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@petalsandprincesses
2023
Recently finished an intro summer course for German and it was awesome!! Randomly got the urge to review Latin - I took one year of Latin in my first year of university, when I thought I'd major in classics - and I've been having fun with that as well as revisiting Russian. Feeling very fulfilled and I hope this blanket of tranquility and satisfaction continues on.
One thing I've truly learned later than I'd have liked to is that if there's anything you want to do - just do it now! Want to read? Pick up that book you've been thinking about. Want to learn a language? Find an online resource and play around with that. Want to tell someone you love them? Go on and tell them. Life is short, time is limited, and nothing is promised. If you want it, do it now. And since life isn't usually so simple, you can always take small steps and plan for the time to do these things. What I'm really trying to say is that it's your life and I hope you're able to do the things you want and especially the things that bring you joy.
you can start learning anything you always wanted at any point in your life. & how nice it is to remember that
stoic ideas that will improve your life
✨ what is stoicism? stoicism is a philosophy that seeks to cultivate virtue, reason, and mindfulness through our will and discipline. practicing stoicism means accepting reality as it is without trying to change it. it means accepting that we cannot control everything in our lives, but that we can control how we react to the things that happen around us.
✨ some benefits
improvement of our mental health.
increased ability to concentrate, and clarity of thought.
better self-control to resist the desire and distractions of others.
✨ stoic ideas to improve your life
live in the present moment, do not leave anything for later. value what you have, and take care of your company.
recognize your mistakes. work on your areas of improvement. making mistakes is not important, it is important to rectify them, look for solutions and work on continuous improvement, learn from each mistake made.
we humans are not so different, we share feelings and emotions. we are all part of the same essence. practicing empathy is healthy.
nothing is good or bad. the important thing is not what happens to us, which is inevitable and neutral, but how we interpret and deal with each situation. it is a matter of perspective. what happens is right. the important thing is to understand, using reason, to find out what we can do and to accept without resistance what does not depend on us.
anything can happen, but if it hasn't happened, don't get ahead of yourself and don't anticipate pain that may not come.
writing a diary. according to the stoics, it is a good habit to dedicate some time each day to reflect in writing, which helps to reflect on the actions of each day and to be more vigilant with ourselves.
contact with nature. breathing fresh air, walking in the environment, enjoying the outdoors and getting in touch with ourselves is an effective way to quiet the mind.
work every day, build slowly. don't procrastinate.
we need very little. we have much more than we need, we do and say more than we need to. it would be good to question this, we would have more time for what is essential and more peace of mind. eliminate what is not necessary.
just because things don't go your way doesn't mean they go wrong. find a learning experience in every experience you think is negative. in reality, it is not. the negative is your attitude and you can change it. don't waste your experiences.
i am learning about this philosophy and many others. the smart thing to do is to keep what we can apply to our life to improve it. if there is something you don't agree with, discard it and keep what resonates with you.
ideas to work on during your self-improvement journey [that girl]
1. body language— both reading and practicing (perfect for those of you who are verbally awkward)
2. being more exclusive with your time, effort, energy, and presence
3. finding a theme or mantra during your self development journey— it helps if you are someone that finds quotes and words helpful and as reminders
4. strengthening your life skills such as cooking, baking, cleaning, budgeting, shopping smart, self-defense, etc.
5. evaluating your boundaries and communicating your boundaries
6. not letting anxiety or depression become who you are and defining you as a person
7. learning how to enjoy being alone without feeling lonely
8. identifying self-destructive behaviors such as taking toxic exes back or self-sabotaging
9. becoming more bold with the actions you take towards something you really want aka going for it with your whole heart
10. not letting rejection hit you personally. it’s okay that we’re not a right fit for someone just like it’s okay when they’re not a right fit for us— that doesn’t mean we think horrible things about them and vice versa so stop taking rejection personally
11. not getting attached prematurely
12. not pushing anyone away once we feel like we’re becoming close
13. setting standards for yourself and who + what comes into your life
join my self-development membership page here that has dozens of free ebooks that i’ve purchased, 2.5 hours of leveling up audio content that i don’t post on tumblr, and the addition of weekly content uploaded every wednesday or thursday 🤍
Taken from: Discourses, Fragments, Handbook - Epictetus, Robin Hard
Resources: Books for Networking
Books to build your networking skills shouldn’t just be soft skill books on communication and small talk. You may meet people of different backgrounds and cultures. You might be attending a diverse networking conference; studying at a multi-cultural university; or dealing with clients from all over the world. How do you connect to them? You need to know a little history of where the other person is from, to able to have a great initial conversation. It shows interest and respect.
I highly recommend this book (pictured below). Yes, its a little textbook-y but its short, crisp and to the point.
It’s essentially just quick info on every single country. If you go through it diligently and meet someone say from Latvia, you may be able to recall that Latvia was annexed by the Soviet Union in the 40s, majorly practice Lutheran and mainly export timber, metals and garments. If you can use these facts smartly in a conversation with the other person, there will be a feeling of genuine joy of knowing at least a little bit of their country and they’ll be eager to share more with you. You’ll be able to ask interesting questions and get to learn things from the other person. There’s a good chance of the person remembering you for knowing even 0.5% of where they’re from.
History, culture and religion draw people to each other more than you think. What’s important is being respectful of everyone’s opinions, understanding the world doesn’t revolve around you and being open to hearing the other person’s experience. What the media shows vs what the citizen experiences, you may realise, are two completely different things.
My hobbies of 2023:
Knitting
Crocheting
Reading (classics, history, math/physics)
Languages (Russian, German)
What I'm Implementing
Digital minimalism
Stoicism
Intensive study periods
Learning to code
entering in my nyc rich girl era..
i’m learning another language
i’m shopping at the best stores
i’m using the best skincare products for my face and body
i’m eating the best, nutritious foods
i’m traveling to the hottest locations
i’m buying quality over quantity
i’m working out daily (pilates, barre, cycling)
i’m reading classic literature
i’m looking model ready
i’m dressing up for every occasion, big or small
i’m being high maintence
i’m in touch with high-end fashion
i’m meeting high profile individuals
i’m creating luxury around me
i’m working on a successful brand
i’m drinking the nicest champagne
i’m getting my weekly and monthly beauty treatments
i’m spoiling myself with whatever i want, whenever i want it
i will no longer be embarrassed i will no longer be a victim of insecurity i will no longer plague my mind with worries i exist i am allowed to exist i am allowed to take up space i will not let others dictate my experience i will live i will live i will live
At my core I need to shut the hell up and read a short novel that changes me forever
girl help i’m starting over again for the 1000th time & i’m beginning to think that life is a never-ending cycle of starting over & i actually have to make peace with that in order to move forward
the idiot - dostoyevsky