Competence in a skill is so hot. Watching a girl being able to work something out, problem-solve, shape something with her fingers. All it does is make me wonder what they would look like dumb for me, with all the accountability and responsibility temporarily stripped from them. Trust me with a finger and I'll break it for you my dear, but only because it's what's best for you. What you need deep down sweetheart, a respite.















