#1 restraint kink fan @pinusgirl - Tumblr Blog

some things about me!

late 20s

vers switch

bisexual

trans woman

autistic

loves pain :)

#1 restraint kink fan

mostly going to share very autistic lewds but also might write some smut again. we'll see!

a lot of what I used to write had themes of sexualizing ableism, which is such a criminally underrated kink that everyone loves. i haven't been doing so much themed stuff but it's always present. the kink I like often plays with consent, like cnc, somno, and overstim.

minors do not interact thanks

perverts please interact thanks

I like DMing people. I like being porn for people. I like playing and even meeting up. Here's some advice on talking with me:

I am autistic and a slut. You're going to want to be upfront about what you want and chances are I'll be stoked to please you.

Just messaging "hi" is annoying. I'll probably assume you're spam if we're not mutuals already.

It's okay to lead with something horny. This is a horny blog. I'm expecting that.

If you're disrespectful to me, I'll let you know. I assume good intent. If you make it clear you suck, you're probably getting blocked.

I don't check this Tumblr super often. If you want to dm kinda often, ask for my discord or something.

If you have a kink that I don't have listed that you want to play around with me, I'm not offended if you ask about it. You could ask me about one of the most triggering things for me and I'll just politely decline.

And here is the #pinusgirl #promise on me DMing you:

I'm going to check your likes/limits/etc. so I don't dm you something you don't like or find repulsive. Not everyone is into the same shit. That does not bother me!

I will communicate my limits.

I never expect immediate responses! I usually like dynamics where each person is allowed to send stuff and there's no pressure to respond--ever, even.

If it's been awhile of no response, though, I usually interpret that as a "I don't want to sext anymore." That's chill! I'm also chill with people trying to restart a dynamic. I literally have sexual trauma and have gone through cycles of hyper/hyposexuality. I get it lol.

"sugar daddy" asks automatically deleted. 99% of you are scammers. the other 1% of you can donate directly to Gaza instead :)

geeheartsu

i don’t wanna face the world can i please bury my face in your tits instead

#this is a rest stop for mutuals uhhh keep your face there as long as you’d like cause i got nothing going on the rest of the night #<-prev #okay <3 #yay <3

houndmother

fuck okay so. as part of all of this shit. each and every one of us needs to get really fucking comfortable saying no when they mean no. we all need to be able to say no when we don’t want something. sexual or otherwise. but as part of that! every single one of us needs to work actively to create an environment where others feel comfortable and safe telling us no. we need to be prepared to not have it a big deal when someone says no to something. we need to be prepared to reassure someone who is insecure or apologetic about not wanting something. we need to make it safe to say no if we want to be sex positive.

yodaprod

1993

#yeah i'll reblog that

segamascott

#genuinely how i sound i fear

boringkate

Me: *touching my girlfriend*

My girlfriend: *touching me*

Me (thinking to myself): This is so fucked up of me. I'm being so selfish rn. I'm getting to feel her touch AND to touch her. What's she even getting in return? Probably nothing comparable.