picmixing & nuancing

cw: increasingly personal laysplaining club penguin, fandoms, voicenotes, scrungly art/pics

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lay/layla // 28yo // disabled dyke from ontario

crazy bun mom who dreams of being a ⭐ !!!

the not-so-private diary & media analysis blog of @nuancefem. follow at your own risk, my rambles are endless and shameless.

really into animated media, kdramas, and uuhhhhhhh

buns. 🐇🐇🐇

current state: full-time job as tech support, slowly paying off a bunch of debt. working on my video series, trying to write more on medium & substack, and doing deep spring cleaning. #dykebossing

(mostly og posts or bonk me w/ clown hammer)

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so satisfying to update my bio status :']

i'm doing the damn thang!!!!!!!! slowly... but surely!

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should i do a side hustle... (vomits and passes out)

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i will wait until next spring i think....... and then do the legal transcription degree that takes like. 3 months. that'll be a good side hustle. and sometimes try to do voice acting on the side in the meantime.

it's tough bc i always try my best to push myself even with a full-time job bc i still have SOOOO much debt and money is still tight even with a decent-ish wage. but ngl the freelancing world hurt me sooooo bad ;w; like. jfc. it underpays you so much w/ super high expectations and really tight deadlines. it's so not worth it. but in canada ppl in the legal world can only hire certified legal transcriptionists so i think it'll be a good way to get a healthier side gig, and i can do it in french too!! $$$$

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save me costco microwave ramen..... save me...... just today, tmrw & the day after and then FIVE DAYS OFF for my valentine's trip including 3 paid days 🤩

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wow my bio on here is so beautifully outdated now i'm actually very very emotional abt my growth. i was calling my darling friend mint the other day and we both got emotional abt it on call bc she saw me go through so much and i mean SO MUCH shit. and now i'm finally out of the dark pit. i mean i'm as damp as a moldy towel in a broken washing machine and i'm still finishing repairing the washing machine so i can have a whimsical normal life for the first time ever, but holy shit. so many life goals reached stability-wise and community-wise!!! yeehaw

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no thoughts just mud

no thoughts just mud

no thoughts just mud

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i love ignoring my gf bc it makes her get so clingy and then she punishes me later for ignoring her... either way what bliss... and she doesn't even know that all i've been doing is writing for her and drawing for her. bc if she did she'd tease me that i'm obsessed with her and bully me lesboerotically. this is payback for her unforgivable crimes

[tsukinohana]

little rec chart i made today!

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why does my therapist's weekly poll that i gotta do include me needing to rate my sex life... it went from 2 stars to 10 the past month and now i need to click the "yup i still fuck" button weekly????? i feel like if it goes down she'll be like "has ur gf been too busy...?"

[eli---y-blog]

[straightboyfriend]

my favorite AITA ruling comments

[swordmouse]

I’m a fan of this one.

[quaranmine]

would like to add this one

[leofwines-deactivated20250831]

thos video is killinh me

[sukinapan]

friendgroup call

[sforzzz]

i am so tired of being lame i need to be cooler NOW

[sforzzz]

I Will Win At Being Cool And Make A Million People Think I Am So Smart And Creative

[maggiecheung]

When Harry Met Sally..., 1989 dir. Rob Reiner

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should i do a side hustle... (vomits and passes out)

[eleilinnrallin]

This is a reminder for those who handmake Christmas presents that now is not too early to start. It may in fact be a good time to start if you have a lot to make/your craft takes a long time. You should maybe start it now, whether that's brainstorming or actually doing the crafts!

[newtsoftheworldunite]

Translating this into tumblr's preferred public service announcement format for this kind of alert: