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Lunch yesterday was this satisfying #homemade bowl of goodness. #sousvide pork belly, onsen tamago, with butter corn, bunashimeji, carrots and cherry tomatoes. Served with koshihikari rice. #homecooking #sansaire #f52grams
One of my fave photos from the weekend. @adrian_c also made a double chocolate cake for the celebration. I chipped in by making the cake bunting and putting the Lego boy holding a balloon on the cake. ✌
Happy First Birthday (and one year of parenting)!
23.10.14 marks one year misterdimples has been in our lives and also 365 days of parenting.
Cliche, but I think I speak for the hubbs when I say we never knew parenthood would bring us so much love and joy.
Daddy loves you more than he loves his favourite bak chor mee and Mummy loves you more than she loves her sashimi!
Back!
So here's a heads up for parents who go away for a long holiday while your kid is less than a year old. Your baby is unlikely to recognize you when you return! Yes, if you are imagining your baby locking eyes with you as if saying "oh mama you're back! I missed you!", and smiling widely when you see him/her again after a long time, pls stop yourself right there and save yourself some heartpain. Baby E looked at me like I was a stranger when I went back to get him after we got back from a 16 day holiday. I also thought his voice wasn't quite like what I remembered and that he grew taller. Thankfully it didn't take too long before he warmed up go me again. Phew. For the record, in retrospect, it was totally wise not bringing him along. We would have tortured both him and all of us. In more exciting news, yesterday (5 days before he turns ONE!) both the Hubbs and I witnessed E's first steps! It all happened quite quickly at my mum's place and took us all by surprise. He's still quite unstable in general but usually more than game to try taking a few steps unaided. Can't believe my baby is turning one soon! Yes, almost an entire year has gone by with me surviving on mostly interupted sleep!
Milestone!
So this weekend saw the bubs trying to stand over and over again. he's gotten fairly good at it. on a good try, he can stand for about 5 seconds before landing on his butt. He's always super happy with himself when he manages to stand, clapping and grinning gleefully!
This weekend, we also realised that he's now capable of playing peekaboo. By that I mean he is initiating the peekaboo game. He would pull up a for eg, a pillow and then swiftly bring it down to reveal himself to whomever who's a wiling playing party.
5 more days till we leave him at the in laws :( am really hoping that his facial baby eczema goes away by the time he turns one. maybe this stay at his granny's wld do him good. for some reason, his eczema worsens over the weekend which makes it so difficult to answer to granny when he gets dropped off on Monday mornings. sigh.
And the time has come...
And so, i abruptly ended last night's post cause the bubs was crying for milk. Yes, he still does wake up at about 12midnight and thereafter 1-2 times before 7.30am. I can count the number of times he has slept through the night since birth... with one hand.
I was in two minds the past 6 weeks, deciding whether or not to bring the bubs along to California. The heart said YES YES YES, the mind said NO NO NO. I polled singles, parents, males, females all to seek some assurance, input, thoughts about the decision I was about to make. 75% said NO. The rest said yes (all women, except 1 male whom I think was just playing mind games with me).
So, yes, if you read the last post, you would know that I have listened to my brain and the majority, and decided against bringing the bubs even though I will be missing him like CRAZY.
One of the reasons we opted for a long distance trip was because the hubbs insisted we not waste our miles. It was totally logical at the time we made the decision and totally illogical when I started thinking seriously about whether or not to bring the bubs.
I also had to contemplate 'weaning' at the back of my head. Going away for 16 days meant that I would likely have to wean the bubs off breastfeeding, likely for good. Already my supply isn't exactly that high, so I'm certain 16 days away from the bubs will either cut my supply totally, or bring it down to a trickle. I know some mothers have no issue pumping without latching but I'm not one of those.
Honestly, I am quite reluctant to stop the breastfeeding relationship. Mothers who have successfully breastfed (latched and not just pumped) would know the bond is indescribable in words. What's more, I realised about a week ago that I can recognise the signs of when the bub wants to nurse. He would come towards me and get into position by putting his legs on one side of my thigh and lying down on the other. Then he would wave his arms or try and lift my top indicating that he would like to nurse. Just thinking about it makes my heart cringe with guilt.
Having said that, I have endured a very painful start and lasted almost a year fully breastfeeding the bubs, which is 100% more than the 6 mths recommended by the WHO. So I'm trying to convince myself that I've done my part as a mother. 'Trying' being the key word here.
Sigh. Going to bawl big time after leaving the bubs at my in laws the night before we fly.
10.5+ mths update
I really ought to be a bit more disciplined in updating these milestones. they're flying by like nobody's business.
first and foremost, in 9 days, the little one turns 11 mths. both his bottom front teeth have emerged and grown taller. these past few days we've noticed he's also been drooling a lot more. could be that the top two front teeth are also making their way out. so far, the little one has made a few nips on my itty bitty bits while nursing. hurts but usually i just tell him no! today i raised my voice a little (hey it really hurt today), and he started wailing.
another big milestone update - evan has learnt how to clap! the week before he was still figuring it out and then suddenly last week, he successfully clapped! that cheeky vocal one makes sure he raises his voice and says AHHHH while clapping each time. it tickles all of us to no end.
today, my helped happily told me that evan can recognise the objects around him already. when we ask, where's the vegetable (poster), he would turn towards and glance/ point at it. Or, where's hickory dickory dock (again another poster), he would do the same! isn't it amazing?
in most impt news, i've decided, we wont be bringing him along to our big Cali Road Trip. Sigh.
30 is the new 20
My fingers and toes are crossed. Hoping 30s are the new 20s. I better be rocking this new decade. Also I think I'm going to go lie down now. The 30s are arriving in five minutes.
Milestone!
9.5mths and E's bottom right tooth is making an appearance!
8 months
My little mr dimples just turned 8 months last Monday. Been too long since I updated. After flipping from front to back, E was quick to learn how to flip back to front and also started trying to put his bum down to get himself to a seated position. E started sitting up on his own by about 6.5/7 mths. Now that he's 8 mths, he can somewhat crawl haphazardly. He can also pull himself up by the side of the playpen very quickly and attempt to move along the edges of the playpen. E sometimes tries to pull the 'ma look no hands!' stunt; he stands momentarily and falls with a plomp on his butt. We started him on solids on the 6th month. First he ate some purees but now he's having two meals of porridge a day. E also fell sick for the first time three weeks ago. Had a cough with phlegm and a runny nose. We put him on some Chinese meds n he got better after a week. No sight of teeth yet but you can see the gums turning whitish from teeth pushing through. And this eczema on the face, gosh, most persistent shit ever. I really do hope it goes away soon.
happy mother's day!
my very first mother's day! sometimes i am still amazed how ive graduated to be a mother. Being a mother to my little ball of sunshine has definitely made me appreciate my own mother tonnes more. so, here's a big thank you mom, for being the strongest woman I know. u are my inspiration to be the best i can for baby E. i love you!
First fall
My darling fell off the bed for the first time today. It had to happen under my watch of course.
The Hubbs put him on the bed and went to make breakfast while I continued with my make up. It did hit me that he looked a little too close to the edge of the bed. Plus the two bolsters in front of him meant he cldnt caterpillar crawl his way forward. But I brushed it aside and continued with my make up.
Soon I heard a loud thud. Next thing evan was on the floor (belly on the floor), i screamed, ran towards him, flailing my eye liner onto the floor and picked him up. Honestly I’ve been trying to recall how I flung it out of my hands but I can’t rmb! Evan didnt shed a tear and in fact when the hubbs rushed in, he even gave a little grin.
I was crazy traumatized and was shaking till we got to the car. I’m super grateful that I don’t think he hurt himself. Maybe jus a little bump on the forehead. Lesson learnt.
almost 6 mths!
time flies. so cliche but so true.
evan's turning 6 mths in a week and my, oh my, the little baby who was just 3.5kg at birth is now 9kg+. he's outgrown a number of outfits and we've upgraded to size L diapers!
getting him to sleep is still a challenge and he still wakes up at least twice during the night. While I'm used to it, there are nights where the interruptions are crazy and I end up being a walking zombie at work.
evan's also singing/shrieking alot more now. i've heard him just coo-ing for a good 3 minutes just before he wakes up in the morning too. it's too adorable.
we've also taken countless photos and videos of him. when we show him to them, he gets all smiley and excited.
wldn't it be awesome if we could bottle up these moments and enjoy them again when they're all grown up?
Almost 5 and a half months old now. E is starting to put things into his mouth. Most of the times, he’s sucking on his own fingers but today as I was reading 8 days to him, he tore a page and tried tasting it. Yummay!
Breastfeeding and pumping in Taipei
Ever since becoming a mum, I realised there are so many issues that mothers face or situations that we put up with, that don't ever get discussed or highlighted, be it in the workplace or in society. And I'm sure fellow mums can attest that there is very limited time mums can spend whining and complaining about problems while trying our best to multitask between work/housework, taking care of our kids etc. In the end, we just make the best out of things, like pumping in the storeroom/toilet because there just isn't a nursing room in the office. That's a story for another day though.
Today, I hope my little blog post here can make travelling nursing mothers' lives a little easier. The info here will probably be a little limited but I think you'll take whatever you can get. Just to set the scene right, I travelled Singapore to Taipei via Scoot and I was travelling without my 4-month old. I am still exclusively breastfeeding the little one and wanted to ensure my supply wouldn't drop while I was away from him. Also, I wanted to save as much of what I pumped as possible. Pumping and dumping is a horrible, horrible feeling which I hope you won't ever have to experience.
In the US, there's apparently no restriction on the amount of BM you can bring on board. It's considered under a 'special medication' category so you're not even restricted to the limitations of 100ml x 10 packs/bottles. When I called Scoot to check, they said I had to stick to the 100 x 10 limits. Also, absolutely no one could confirm with me that bringing an ice pack on was allowed. [Side note: Scoot's customer service is really crappy. It takes forever to get to any of their customer service staff via the phone and I sent an email asking about icepacks and expressing BM which was NEVER replied to]
1. Bringing ice packs/gel packs and breastmilk (BM) on board
On my way to Taipei, I had frozen my ice pack that came with my Medela breast pump in anticipation that I would pump and store my BM during the flight. However, at the very last minute, I called a friend and she suggested I check it in since I had no milk (before boarding) to prove that I was indeed chilling milk. An alternative was to pump a little milk before boarding so at least I could justify the icepack. I didn't quite want to risk it, so I checked the icepack in. As a result, I had to dump all the BM expressed on route to Taipei. Heartaching.
In retrospect, I think I should and could have done that because I didn't face any issues at all at Taipei airport. I had 2 bottles of BM less than 100ml each and also a Medela ice pack. I packed it all in my Medela Breastpump bag and the entire bag went through security with no issues. This allowed me to store all the milk I pumped on board.
Learning: Ice packs shdn't be an issue but to play safe, make sure you have some expressed BM in the bottles.
2. Pumping in Taipei city
Before heading to Taipei, I did some research on my own and realised that actually the Taiwanese are quite pro-nursing. They have nursing rooms in the airport, in some key metro stations (useful map here) and also in major departmental stores.
I used the one at Breeze Centre and was really impressed with it. A pity I forgot to take pictures. There was a receptionist who could help with any questions you have. The room was equipped with two changing stations, two very comfy cubicles for pumping, a sink for washing, pump accessories detergent (!), child-safe soap (!), paper cups, hot and cold water dispenser and even a waiting area for family members. Cleanliness and hygiene was 5/5. Best ever nursing room I've seen. I was really impressed.
Another useful resource is Madeline's blog here. She's visited a couple other nursing rooms in Taipei and reviewed them. Madeline was super helpful too. I had some questions before I left and she promptly helped me as best as she could.
As a side note, there are nursing rooms in Changi Airport as well but just be aware that you won't be the only one looking for a nursing room.
3. Storing and shipping back your precious BM
I was lucky to stay in a room with a small fridge (note: not a bar fridge) with its own freezer compartment cold enough to freeze my BM solid. Any decent hotel should be able to accommodate your request to use their freezers though, so don't be afraid to ask. I would email them to confirm before booking the hotel though.
I also brought along a fridge-to-go, numerous large ziploc bags and a couple more ice packs. Night before we left, I chucked the fridge-to-go plus my ice packs in the freezer. Just before we checked out of the hotel, we managed to put all the packets of milk into the fridge-to-go together with a few ice packs (just to be safe). We then put the entire fridge-to-go into one large ziploc bag, so that condensation wouldn't wet other items in your luggage.
The entire journey took about 8 hours door to door and I'm very lucky the packs were still frozen solid when we got home.
4. Pumping on board
I never imagined I would express on board, right where I sat. But a mother's got to do what a mother's got to do. Bring your trusty nursing apron along, put your pump on your lap and pump away. Bring loads of tissue and wet wipes, and it definitely helps to have family sit on your left and right to pass you stuff under the apron. Better yet, if you can get a window seat, you'll probably have more privacy. Remember you'll never bump into your fellow passengers again, so just heck it and pump.
There, I hope this very long post on travelling as a breastfeeding mother without baby helps someone out there. Please do feel free to drop me a note if you have further questions and I'll be happy to help if I can. :)
Toss and turn
Baby E started being able to flip him from back to front at just shy of 4 months. Once he could do that, he started sleeping on his chest instead of his back more frequently. Now that he's turning 5 mths next week, E is starting to caterpillar crawl his way from one end of the bed to another. Today, for the first time I saw him flip from front to back as well. E's also starting to gurgle alot more. Sometimes he's super chatty and is happy to explore different pitches. Sometimes he's super grouchy and whines a whole lot. We will be starting him on solids once he hits the sixth month mark. That should be uber fun!
Missing the bubs
Now I finally understand what it feels like to miss someone before you've even left. I miss the bubs like maaaad. Gee. How am I going to survive San Fran like this? Also, pumping and dumping is a horrible, horrible feeling. And just to cap it all off, flight to Taipei is delayed by 3 hrs.