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17 | queer | hmu bro | she/they

[piper-y]

*incoherent screaming and cursing*

[all-thingz-nasty]

making out with a sub and hearing their whimpers as they get needier by the minute, gripping their waist even tighter as they squirm and beg for me to touch them

[faewaren]

Nicknames: when you shorten someone’s name affectionately

Nicholasnames: when you elongate someone’s name affectionately

[5oil]

[fairydrowning]

"I could fix him", "I could make him worse". Well, I could bottle the sound of his laugh and get drunk on it every night <3.

-Via "chaos-and-academia"

[fukkce]

“You smell good” is in my top 5 for fav compliments

[iapheth]

[1617]

You’d look cuter laying by my side right now but whatever

[aaaangel444]

[rabbit-rage]

whoever is writing my life has got mad writers block bc wtf am i doing

[espresomartini]

listening to the same music i used to listen when i was 14-15 is something else i'm still her i'm nothing like her anymore she knew everything she knew nothing she was so right she was so wrong

[piper-y]

yk when you meet someone and you just click 

like there arent a ton of butterflies or anything, you just get along so well and it feels like you already know each other and it feels like even if you dont end up with this person long term you guy will be friends or smth 

thats the good shit right there

[juansendizon]

“Two souls growing together with appreciation for each other. That’s the most beautiful kind of love.”

— Juansen Dizon

[somethingacademia]

people who know random things are so platonically attractive to me like yes let me be your best friend tell me about the history of liquid soap

[skunkes]

[95wonder]

No. I know this is probably just a casual commiseration but I think it's a real and important question to ask and answer. If doing the stuff you're expected to do everyday is super hard, then something is probably wrong.

Anyone who relates to this too hard, I'd recommend looking up spoon theory and starting to make a record of how you feel and your experiences that you can bring up with some kind of health professional. Chances are if doing laundry feels like climbing everest, it's because you're disabled in some way. Whether that disability is some invisible chronic illness or depression or ADHD or burnout, *something* is wrong.

Almost all disabilities have some form of treatment or accommodation that can make your life easier. If you can get a diagnosis, you might also be eligible for official accommodations and benefits. Social security sucks ass and is almost impossible to access but like, it's not the only thing out there set up to help disabled folks and usually local organizations are gonna be better anyway.

Plenty of people reblogging this probably already know they're disabled in some way but if even 1 person sees this and can learn something important about themselves then it's worth saying.

TLDR: people who aren't disabled don't find acts of daily living extremely hard. Maybe look into that and see if you can get help making your life less hard.

Sincerely, a multiply disabled person.

[kiricat]

This is super important okay. Like, I used to try to ask my conservative family/church/etc. for help, and they’d just be all, “suck it up; life is hard for everyone; quit being such a baby”... and then I went to, like, actual experts, and they were basically like, “um, wow, you’re clearly super depressed and suicidal; you should actually be proud of yourself for still being alive!” And I’m still trying to unlearn the former and accept the latter, even after all this time. And I’m so mad that I’ve wasted so much time just trying to “push through it” instead of getting help I clearly need(ed), and that’s still a thing I struggle with.

Please, please seek real help if you need it. Like, I understand that there are shitty doctors and shitty therapists and whatnot, but it’s so worth expending what effort you can to find good ones who can help. If you have mentally ill friends -- which, if you’re reading this in the first place, you almost certainly do -- they might be able to point you in the right direction.

[ledeadface]

[ID: a screenshot from the Too Afraid to Ask reddit that reads: "How do people just so stuff? Is life not incredibly hard for everyone?" /end ID]

[eatember]

I have a friend with insane ADD and we have this same conversation sometimes

She can't actually even define laziness (which is weird) but she thought she was just lazy, life was that hard for everyone, and that everyone else was just being more responsible at managing it. I told her laziness feels good once and she blue screened.

Like if you can't define laziness, you've probably been convinced it's something that it's not. Probably something nebulous and hard to describe. Like, idk, an unknown disorder.

In case you're one such person, laziness feels great. It's not stressful. It's like the opposite of stressful. If you're being stressed and lazy at the same time you've managed to do it wrong somehow. The only struggle in being lazy is wanting the tv remote and being to darn comfortable to want to move. (But you get it anyways, because it's not an inability to get the remote. You were just cozy.)

Think of it like a cat sitting near a warm heater or a hamster so relaxed it "melts". If there were danger, or if the animal were hungry, it would get up. It probably doesn't want to get up because it's comfortable but it will. If the hamster is actually genuinely hungry but it can't get up and it's just laying there stressed and starving, you would take your animal to the vet because it has a problem.

[shamelesslymkp]

...what

[lyinginbedmon]

Actually talking to my GP about having maybe 3 hours per day of useful cognition, when previously in my younger years I had more like 6, was what started my current diagnostic process for not only fatigue but chronic joint pain as well. All because I figured it was worth investigating instead of just writing it off as normal from getting older.

[biiigwinged]

Laziness feels... good???

[weltenwellen]

Emotionally I think I really need it to be autumn

[tear-dropp-deactivated20241031]

"this song reminded me of u" ok so marry me