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AO3 25 | They/He | Artist | Author & fanfic lover Lolita Fashion | Cosplayer | Prop Maker | RWBY | BNHA | D&D | DID | Witchcraft | Queer & Disability pride Love of my life: @dubiouswizard💍 Icon by @clairiko

[phantomkinoc13]

2026 updated Pinned Post:

Link to my AO3

I write/post: (on ao3)

*Main Fandoms: MHA, Link Click, Star Wars (the clone wars), Jujutsu Kaisen, RWBY.

What I Post: (here on [tumblr])

-My Hero Academia (Bakudeku & Touya/Dabi Todoroki mostly)

-Link Click (ShiGuang my beloved)

-Hermitcraft & The Life Series

-Ethoslab

-Jujutsu Kaisen (SatoSugu mostly)

-RWBY (when will my love return from hiatus)

-Star Wars (the clone wars, mostly)

-Stardew Valley

-Animal Crossing

-Other games (Hades, Outlast, LOZ, Minecraft, etc)

-I’m also a fanfic writer, and do occasional fanart!

(Non-Fandom Specific)

-Dungeons & Dragons

-Real Art (by real people)

-Crafts/Crafting

-DID/Autism/Mental illness content

-Chronic illness & disability content

-Cute Animals

-Dolls (& doll fashion)

-Lolita Fashion

-Queer, Trans, and Kink content

And finally… My 2026 Goals Bingo!

[dandeliont3aandsageleaves]

"Brennan is the best game changer contestant" this "Brennan is so competitive" that

Okay well I've never watched in fear as Brennan hit a bong full of whisky for a game changer now have I

[aurpiment]

“It’s easy to assume”: someone’s misconception is about to be amiably corrected

“It’s tempting to assume”: someone’s assumption is about to be criticized

“It’s comforting to assume”: someone’s assumption is going to be read for filth

[hthrrloooo]

Catastrophize Benedictine

[tomatohorse]

Ethos 😛😛

[thebattybunch]

You heard the man 

[quinoaphoenicks]

I love you guys but I think a lot of you are the kind of people who are susceptible to falling in with a cult.

[teaboot]

You’re right. We should all band together under a trustworthy and influential leader who can keep us safe from outside threats

[oceanicpride]

Rainbow High Pretty in Paris

[oceanicpride]

Zuru MINNEE World’s Smallest Posable Fashion Dolls series 1

Price: $14.99

[cricketandmouse]

They’re passive aggressively cleaning each others faces in the banana bed rn

[cricketandmouse]

peace and love on planet earth….

[fforsythiaaa]

Once when I was in undergrad, someone described something as “problematic” in class and our professor was like, “That’s cool, but ‘problematic’ doesn’t really mean anything. It means that the thing you’re describing has a problem, and in and of itself that’s not bad. Art, especially, should always have problems, or else it’s not interesting and not art, either. It sounds like you’re trying to say that this is bad, but you don’t want to say ‘bad.’ Is that right?”

So from then on whenever one of us called something problematic, he would make us talk it out until we could name the “bad” thing we were hinting at. In this particular class, 7/10 it was some type of oppression, and the remainder was like, “I’m uncomfortable because this is very new/confusing/pushing boundaries that made me feel safe.”

Once we stopped calling things “problematic” and stopping at that, class got way more interesting and... we all had to say, like, “that’s racist” or “that’s misogynistic” or “ew capitalism gross” out loud, which a lot of us had never done in a classroom before. Or we had to be like, “Uhhh... I’m not sure what’s so bad?” and confront our own beliefs and that was maybe even more useful.

Anyway. Whenever I see the word problematic, I can’t help but think of this professor being like, “Good starting point, now let’s get specific.” I think when we have to commit to saying “that’s ___” it requires a lot more careful thought about the truth and impact and complexities of whatever we’re claiming. Sometimes there really is some bullshit afoot, and also sometimes it’s art, and it should be full of problems, because that’s what art is.

[ilynpilled]

a character being a perpetrator does not negate their victimhood and neither does their victimhood negate being a perpetrator. u can accept and reckon w both dimensions in ur analysis

[ilynpilled]

there is nothing morally purifying about suffering or victimhood, it is not something that inculcates “goodness.”

one’s character has no impact on whether they were/are a victim or not, victim status is not something that is only afforded to the palatable.

it also does not = absolution.

[ilynpilled]

ppl cant handle this in cartoons made for teenagers lets not get ahead of ourselves

[a-new-dawn]

[ID: tags reading: "#I'm not sure some of you are going to be able to handle the next step (realizing this also applies IRL)" /End ID]

[commodorecliche]

“bi culture is remembering you’re unfortunately attracted to boys” - no it’s not. literally fuck off. 

you do not speak for all bisexuals. you likely don’t speak for most bisexuals. stopping shitting on boys for doing nothing more than existing. 

i want any and all boys to know that you are great, and you do not deserve this constant bs. you are not horrible just because you are a boy. and i am so sorry that this sentiment seems to be so grossly pervasive on tumblr and twitter. 

[saint-ambrosef]

what "no sugar added" should mean: the natural sugars of the other ingredients like fruit are the only source of sweetness in this product

what is actually means: we added a fuckton of artificial sweeteners

[saint-ambrosef]

i see we are all angry about this

[phantomkinoc13]

STEVIA TASTES BAD. IT TASTES BAD AND I’M TIRED OF PRETENDING IT DOESN’T

[phantomkinoc13]

Every now and then i still see a post about how Steven Universe is ‘problematic’ and i just know that those people really do think they’re smarter than everyone while sooo actively missing the point of this kids’ show. Like idk how to get this across but you sound so deeply unserious that i will not be swayed by literally any other opinion you have.

[rydart]

Dabi's dance ss redraw

[country-bumpkin-cutie]

Lover boys! 💕