT, I am all set for another Epic Patel Family wedding! Arjun and Versha will finally be tying the knot!  

Oh yes, believe it or not, little Nintendo playing Arjun is all grown up and has won his Princess. I guess there was something to learn from Super Mario Bros. 1, 2 and 3. 

A wedding in our family means: 

Epic proportions of…everything - Kimye? Child Please

Hijacked phones - Sorry Jack Bauer, we've got you beat

Family Time - Modern Family meet the Brady Bunch

Fun and Games - Olympic Trash Pong winners

With so many of us living all over the States, these family events are magnets that bring us all together.  The days are hectic, time is always too short but the memories last a lifetime. And on that sentimental note, time to go get this brother married!  

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Old Man Winter Please Be Gone

If there's two things I write more about on this blog than anything else,  it's this: travels and weather.  I feel like if I'm not traveling then I must be complaining about the extreme weather conditions I live in.  

From my emotional distraught, one would think I spend my summers in the Sahara and my winters in the most northern corners of the Arctic.  Alas, I am merely in Dallas, Texas.  But really, it can be brutal! This winter has been exceptionally brutal at that.  Mind you, I even had small reprieve when I went to India for a few weeks - only to be welcomed back by the Polar Vortex.

I'm all for getting bundled up and looking cute in my Ugg Boots and knitted beanies but let's be real.  It's time to shed those layers and enjoy throwing on a simple t-shirt and shorts.  Flip flops seem as ancient as when King Tut and Cleopatra first sported them on the streets of ancient Egypt. Naked toes in strappy sandals….what a concept…how foreign it feels.  

Old man winter you have long over stayed your welcome.  I exile you for the next 10 months only to return in time for a white Christmas.  What's that? OH, that's right, I have no such powers.  Here I am, frozen toes and all, praying for Jaykishan to fall asleep sooner rather than later,so I can secretly turn the thermostat a few degrees warmer in hopes for summer dreams as I sleep. 

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Istanbul Continued

As I'd mentioned in my last post, there were a couple of "once in a lifetime" type of moments - so here they are! 

New Year's Eve! Spending NYE on a party cruise on the Bosphorus between two continents – mind you this was while I was still suffering from the food poisoning – I think Jaykishan owes me a few favors after I soldiered this for him

Turkish Bath! Oh yes, I did a Turkish Bath and I felt like I  was reborn afterwards – by far the best experience ever! (okay I might be a bit biased since having someone bathe you is not for everyone).  I was hesitant to go to the one of the local Hamams(places of Turkish Bath).  I had kept going back and forth on it and after reading that you have to fully undress and someone scrubs you down - Swedish massage, I’m there, but I just couldn’t bring myself to try it.  So, I figured I’d settle for a massage with the hotel spa.  While I was looking through the menu of options I was told that they have a Hamam in the spa for Turkish Baths.  Initially, I was like “nope, I’m a conservative  spa goer, not really sure about this being naked stuff”. Their staff did an excellent job of explaining to me that only one person can be in the Hamam at the time so there’s full privacy, no one else, and I can wear my bathing suit if it makes me more comfortable.  **Enter JayKishan: Do one thing that takes you out of your comfort zone every trip. ** And so, I put both feet in and jumped in! I have to give major kudos to the Renaissance Spa for the absolutely incredible staff that they have!

International Date Night! – By our last night my stomach was starting to feel somewhat functional – while I was getting all reborn at the Spa – my romantic husband(oh he’s going to kill me for saying that) But I think he deserves major points for this. Back to my story – So while I was gone he went and did some research and found out that the Istanbul Museum of Modern art has this great restaurant right on the Bosphorus and reserved us a table with a water view.  It’s one experience to be on the Bosphorus and an experience all its’ own sitting at a candle lit table taking in the lights of the city over dinner! From where I was sitting, I could see the lights from Topkapi Palace and the Blue Mosque, one of the most surreal moments I have had.  

Now it's time to go through all the pictures and get a few posted on here! 

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Istanbul Recap

I’ve been meaning to put up a recap of the trip to Turkey, so here it is! We visited Istanbul for about 4 days before we headed back to the good ole USA. I’ve bulleted my highlights below.

Visiting Istanbul in January means “VERY COLD” – not Polar Vortex cold like we just had here in the States - but still cold

English is NO ONE’s 1st language - it might not even be their 2nd or 3rd – but as long as you stick to some touristy areas your fine

I have now made a vow to never eat pizza internationally ever again! Here’s the story – After eating mainly Indian food for 2 weeks we were pretty excited to eat something other than Biryani, Manchurian or Sandwiches.  We found a cute Italian restaurant in Istanbul’s “posh/douchey” area and had what appeared to be just a regular Margarita pizza…WRONG – What followed was 4 days of agonizing pain.  For the remainder of the time, I pretty much just ate toast! Jaykishan got sick too but his stomach is clearly a lot stronger than mine so he was fine by day two.  We all know how I work.  Sadly, I experienced the rest of Istanbul in a much more reserved way. 

Turkish Tea!! The one thing that I found my stomach could handle after the pizza incident was a nice little cup of Turkish Tea! I’m addicted! I even bought some back with me! Cups and saucers and all!  I do need to work on my tea skills though, I attempted making it for Arjun when he came over – everything short of an epic fail but he gave me some for points for making an effort.

History, history, history, so much amazing history in this city – yes, places like India have way more history but it’s nice to go and experience the history of other countries and cultures.  We visited Topkapi Palace, Blue Mosque, Hagia Sophia, Grand Bazaar, Spice Bazaar and a few other places. Each and everyone was so incredible. I tried to catch every detail that I could on my camera. 

Istanbul was filled with a lot of “Once in a lifetime” type of moments so I’ve made another blog post to details those… more to come! 

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Turkish Apple Tea